No limits in life, lifelong growth

I wonder which book everyone learned the most from in the 2020 Fan Deng reading report? The book I have studied the most is "Lifelong Growth". I have listened to it about 7 times. I think I will continue to listen to it a few more times. I learn as I go. And I also found that after listening to it for a while, My growth mindset will remain good, but sometimes after a long time, my fixed mindset will come out. Let me talk about my experience below.

01. I have a fixed mindset

I used to have a fixed mindset. For example, I was very afraid of expressing myself in public. For example, When I am with friends who are better than myself, I always feel inferior, and then I want to stay away from them. Like the last time I participated in offline communication learning in Yunnan, there was a debate competition, and everyone The group can have four members. As for me, I did not actively sign up to participate because I was dominated by a fixed mindset. Afterwards, I deeply reflected on myself and decided to be as proactive as possible in the future.

02. I have a growth mindset

So in the past year, I have actually participated in a lot of Fan Deng Shu’s online training camps and also watched and listened to them. I have read a lot of books and met many excellent book friends with a growth mindset. So in such a process, I found that my growth mindset slowly became dominant. I was no longer afraid of expressing myself in public. I would regard every event I participated in or every speech I gave on stage as a An opportunity to train yourself. Just like today, I just introduced myself as a senior at the Analects of Confucius reading camp and explained the upcoming study arrangements to the book friends, and I still felt relatively calm.

03. The difference between the two thinking

When Teacher Fan Deng was talking about the book Lifelong Growth, he mentioned that people with a fixed mindset pay more attention to results, and they want to To prove one's ability, they treat everything as a limited game, which makes them more afraid of failure. They will think that failure means they are incapable, so they dare not challenge themselves or try to be more effective. Difficult things. People with a growth mindset pay more attention to the process. They regard every process of doing things as an opportunity to exercise themselves. They regard every mistake as an opportunity to give themselves feedback and correction, thereby allowing them to Grow better yourself. For others, life is an infinite game, and what you care about is the scenery along the way.

No matter how good a gentleman is, the future is promising. "Lifelong Growth" is the most beneficial book I have read in the past year. It has brought me a lot of changes, and in today's era of knowledge explosion, it is even more necessary for everyone to have a growth mindset and a lifelong learning mentality, so I share it with everyone and experience the fun of learning together.