Talk to your daughter in private.

Talk to your daughter about confidence.

On the first day of school after the summer vacation, I watched the first class broadcast by CCTV with my daughter in the evening. My daughter was very excited and chattered with me. I couldn't, so I took the opportunity to chat with her in bed. Before I knew it, it was zero. I think my daughter Tan Xing is still very stupid, so I have to stop suddenly and let her go to bed quickly. I have to go to school tomorrow.

It's satisfying to watch my daughter fall asleep with a smile on her face. Inadvertently, my daughter is ten years old and has grown from a little girl to a big girl. Through this communication with my daughter, I not only walked into her inner world, but also became friends with her who talked about everything.

The conversation began with my nagging about my daughter's shortcomings. I listed her shortcomings, such as picky eaters, rudeness, carelessness and even a little cruelty. My daughter asked me, "Mom, don't I have any advantages in your eyes?" In a word, I realized that I had gone too far. I said, "yes, there are many, and you have strong language skills." People who know you say that you are eloquent; You are punctual, trustworthy, go out to play, and always come home on time; Promise others what they will do even if they regret it; You study hard. In your class, Chinese and English often get the first place, and math also gets full marks. My mother always thinks that your academic performance is excellent. You are diligent and often help your mother with housework. I went to Zhengzhou to see my aunt for a few days during the holiday. The first thing I did when I came home was to help my mother wash the dishes. You said you haven't washed dishes for days, and you're really not used to it. You love cleanliness, from coats to shoes and socks, you can't be dirty at all. Wash it when it is dirty. I often help my neighbors' uncles and aunts to take their children to play. Those younger brothers and sisters like you very much, which shows that you are an excellent and good sister. Also, whenever your mother is tired, you rub her back. Every time I take you to take a bath, you will carefully observe how those who take a bath massage people. Your heart is very clever. You can learn it when you go home. Every time I enjoy a massage, my mother's fatigue will be swept away and my heart will be full of happiness ... "

I say you are beautiful, but you don't admit it. You said you were black and thin, with sand on your face and two front teeth. I said, why don't you talk about your big eyes? They are dark. They got sunburned. You are actually quite white. You just won't get sunburned. Your skin will tan in summer, but it is particularly white in winter. Covering your face with sand is almost negligible, and you can't tell it without looking carefully. Speaking of which, I was shocked. It turned out that I nagged my daughter and made her lose confidence in this way. This is my responsibility as a mother. How can such a beautiful daughter make me ugly? Daughter, mom came to say sorry to you.

You also like reading, animals and caring ... you have so many advantages that mom can't talk about it all night. You can take it, and you can also talk about my shortcomings for half an hour. Half an hour can't be compared with one night, so I can't hide my shortcomings.

Life has its ups and downs, and so does a daughter. In a word, my mother wants you to be a sunny, confident, happy and sensible girl, and you will always be my mother's intimate little cotton-padded jacket.

(Ma Yanchun Taikang Gao Yi)