I'm going back to the village for the Spring Festival. Now in the village, besides comparing cars with Hanako, what is it?

In addition to comparing flowers with cars, people in the village also like to compare things like buying a house, having children and setting off firecrackers. No one can escape that others are better than themselves and don't want to be worse than others. It is not unreasonable for everyone to think that the countryside is vulgar, backward and feudal. People who have worked hard for more than a year go home to reunite with their families for a good year, but they have to pretend to be rich because of the glances of the villagers. Rural people like to judge a person's life from his appearance, and they will treat people of different "levels" with different attitudes. I hate going back to my hometown during the Chinese New Year. Those three aunts and six grandmothers are really good at talking.

0 1, compared with buying a house, most of the people living in the countryside now are old people or children studying at home. Young and middle-aged people want to go out to work to make money. Therefore, not only do you have to work so hard to make money outside to have a home, but you can't build a house at home, and you have to buy a house outside. Buying a house in a first-tier city, no matter how flat and remote it is, is awesome, just like you were born and raised in a serious first-tier city. The full amount is more comprehensive than the loan, and it is awesome to think that you can earn so much money. When you say that you rent a house outside, the villagers in the village will not say anything on the surface, but secretly they will start to whisper that their children are incompetent. If they work so long or rent a house, they will be accused of being in debt if they borrow money to buy a house. Therefore, when you return to your hometown and countryside, you will inevitably be asked: the house you bought is gone, and people who like to pretend will brag about buying it. Anyway, they are just talking, and they can't gossip if they have face.

02. Having a son, especially having a son, has been the top priority for most people since ancient times. Whether you live in the countryside or the city, you can't escape the question of whether you have a son or not. Some rural people are even proud to have a son and walk around to show off. Those who can't have a son will be stimulated. Take my hometown as an example. The only criterion for judging the usefulness of marrying a daughter-in-law is "having a son". None of them. If you have a son, you are useful. If you don't have a son, you will be called "an old hen who can't lay eggs." What's more, those gossips like to gossip at the head of the village about who didn't have a son and gave birth to a daughter, and then use this aspect to belittle the family. Anyway, in their eyes, having a son is a big deal.

03. I wonder if there is any comparison in other rural areas. Anyway, the comparison at home is the most serious. Every family will buy fireworks when they go home for the New Year. The more fireworks are set off, the bigger they are, the better they look. Others will think they are rich and say that rich people are setting off fireworks. Therefore, many wage earners go back to the countryside to celebrate the New Year, and the way to let others know that they have money is to buy fireworks, not to promote them themselves. As long as enough fireworks are bought, the owner of the fireworks shop will publicize which village people buy too many fireworks, and the news that people in the village are waiting for the rich to set off fireworks will spread.

Because I desperately need the worship of others to satisfy my vanity, I will compare with these external things. This kind of atmosphere is very bad, but it has always existed.