How to enlighten your opponent when you lose to him?

Persevere in the face of setbacks. In the journey of life, people may encounter all kinds of setbacks, big and small, some of which are even unexpected. People encounter setbacks. It's actually like a boxing match. If you were knocked down by a punch, would you stand up again? If you don't get up again, you will fail forever; Get up again, and there is hope of victory. The success of many celebrities is not always smooth sailing, and it is often setbacks and failures that make them. The key is, in the face of setbacks and failures, what kind of attitude and way will you treat them? If we read this article, we will definitely find the answer from it-let's laugh at setbacks!

Ants are walking on the road, and whoever annoys them is stomped on by the bear's paw. Death is inevitable. A meteorite fell from the sky and smashed a hole in the road. A speeding van had no time to dodge, so it plunged down and disappeared. In fact, people's fate is like this ant and van, and it is difficult to predict when they will encounter disasters and setbacks. Life is like a soldier on the battlefield. Unexpected disasters on the battlefield, bright, dark, in front, behind, in the sky and underground, may come at any time. Therefore, don't be proud to survive on the battlefield, and death is common. Not to mention setbacks? Compared with death, frustration is like a thorn.

Having said that, according to common sense, a person will be particularly depressed when he has just suffered setbacks or some kind of blow. During that time, he would feel that he was knocked down by a heavy punch in the ring, dizzy, laughed at by the audience everywhere, and full of failure. He didn't have any strength to lie there. The referee kept counting one, two, three and four. It took him a long time. In other words, it is normal to get discouraged at the first setback. It takes time to restore the mind and mind. Get up when you recover, even if it is a slight recovery. Since setbacks and failures are inevitable, you must get up without hesitation. There is hope of getting up. Even if you are knocked down again, you must stand up again. Even if you are knocked down a hundred times, you have to get up a hundred times. The human body can be knocked down and destroyed, but the spark of thought cannot be annihilated. Of course, it is very uncomfortable (and embarrassing) to struggle forward in adversity. It's like climbing Huashan Mountain. You have to go through a hundred-foot gorge and a 90-degree straight ridge, and you have to have a "first look", otherwise you can't climb up. The only way is to cheer up.

As far as heroes are concerned, many successful people are famous throughout the ages. Their lives are not all successes, but failures. Failure is like hardened steel. God gives people a little difficulty and wisdom at the same time Failure is not an enemy, it can alert you, and the enemy is not an enemy, it can push you forward. If there were no wind and rain, there would be no rainbow after rain. Oaks in the forest cannot thrive unless they are baptized by storms. At the same time, people will become useful when they encounter various obstacles. Therefore, all hardships, troubles and sorrows are enough to inspire, inspire and exercise people's will and talents. In this sense, setbacks are also wealth. Stones will not rub, sparks will not be generated, and people will not be stimulated, so the flame of life will not burn.

Life is alive, the ship is in the Jianghu, no matter where the boat of fate is thrown, always look for the compass in your heart, it will guide you to the direction of progress and the goal you reach, hold on to a message, believe that the goal will be closer and closer, and believe that there will be a day when a hundred flowers bloom.

Suffering, the wealth of life, refers to suffering in difficult adversity. How can these tortures become the wealth of life? Wealth refers to money, property and other things of value to people.

In life, there are often many hardships, and they are often unexpected. It is precisely because of these hardships that life will be more colorful and people's value will be more reflected. Every time you encounter hardships, you have the opportunity to conquer difficulties, increase your courage, surpass yourself once and win a success. In this sense, isn't suffering the wealth of life?

After reading this article, you may have a deeper understanding and understanding of this problem.

Pursuing the perfection of life is a good wish of life, but how difficult it is to really realize this wish! The loss and tendency of long life is almost forever. So there is dissatisfaction and pain. Formally, you have a satisfied lover and a happy family, but your career may not be smooth sailing; You can do a lot in your career, but you will inevitably lose the warmth of your family; You have a stable family life and don't necessarily know how to love; You have love, but no happiness. The road of life often encounters unexpected hardships. In terms of connotation, how to grasp the philosophical proposition of life? How should you face a serious life? Facing the test of life, how should you put yourself in the right position?

People are not afraid of pain, they are afraid of losing their strength; People are not afraid of suffering, but they are afraid of losing hope. In the face of ups and downs, there is such a way to know the sea. This is a sober and smooth road in the journey of life. In the vast ocean, you can clearly identify troubles, hatred, worries and sadness. Think of every big storm as a new attempt and a new aura of life. Take every big shock as a new topic in life. Every time you break through a crisis, you increase your courage in life, and every time you overcome a difficult problem, you win a success.

What is pain? I understand that pain is beyond human capacity. Pain and suffering are the precious wealth of life. Without resistance in life, people's value cannot be reflected. There is no danger in the journey, and life is tasteless. There is another way to enrich your life, that is, "visit" the hometown of art, which is another wonderful world. "People have seven emotions, and it is natural to have feelings and things." Residual water, old vines, sunset, touching the scene, touching the scene, you will appreciate the charm of nature. Nothing is richer, more vivid and more noble than life. With this steelyard in my heart, I'm afraid I can't weigh the setbacks, bumps, pains and hardships!

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