What should I do if my mother's emotional intelligence is low and she can't talk, which often makes you unhappy?

If your mother's emotional intelligence is low and she can't talk, it often makes you unhappy, which may make you feel troubled and depressed. In this case, you can take the following measures:

Try to communicate with mom in a positive way. If your mother doesn't know how to express herself or communicate with you, try to start a conversation in a positive way. For example, you can ask her what interesting things she has done recently, or you can share your experiences with her. Try to participate in some activities with your mother. If mom has communication problems, try to start some activities with similar interests, such as shopping, watching movies or taking a walk together. These activities can make you enjoy some pleasant time without much communication. Try to create a comfortable environment for mom. If your mother often makes you unhappy, you can try to provide a warm environment, such as lighting aromatherapy or playing soothing music. This soothing environment helps to relieve tension and anxiety, thus promoting better communication. Try to accept and understand mom's shortcomings. Finally, you need to try to accept and understand your mother's shortcomings. Don't expect her to handle every situation perfectly. Instead, try to think from her perspective, understand why she has some limitations, and how to establish better contact with her without hurting your feelings.