Why is it said that keeping one's mouth shut is the best cultivation for that person?

A kind word can warm the winter. Speaking well is a person’s cultivation.

Misfortune comes from the mouth, so being able to speak is a very important way to survive.

The ancients said: Disaster comes from the mouth, and disease enters from the mouth.

Keep your mouth shut, make fewer mistakes, learn not to speak, and learn to be silent. Silence is golden. Being silent makes fewer mistakes. You have no right to comment on whether others are right or wrong. Be yourself and accumulate good deeds.

Listen carefully and don’t interrupt when something happens

A Qing is a person who likes to talk a lot. No matter whether the topic has anything to do with her or not, she always likes to interrupt others and express herself. point of view.

I bought something online, and the courier guy called me and said: The courier has been placed at the Cainiao Station at the door of your community. Come down and get it yourself. ?

I thought it was strange, so I asked: ?Didn’t you send it to your home before? Why don't you send it now? ?Before he finished speaking, Ah Qing started to talk too much: Oops! Nowadays, express delivery is not delivered to your home. Can't you just pick it up yourself at Cainiao Station? Do you have to let someone else send it to your home? ?

I was very angry when I heard Ah Qing say this: ?What does my express delivery have to do with you? Is there any need for you to talk too much here?

Ah Qing said in turn: "Isn't it just a courier?" As for giving me this attitude? Tell me what happened to you? Why are you so petty? ?

Obviously, I have made others unhappy by talking too much, but in turn I blame others for being petty.

In fact, it is not difficult to find that there are many people like this who cannot speak in life.

They never wait for others to finish speaking, nor do they consider issues from the other person's perspective, nor do they carefully figure out other people's intentions.

People who cannot speak are like bringing disaster with them.

They are prone to conflicts with others. If they are not careful, they will quarrel with others, which will only lead to an unhappy relationship.

In life, if we encounter such people, we must learn to stay away from them.

Don’t talk too much about other people’s affairs

As a person, rely on your heart, not your words. Treating others with sincerity will lead to a close friend; treating others with your mouth will not lead to honesty.

As the saying goes: A ruler is short and an inch is long. ?Don’t always measure people by your own standards, don’t look at people with your own eyes, everyone has shortcomings and no one is perfect.

Recently, news broke on the Internet that Zhang Xinyu is five months pregnant. This was news worth celebrating, but what it received was a storm of public opinion, which was chilling.

Some people say that a woman is possessed by virtue and criticize her for marrying with her son. Others say that a mother is as valuable as her son, and a pheasant can turn into a phoenix once she becomes pregnant. ?All kinds of trolls continue to spray hurtful venom, which is unbearable.

I would like to say that many young people today get pregnant before marriage, and the marriage and love ethics in modern society are not so harsh on this kind of behavior.

As the saying goes: Those who say people are right and wrong must be right and wrong. In life, the same thing is originally the same thing, but it will be ten different versions from the mouths of ten people. Some They even distorted the facts and spread rumors to cause trouble.

Be polite when talking to people. Isn’t it just a joke, but do you take it seriously? ? Why are you so angry just for such a trivial matter? ? Can't even make a joke, stingy. ?

In life, such conversations often occur. Some people always base their happiness on the pain of others, hurting others under the guise of joking.

When others show dissatisfaction, they not only do not reflect on their own faults, but complain that others are small-minded. This kind of person is not straightforward, but selfish and extremely annoying.

Each of us has wounds that we cannot touch, whether it is a sad past or an unbearable present. When these things become the subject of conversation, the pain is no less than that of putting your own The wounds were forcefully spread out for people to laugh at.

Only you can experience the various tastes. Therefore, as a human being, please be virtuous.

Get along with others and be kind to others

My colleague Shanshan once took the high-speed rail for a business trip. The box in her hand was relatively heavy and it was a bit difficult to put it on top of her head.

Beside her, there was a woman talking on the phone, sternly scolding the person on the other end of the phone.

But she hung up the phone in a hurry and helped Shanshan lift the box.

Shanshan thanked her gratefully and sat down.

The woman said angrily that she couldn’t handle the work without me, that she couldn’t do anything well, and that I had to worry about going out.

Listening to this, I guess he is some kind of leader.

Then, Shanshan saw the woman take a water cup to get the water. When she came back, she complained loudly that the water on the train was not clean, it smelled rancid, and it was really unpleasant to drink. Shanshan looked at her awkwardly, not knowing how to reconcile.

Shanshan took out a book and looked down. The woman started talking loudly on the phone again.

Shanshan reminded her to keep her voice down, and she said, yo, what are you pretending to be? How many pages can you read by taking a train? Show off your culture, right?

Shanshan had no choice but to remain silent.

I heard this woman say to the other end of the phone, "I have to speak softer. There is an educated person sitting next to me."

If Shanshan was a little grateful for this person's help just now, she is really in a panic now.

In life, we will always meet some people who are arrogant and mean-spirited. This is a very bad way of speaking, especially when getting along with others.

Life is not easy, and getting along with others is even harder. If you have good intentions in your heart, please keep others in mind. The rights and wrongs of others have nothing to do with you.

Just listen to other people’s opinions, do not interrupt if you can, and don’t join in the booing. This is a basic quality of life.

Do more, talk less, and be silent when you are silent. Guard your heart, guard your mouth, and no more trouble will come out of your mouth.