If your child is slapped by the teacher, do you agree that the child will fight back on the spot? Why?

Please note that the verb used by the subject is "slap in the face". Which parent can stand their children being beaten like this?

When I was in the first grade, I once met a teacher, which I will never forget. One day, the teacher assigned homework and asked me to copy the new words in the book in class in the afternoon. When I got home at noon, I copied those new words. In the afternoon class, I was reading a book, and I didn't copy the new words, so the teacher saw me. I was called by the teacher, and I was called without even asking. At that time, I was deceived at once. I don't know what happened. Thirty years have passed, and I still can't forget it. If my child is punished like this now, I must beat him back, even harder than his!

Let's look at this behavior first. The child must have made a mistake before he was punished by the teacher. Although the teacher educates students from the perspective of education, the teacher is the mentor of the soul and teaches and educates people. If a child is rudely educated because of his own mistakes, we should not only fan him back, but also hand him over to the public security organs. Imagine if his behavior is different from that of the black society.

I don't object to the teacher's corporal punishment to correct the students' wrong behavior, but only to the punishment methods that don't harm the students' physical and mental health, such as standing up and slapping. After all, teachers have no law enforcement power, let alone the power to kill and seize things!

Of course you can't call back. If you call your son, should he call back? Of course not!

From an early age, I taught my children to respect their elders and never fight back. My son spanked me for the first time when he was three years old. I made him cry and told him not to do anything to his elders, and neither could his parents! ! ! Now whenever I spank him, he won't have the slightest idea to fight back, but when a classmate spanks him, he will definitely fight back.

So is the teacher. Are there fewer and fewer people who don't respect teachers now? Teachers are the elders who teach and educate people. To a certain extent, his position is the same as your parents'! You deserve respect. If you don't do well, the teacher will punish you appropriately. Except for a few really bad teachers who thought it must be the scene at that time. The child should fight. If I were you, I would hit the child and I wouldn't be wronged.

Therefore, children should endure to reflect on their mistakes, strive to improve, and even want to hit the teacher. Where did you throw away the traditional virtues of respecting teachers and respecting the elderly and loving the young? If you can fight back, you will grow into a despised scum!

It's particularly difficult to answer. Think twice before you think again.

Because I have been a good girl since I was a child, my parents never hit me. My mother can only nag in class, and there will be no swearing or particularly excessive words! My father always encourages us and gives us anything we want. When preparing for the college entrance examination, he was called by his parents for the first time because of his playful performance. My father came, not talking about me, and brought me a lot of snacks. I'm ashamed. I feel worse than hitting me. I dare not fight again.

Under this background and premise, the teacher hit me or slapped me in the face. I can't accept it at all. I can't stand it psychologically. I am tired of learning and the world, and I feel ashamed. This hurts my self-esteem!

When I was in the fourth grade, a male teacher came, only 2 1 year old. The teaching quality is particularly poor, and I like to insult students and vent my anger. It's especially ugly to scold students every day, and you will hit people. For example, he called his classmates to the podium, put a clip on his ear, nose and face, and insulted them in a class ... Generally, he would pick a short, honest male classmate to bully him. Once he bullied my head when he was in a bad mood. He poked me in the head with his pointer and poked me several times. I squinted at him and made him angry. He poked me in the shoulder with his pointer and shouted, are you unconvinced? I was about 1.6 meters tall, 100 kg, just like an adult! That teacher is less than 1.7 meters! I have been whispering in my mind that if I fight him, I can't beat him! He's still poking me. The whole class was watching me confront my teacher. I turned and walked away from the door behind the classroom!

An honest man has a stubborn temper. He didn't expect an introvert like me to resist and walk away. I was afraid to go home after I ran away. I wandered outside until noon and wanted to go home and tell my mother that I was humiliated by my teacher. When I got home, there were two female classmates at home. It turned out that the teacher was worried about my disappearance and had to take responsibility, so he asked two students to come to me. They told my mother the reason in advance, and they knew that teachers always bullied and abused their classmates for no reason. My mother was not angry with me and went to see the teacher and the principal this afternoon! The headmaster argued with my mother for a long time outside, and finally came to nothing, asking the teacher to apologize to me in the classroom. Later, the teacher didn't dare to insult other students. The teacher only taught for a year and then disappeared.

In the third grade, the geography teacher in the class often likes to hit people, and the physical education Committee member was beaten up by the geography teacher, who turned his back on the podium! The sports committee jumped up and kicked the teacher out of the distance ~ The whole class was boiling. Watching them fight, the sports committee won. Finally, it was found by parents, and finally it went away. The head teacher in the next class always beats the students. On that occasion, the student broke out and dragged him to see the principal, saying that he physically punished the student. He grabbed the doorframe and sobbed and said with tears that the exam was coming soon ... begging the students not to send him to the headmaster and ensuring that they would never beat talents again.

