Have you ever helped others and then been accused of not helping?

Having such an experience, I was embarrassed when others said they wouldn't help, and my face turned red immediately, thinking that I wouldn't help others in the future, not to help others, but for fear of encountering similar situations. At that time, a friend met something, and I wanted to help her, because she needed to do something, someone who was careful, and it was complicated. I was afraid that she would stay up late, so I took the initiative to help her do something, thinking that I would share some for her and let her go to bed early.

But when I finished, she scolded me before she thanked me. She said, I can do this well and I don't need your help. If you do anything wrong for me, I have to bear it myself. I was very careful at that time. I checked it several times after I finished, but she thought I did it casually. I regard it as the liver and lungs of a donkey, which is really great. I didn't explain anything. She can think what she wants. Anyway, others don't appreciate helping others. I just want to share a little for her.

To tell the truth, I really feel bad after helping others. There is a dumb person who has a bitter feeling of eating Coptis chinensis, so I seldom help her again because I am afraid. There will always be people who treat other people's goodness as a donkey's liver and lung, so there is no need to care too much. Just be yourself. If you really want to help others, go ahead. Don't be afraid of what others say, as long as you feel comfortable.

We should also take effective measures to help others. Don't always help others and be gossiped by others, so be sure to recognize who can help whom and who will fail. People are like this, so it is a great ability to be yourself.