Is being beautiful really an advantage?

Is being beautiful really an advantage? The answer is obvious, and there must be advantages, which can be seen from the prevailing plastic surgery trend. Especially in this age of looking at faces, beauty has become a kind of resource, which can bring the favor of the opposite sex, good job opportunities and rich material wealth.

The ancients said, "Beauty is a disaster". Isn't being beautiful an advantage? Why did it become a disaster? Many people say that it was the ancient feudal thoughts that imposed men's mistakes on women. It does make sense from the point of view of endangering the country and the people, but from the personal point of view? Many women are harmed by their own beauty, because they have a famous saying: "Since ancient times, beauty has been like a famous star, and it is forbidden to see bald heads on earth."

Being beautiful is indeed an advantage, but the premise is to treat your beauty correctly and use it correctly. This kind of beauty is really advantageous. As the saying goes, "women are like flowers", which is true. They are especially beautiful when they bloom. If they start to wither, they will lose this advantage. Only by learning to keep your own beauty correctly can you turn this beauty into a real advantage.

Beauty is a woman's advantage

0 10 1 Treat your own beauty correctly.

In the novel Song of Eternal Sorrow by the famous writer Wang Anyi, the protagonist Wang Qiyao is a beautiful, pure and lovely girl. She had a dream of becoming a star since she was a child, so she yearned for a film studio. With the help of friends, she entered the set and was appreciated by the director, so she could audition. However, due to her lack of charm after living, she was recommended by the director to take pictures of his friends.

Wang Qiyao's photo appeared on the cover of Shanghai Life magazine. On the cover, Wang Qiyao's beauty seems to be cut from a man's heart, not only from a man's heart, but also from a woman's heart. This shows the beauty of Wang Qiyao. Encouraged by her friends, Wang Qiyao took part in the Miss Shanghai beauty contest and won the third place in one fell swoop. But in the minds of the citizens, Wang Qiyao can truly represent the beauty of Shanghai women, because the first and second names are backed by rich people, and Wang Qiyao is well-deserved.

Wang Qiyao in Wang Anyi's Song of Eternal Sorrow

Beautiful immersed in the envy of the opposite sex, flowers and applause, banquet, and finally chose the outside (keeping) for the powerful director Li. After the fall of director Li, he went back to his grandmother's hometown to take refuge, and grandma watched with pity.

"Wang Qiyao didn't go well at first, because she was so beautiful, which is also the shortcoming of being a good person. Being a good person is actually a lie, not others, but herself. Good-looking, it doesn't matter if you don't know. After a few years, you walked away unscathed, but you happened to be in that place in Shanghai, scrambling to tell you, for fear that you didn't know. So you not only lied to yourself, but also lied to everyone, making you feel that it will take a long time to be together. Help you dream together, everyone is wrong, and the dream is still awake. "

Wang Qiyao misjudged his beauty, thinking that a hundred flowers will never be invincible, and made a wrong choice by relying on beauty, which made his life miserable. Later, I met Kang Mingxun, and he admired me. Knowing her past, I ran away. I like her "old Clara", I dreamed with her and ran away. Finally, I missed the yellow croaker left by Director Li because of "long feet". After the theft was exposed, I was furious and ended her wonderful life. Wang Qiyao misjudged beauty and lived a lonely life, which deserves every beautiful girl's vigilance.

Lonely Wang Qiyao

Use your beauty correctly.

Pioneer writer Yu Hua created a beautiful female image in the novel The Seventh Day-Li Qing who misused herself. Li Qing is a beautiful and charming star in the company. As the deputy manager of the public relations department, she is often taken to various business dinners by her boss and has experienced many business negotiations. She makes many men linger, and in the face of many men's pursuit, she always refuses politely. However, after a colleague's persistent pursuit was rejected, she knelt down after work to propose to her, holding a rose in her hand, and Li Qing proudly walked away.

Li Qing took a fancy to Yang Fei's precious personality, and they got married. After marriage, Li Qing still participated in various social activities, and Yang Fei always took good care of her. When Li Qing was on a business trip, he met a doctor who came back from studying abroad on the plane. The doctor coveted Li Qing's beauty and told her about her great future, while Li Qing gave him guidance with her own business negotiation experience. They hit it off and got together.

Li Qing said to her husband Yang Fei, "Beauty is a woman's passport, but this passport has been used by the company, and I have never used it once." . Although Li Qing loves her husband Yang Fei very much, she divorced and stayed with the doctor who came back from studying abroad. Li Qing, who got married again, found that doctors often indulge in drinking and having fun, which made her infected with diseases. Later, with her beauty, she married a person in the company. But something happened to the company, and the doctor ran away quietly. She ended her life with regret.

Misuse a beautiful woman like Li Qing.

Beauty is just a kind of appearance, which can be turned into an advantage if used properly. If you don't use it well, you will eventually hurt yourself. Li Qing, relying on beauty, thought beauty was eternal, gave up her love for her husband and a warm and happy home, and married a doctor who returned from studying abroad. A few days later, the doctor got bored and began to lie drunk among the flowers. After the accident, he ran away alone. Li Qing misused beauty and left a deep regret for himself.

0303 Keep your beauty correctly.

French writer marguerite duras said in the novel "Lover":

I am getting old. One day, in the lobby of a public place, a man came up to me. He introduced himself voluntarily, and he said to me, "I know you and will always remember you." At that time, you were very young and everyone said you were beautiful. Now, let me tell you, for me, you are more beautiful now than when you were young. You were a young woman at that time, and I loved your battered face more than you did then.

This sentence changed my consistent understanding of beauty. I used to think that beauty is like a epiphyllum, only when it blooms, but I didn't expect beauty to last forever. Seeing the writer Mr. Jiang Yang, although she is one hundred years old, we can still see her beauty, and I realize more deeply that beauty can be guarded.

Beautiful yang Jiang

To protect beauty, we must first understand beauty correctly. From the tragic situation of Wang Qiyao in Wang Anyi's Song of Eternal Sorrow, we can see that beauty is not fearless and unscrupulous capital. If we make a wrong step in a beautiful life, as her grandmother said, "the road of life will become more and more difficult in the future." The second is to use beauty correctly. If you think that the pass of beauty can be unimpeded anywhere, this waywardness will lead you astray. In Yu Hua's The Seventh Day, Li Qing's experience is enough to wake us up. Periodicity is to experience your own connotation and self-cultivation, is the nutrient of beauty, and nourishes your beauty to eternity. Only by doing these three things, beauty is truly advantageous.