I don't have children yet, if there are. My children should have the same personality as me and my lover. My wife is also introverted, and she studied well since childhood, all the way from key junior high school to No.1 middle school, to 985, to graduate students. The teacher never scolded him, nor did his parents. Our children should be like this in theory. Such a child won't drive the teacher crazy, will it? Unless it's intentional abuse.

If my child is a naughty boy and doesn't study well, the teacher will educate him and beat him for his own good. Understandable, but slapping will make children lose their self-esteem and self-love. I don't agree. It's okay to clap your hands.

If I just take my child as a punching bag, I don't blame him if he strikes back!

Quite contradictory, is the child a Xiong Haizi who can drive the teacher's parents crazy? What are the reasons for hitting the child and what is the teacher's moral character? He often takes pleasure in insulting students! Or a good teacher who is very dedicated to his students and hates iron and steel?

Think it over! Specific analysis of specific things.

If it were my child, I wouldn't.

This is a question of customary identity. I was slapped by my teacher when I was a child. At that time, it was natural for teachers to hit students. When parents send their children to school, they will say to the teacher: Teacher, you should pay more attention, and the children will fight if they don't obey!

Teachers will not single out naughty students, and students with poor grades will also be beaten. Students with good grades still play even if they don't rely on it, so it is natural for students to be beaten.

But times are different now. Now, children grow up under the care of their parents and schools. No matter who hits people, it is wrong. This is the truth in the child's consciousness.

Resolutely support the children to call back, tell me when they get home, and then I will hit the teacher.

Maybe everyone thinks my answer is extreme, but it depends. I said that the child is innocent and has done nothing wrong.

I trust my children because I have experienced it myself.

My junior high school head teacher is very abnormal and especially likes the "sweet" boys in the class. Note that I said "sweet". My deskmate in junior high school is like Yao Wei in Eric Suen Yiu Wai. To be honest, I really despise this type, but I have a good relationship with my deskmate. As a result, one day she called me out of the classroom and asked me in the corridor if we were in love. I said no, and she said. ! ! I don't admit it because I didn't. As a result, a few big mouths came up, and the students in the next class happened to pass by physical education class. At that time, the male god I liked happened to be in the next class ... It was really a grievance, but I was educated by my parents at that time. I went home and told my parents that my parents didn't believe me and said that I must have done something wrong ... but I was bitter and began to feel resistant, which was reflected in my high school.

When I was in high school, when there was an instructor, I caught some things about my mother-in-law, such as being late, having long hair, dyeing my hair, fighting, contacting with other schools, etc ... At that time, when I lived on campus, I always felt that the instructor's eyes were very picky, looking me up and down, which was very uncomfortable, but I couldn't find anything wrong. Finally, my mother came to see me, and it broke out, saying that I called the school public phone every day, fell in love and so on. When I was in junior high school, I felt very hurt and regretted (regretting that I was too good and didn't fight back to the teacher). It's generated. In my dormitory, under my mother's nose, I pushed down the dean and slapped him in the face, making you talk nonsense!

What I want to say is that education in China is actually very backward. Respect for teachers has been advocated since ancient times. It is natural to respect teachers and emphasize morality, but we should not be blind. (I won't talk about the corruption of making up lessons and giving gifts, only that some teachers are really abnormal. ) Teachers in China are spoiled!

Oh, how sad!

Parents who ask their children to call back are idiots themselves.

Everyone is denouncing juvenile delinquency and feeling sad that the law has no influence on minors, but everyone has not thought clearly about these reasons!

I was born in 1985, and Zhengyi has gone through many reform measures. I remember very clearly that when I was in the first grade, no matter how naughty my classmates saw the teacher, they would instinctively converge. This is an awesome attitude.

We fought together and were finally dragged to the police station by the police. We were not afraid of the police, but when the teacher came to the police station to pick us up, we were really scared ~

My hair is small, and he is not afraid to see a group of people hitting him with sticks, but the teacher in our class asked him to reach for the bench bar, and he panicked ~

In the first day of junior high school, teachers don't allow corporal punishment, just talking. Teachers teach students to use words well, and the general way to treat naughty poor students is to fight, because we really don't listen to reason, but we think teachers are easy to bully. After the first semester, the Ministry of Education began to severely punish teachers for corporal punishment, which is good news and happiness for us. That's what we thought at the time, but we don't think so anymore.

Because 53 people in our class suddenly became 34 students listening, the poor students in the back two rows basically ran away, and the parents of some good students in the class changed schools for fear of delaying their children. After the exam of my first grade next semester, there are only 25 people left in my class. When I went back to school for the last time during the holiday, the head teacher of our class told us helplessly that our class was divided into classes ~

Alas, what I said is a little off topic ~

In my personal experience, many teachers beat students for their own good, because many students' families don't listen and will listen to you, an outsider? Especially now, under the impact of the internet, we can prevent any child from being a bad child and keep them away, but now? How to stay away from the network?

Don't say whether you choose or not, just say that I was with someone. I touched my shoulder with my elbow and asked me: Did you kiss? I said I didn't kiss! He just looked contemptuous and didn't even kiss? At that time, I thought kissing girls was too much ~ but how do you ask now? Are you up there?

