How do people with low emotional intelligence generally make friends?

Now some companies even take the circle of friends of candidates as the standard, because your truest personality will be reflected in every point of your life. The so-called details look at personality, while the circle of friends reflects many details of you and can accurately reflect your emotional intelligence level. In our life, people with low emotional intelligence like to post the following content status in the circle of friends.

1, endless show off wealth, all kinds of show off wealth

I believe that many people in their circle of friends are high-profile and show off their wealth. All kinds of luxury goods, or deliberately placed in all kinds of high-end places. Perhaps this is a normal move in the eyes of the parties, just to show others how high your quality of life is and how advanced your life is. Perhaps proper showing off wealth can make others understand, but endless showing off wealth will only make others think that your thoughts are shallow and material is supreme.

I have a classmate who is like this. In fact, I often deal with her. The girl's living conditions are average, and her husband's life is not harmonious after marriage. But she especially likes to show off in the circle of friends, such as what brand-name cosmetics she bought today and what high-end restaurants she went to. Especially in the eyes of friends who know her true situation.

These behaviors are childish and ridiculous, because a truly rich life does not necessarily require posing, and people with really good conditions may be regarded as ordinary things. In the eyes of people with real connotation, it is really superficial and has no connotation. Real wealth mainly lies in the richness of your spiritual world, because your spiritual life is lacking and you are eager to get the attention of others. Many high-level and high-quality people in life often give valuable and nutritious things to their friends and make others sing.

Second, negative energy is often transmitted.

I believe that many friends in the circle of friends are worried and complaining every day. We are deeply moved by ourselves. Every time we turn to the circle of friends of such people, we feel a little depressed inside. Because in fact, people will inevitably encounter setbacks and setbacks when walking in society, but we should actively overcome them and always maintain an optimistic attitude. What these people give us is excessive affectation. In particular, some people often express some negative emotions, which are often moaning to outsiders.

I can't digest anything that goes wrong. You have to vent publicly to be satisfied. This is just an immature performance, which also proves that your emotional intelligence is not high. You publish such a dynamic, which will only make others feel that you are weak inside and that you have too much dark energy. Unconsciously, others will think that they are making friends with people like you, and may fall into an inexplicable depression circle. After all, people still tend to associate with sunny and lovely people.

Third, I like taking selfies.

In fact, everyone has a love of beauty. Everyone can send a photo of themselves in the circle of friends. In fact, I think that for some friends who are hard to meet, selfies can just let these distant friends relive your memories. However, some people take selfies, which is terrible. They often brush their hair and just want to take selfies in their circle of friends at the end of the day. Such people are easily disgusted. This kind of person must be narcissistic. He thinks he looks good and wants to be praised by others.

Many good-looking people often don't like taking selfies, which proves that people may think their looks are not dazzling. Now there are so many selfie software, and people who add beauty and filters are also very different from themselves. Many people say that beauty software has created many illusions for themselves. I think it's good to take beautiful photos, enjoy them silently, or send them to friends and relatives in private. There is no need to send too many photos in the circle of friends.

In fact, the EQ appraisal theory of friends circle is reasonable, because people at different levels will naturally have different concerns. People who pay too much attention to material and appearance are often people with low connotation and emotional intelligence in life, while people with high quality in their circle of friends, people who are appreciated and people who really live a refined and elegant life are all in one-to-one correspondence. Therefore, if you want others to have a good impression on you, it is better to improve the quality of your circle of friends.