I am stubborn sometimes. I love to hold grudges and I won't talk to people. I always get into a topic and don't know what to say.

I am your female predecessor, so I will give you some humanitarian care. ...

1 "Stubbornness" and "opinionated" are double-edged swords in everything. Stubbornness is a tough appearance, which is needed in study and life, and is stronger than the wall grass. But if you insist on your own opinions, don't admit defeat, and don't look at yourself, it's easy to miss opportunities, fail to see the good of others, and even hinder your own promotion. At your age, you will be a little stubborn, especially boys. Don't worry, just don't let it become a shortcoming.

2 "Love to hold grudges" Personally, what I value most about a boy is not his appearance, but his talent. The most important thing for a boy is his tolerance. A man with brains, foresight and ideals should look farther than he cares about the present. Too much concern will only upset him and others. A generous smile after being unhappy invisibly increases your personal charm, which will only make the other person respect and make the other person feel ashamed. Besides, you don't care about the person you really care about, and you don't have to care about the person who always infringes on you, and it's not worth worrying about.

You said you didn't know what to talk about. From my observation, those who can speak Kan Kan and listen to what they say in life are either full of reading poems or ordinary but optimistic about life. If you want to be like that, you are only 18 years old, and there is still a long way to accumulate, but now you must love life. Only when you see the beauty of life will you have a topic. Even if you see through the true colors of the world, you will have good expectations.

You don't have to worry about finding a girlfriend. If your so-called "problem" can't be corrected, you don't have to worry. Everyone has a pleasing side, no one is full of shortcomings, and no one is full of advantages. The person who really loves you will accept everything about you, even if she doesn't like you, she will be tolerant, love will be tolerant, and someone will always fall in love with you. Similarly, you should tolerate others. Only by accepting that oneself and others are not perfect can people live easily, happily and grow.

Finally, I wish you a happy life, relax and find your own happiness.