I didn't make this up. I saw my nephew's chat record during the Spring Festival. My nephew 15 years old ~ ~ I want to tell him that this is wrong, but he despises me ~ ~

Off topic again. My point is that some teachers' rights can be properly returned, at least junior high school teachers can get some less excessive corporal punishment rights. For example, clapping your hands is absolutely unforgettable ~

I think overprotecting children actually harms them and makes them lack awe ~

Haven't you found the problem yet? What is the post-80s crime rate between 14 and 16? What is joint crime? Look at the post-90 s, look at the post-00 s and post-05 s. Isn't the problem obvious enough?

As the saying goes, not good. It is the teacher's duty to discipline students, but we should also pay attention to methods.

Almost all of our generation are beaten. It is normal for teachers to hit students, but they can't hit students in the face. Such a big child has a strong self-esteem and can easily cause psychological harm to the child, so it is recommended that the teacher spank if there is no way!

When we were in middle school, there was a class teacher who hit the students. That was malicious. He kicked them from upstairs to downstairs, from the front of the classroom to the back of the classroom, and even the girls were beaten. Several bad students in our class have been beaten by him, and some girls have been kicked by him!

It is wrong for teachers to hit students, but I don't approve of students hitting back on the spot, so things will be stiff, teachers and students will be humiliated, which will be more unfavorable to students and will affect children's study. The teacher will be biased against this student in the future!

The above is my personal opinion, welcome to discuss it together, and friends who like it will forward their attention. Thank you for your appreciation!

I wonder what these parents think. I am a primary school teacher. I have been teaching for more than 20 years. I also hit students, scolded students and punished students. I treat them as my children and punish them, but I never hit students in the face. For more than 20 years, I have been a class teacher. The head teacher is to manage the students well. What kind of class teacher has what kind of class spirit, what kind of learning atmosphere and what kind of student quality. As the saying goes, where there are male soldiers, there must be male nests. I am the head teacher, their leader and their role model. I want to work hard, work hard and be strict, so I have criticized, scolded, punished and beaten them, and passed on my love to different students in different ways. One year, when I was in the fifth grade, there was a boy in my class. His parents went to work more than 1000 miles away, and he was with his grandparents. After a month of school, his grades plummeted. I went to my house several times in the evening, but I was not at home. My grandparents can't help it, and they can't call my parents. One morning, he ran to grab something to eat with his second-grade classmates and beat his little classmates. I was so angry that I beat him up and called his parents at once. My parents were reasonable and did not look up. He also said that he would educate them as his own children. In fact, that's what I thought in my heart, so I hit him, but I didn't kill him like you said, but I beat him because I hated iron. At noon, the parents of primary school students came and beat him indiscriminately. He is my student and I must protect him. I blocked two sticks for him with my body, what's more, it really hurt. I don't know what would happen if I hit him, because I protected him, and the parents of primary school students took it out on me, and I had to endure severe scolding. After that, I accompanied him for fifteen days, and I accompanied him to see a doctor when he was ill. There is a sixth-grade girl whose parents also work in other provinces. The girl is at home alone. She is smart, diligent, studious and gets good grades. For a period of time, I found that she suddenly had money and invited her classmates to dinner. After careful observation, I knew that she was in love with each other. The other party is working at the construction site, and the money is given by the other party. I even told her that if she didn't, I would talk to her, talk about life, talk about ideals and talk about the future. Her mother went back to accompany her until she graduated from junior high school, and now she graduated from college. I treat all my students equally. I care about them, love them and scold them. I have been sick at home for two years now, and several classmates often come to see me, and they are all students I have scolded. Maybe it's because they are all rural children, and they are not as expensive as you said. Maybe it's because we all have good responses and met good people.

Resolutely fighting back, I was tortured by teachers and bulletins for more than a year from the third grade of primary school, and was followed by fifth-grade teachers to middle school by all means until graduation. The reason why they trapped me, I knew it a decade or two ago, was because of personal feuds between families. Just because my foster mother and my so-called family ultimately ruined me, and because the personal grievances of these two teachers came from my foster mother's family, I didn't want to retaliate against anyone for this family, so I never made it clear.

These two teachers think they are meticulous in their work, others don't know what they are doing, and they have been thinking about hurting me. Exposing them is to prove that teachers deserve respect, and it is normal that some are not good birds.

There is so much hatred between teachers and students that it is necessary to beat students like this. I don't ask if there are secrets like mine. We must resolutely fight back and let all teachers know that only by loving the young can we respect the old, and respecting teachers and attaching importance to teaching must be based on mutual respect between teachers and students.

Those who dare to beat students like this are no longer teachers. Since they are not teachers, where is it necessary to tell them about the dignity of teachers? Will such a teacher beat the children at home? If you do it and your parents can't do it well, how can you be a teacher? I can't bear to fight. Why do you want to fight other people's children?