Revisiting the original work of "Do You Know", why Gu Tingye wanted to marry Sheng Minglan after only meeting her 4 times

In the drama version of "Do You Know", Sheng Minglan and Gu Tingye have known each other since they were children. When Sheng Minglan's biological mother Wei Xiaoniang had a difficult delivery, Sheng Minglan ran out to ask for help, and Gu Tingye extended a helping hand. From then on, fate was planted.

Later, because Gu Tingye and Sheng Changbai became close friends and came to study at the Sheng Family School, the two people came into contact more frequently. Then, Gu Tingye saved Sheng Minglan several times.

However, in the original work, the two of them had no childhood friendship, and Sheng Changbai's best friend was Qi Heng, not Gu Tingye. In fact, before marrying Sheng Minglan, Gu Tingye only met Sheng Minglan 4 times.

At this time, Gu Tingye was not only much older than Sheng Minglan, but also married (his first wife was Yu Yanhong). Gu Tingye also claimed many times that he wanted to marry his legitimate daughter.

Revisiting the original work of "Do You Know", why did Gu Tingye want to marry Sheng Minglan after only meeting her 4 times? This is not just as simple as having a good impression. In fact, through these few contacts, Gu Tingye discovered that although Sheng Minglan was a lady, she fully met or even exceeded his expectations for his wife in other aspects.

As the legitimate son of the Hou Mansion, Gu Tingye was always ostracized in the Ningyuan Hou Mansion, but he also received a serious aristocratic education. The original book also mentioned how his parents, Gu Yankai, taught him Gu Tingye has a standard in choosing a spouse.

Therefore, Gu Tingye never thought about marrying Zhu Manniang from the beginning to the end, and he never had any feelings for Qiuniang, who was devoted to him and had been guarding him for three years. Look down on them who come from humble origins.

In addition to being a concubine, Sheng Minglan fully meets the standards proposed by Gu Yankai.

First of all, the Sheng family is a typical scholar's family. All the men are officials in the court. However, the two elders of the Sheng family, Mrs. Sheng and Sheng Hong, are very strict with their children and never believe that women are innocent. Instead of saying that talent is virtue, he required his daughters to study, let them take Mr. Zhuang's class, and invited Aunt Kong to teach them etiquette.

Secondly, Mrs. Sheng is the only daughter of the Yongyi Hou family. Mrs. Sheng is very proficient in the etiquette and rules required by a high family, housekeeping, and dealing with people. Sheng Minglan has been raised under her knees and has already obtained Even the Wang family lamented her careful training. Sheng Minglan and Sheng Rulan stood together. If they didn't tell clearly, many people would think that Sheng Minglan was the legitimate daughter.

When Gu Tingye proposed to marry Sheng Minglan, he also emphasized that the girl raised by the old lady was always good. After Sheng Minglan got married, she arranged the large banquet in an orderly manner and was a good housekeeper. The guests who saw her would also marvel at the power of the only daughter of the Yongyi Hou family.

Finally, although the Sheng family is not a lord's family, it had developed quite well before Gu Tingye proposed to marry Sheng Minglan, and the family background was still there.

Furthermore, Gu Tingye also knew very well that he was already an important minister and had great power. If he marries a noble girl and joins forces, the emperor may not be assured. Since ancient times, the master with great achievements has not been Just talking.

Therefore, Sheng Minglan fully meets the criteria for finding a wife proposed by Gu Yankai. At this time, Gu Tingye also urgently needed to marry a wife who could stand up to the stage, manage the family well and survive.

As mentioned in the original work, Sheng Minglan's biological mother, Aunt Wei, was very beautiful, and the Jingchai sarong could not conceal her beauty. Influenced by her mother's genes, Sheng Minglan was extremely beautiful.

How beautiful is Sheng Minglan? When she was fighting with Sheng Molan, Sheng Minglan became jealous when she saw Sheng Minglan's appearance and had the idea of ??ruining her appearance. Sheng Molan was already beautiful enough, but after Liang Han married Sheng Minglan, she saw Sheng Minglan again. Sheng Minglan couldn't help but feel regretful; when Sheng Minglan's second son Yuan Geer grew up, he successfully stole the title of the most beautiful man in Qiheng Capital.

The third time Gu Tingye saw Sheng Minglan was at Yuan Wenshao's house. He was very surprised to see Sheng Minglan who had grown into a great beauty.

Sheng Minglan is not only beautiful, but also has an interesting soul and is a unique landscape. For example, when facing the pursuit of Qi Heng, the son of the Duke of Qi, Sheng Minglan's completely different behavior from other women attracted Gu Tingye's attention.

Also, when faced with Gu Tingye's questioning that she had disturbed his marriage to Yu Yanran, the sharp-tongued Sheng Minglan left a deep impression on Gu Tingye.

For the fourth time, Gu Tingye rescued Sheng Minglan who encountered a water bandit. Not only did Sheng Minglan know Zhu Manniang's character very well, she also made it clear that Gu Tingye was the most well-behaved person at heart.

If a woman is not only beautiful on the outside, but also has an interesting soul and ability, what man wouldn’t like her? As it is said in the psychology book "Intimacy", initially, we are attracted by a person's appearance, and then by his values. As time goes by, it is the lifestyle that ultimately determines whether an intimate relationship can be stable and long-lasting.

After marrying Sheng Minglan, Gu Tingye had a soul mate, making their relationship even more indestructible.

As a woman, if you want to capture a man's heart, beauty alone is not enough. Beauty cannot be maintained forever. Moreover, there are people outside the mountains, and there are many beautiful women. However, if you are capable enough and have an interesting soul, you can become his soul mate and you will be able to capture his heart better.

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