Daughter-in-law, I spent 100,000 to marry you, is it too much to ask you to be my maid?

The bride price is just a form, and we cannot measure our feelings based on its amount. Therefore, we can care about the appropriate amount of betrothal gifts, but we should not care about the appropriate amount of betrothal gifts. In fact, the amount of the bride price is directly related to the daughter's parents and the man's parents.

Marriage is the happiest thing in a woman's life. It means finding a good husband and marrying into a good husband's family. When a woman has just married into her husband's family, it is the time when the new daughter-in-law is put to the test. Especially if you meet an unreasonable and troublesome mother-in-law.

Some cunning mother-in-laws, no matter what you do, they just want to treat you as someone else’s child, as if you are competing with her for a job, either because they look down on your origin, or they will look at you with judgment. , nit-picking, and even making trouble over nothing.

Feifei and her boyfriend Xiaofeng fell in love at first sight when they were in college. Feifei is very beautiful, 170cm tall, tall and thin, and her appearance is also very outstanding. Feifei's parents are engaged in real estate, and Feifei is the only daughter in the family. Feifei has been like a little princess since she was a child, growing up carefree.

After going to college, and since falling in love with Xiaofeng, Xiaofeng has shown great care for Feifei, especially cherishing his relationship with Feifei, and taking great care of Feifei. Every bit of life is the responsibility of the two of them. Loving memories.

After graduating from college, Xiaofeng and Feifei went home to celebrate the New Year. Xiaofeng was well-educated and generous, and was loved by Feifei’s parents. When Feifei’s parents asked Xiaofeng what her plans were after graduating from college, Xiaofeng responded smoothly and naturally. After hearing the answer, Feifei's parents felt that Xiaofeng was a promising talent, and they were relieved to hand over their daughter to Xiaofeng.

Half a year after graduating from college, Xiaofeng’s mother kept urging Xiaofeng to take his girlfriend back. On October 1st, Xiaofeng brought Feifei back to his hometown. When his mother saw Xiaofei dressing up fashionably, she said to Xiaofeng: “This is it. My daughter-in-law is not good, she is flashy and not pragmatic." Xiaofeng said to her mother: "Feifei is a good girl, and she is very good to herself." Xiaofeng's mother added: "You can tell she doesn't know how to do housework. If you marry her, you will have trouble in the future. Where are your hard times?" Xiaofeng said to her mother, "Mom, don't think too much about what age it is now."

Feifei brought a lot of things to her mother-in-law when she met her for the first time. Ginseng, bird's nest, clothes, cosmetics, and many precious supplements. When my mother-in-law saw Feifei, she said no, but she took these things in her hand. With a smile on her face, she said: "Come just now, don't spend any money." Feifei looked at her future mother-in-law, even though she was only in her early 50s. Perhaps due to living in rural areas for a long time, her skin is chapped and dark, completely lacking the brilliance of modern women.

The two stayed in their hometown for three days and could go back in three days. On the plane, Feifei asked Xiaofeng, what is your mother’s impression of me? Xiaofeng had no choice but to say good things to her mother and said, "My mother likes you very much. She said that you are not only beautiful, but also very sensible. She is very satisfied with you." Feifei felt happy after hearing this. I was chatting and laughing with Xiaofeng along the way, and I couldn't be happier.

After the holiday, the two of them started to work hard again. On this day, Feifei found out that she was unexpectedly pregnant. She hurriedly told Xiaofeng, and Xiaofeng said to Feifei: "Don't worry about my wife, I will definitely bear the burden." "Responsible people, let's get married, believe me, I can take good care of you and our children." After an affectionate confession, Feifei was deeply moved.

After that, Xiaofeng asked for leave and went back to discuss marriage with her mother. When her mother heard that Feifei was pregnant, she said to Xiaofeng: "Look, I said you can't marry such a girl. We haven't been together for a long time." "I'm pregnant." Xiaofeng explained: "Feifei and I have been together for several years. Now that she is pregnant, I will definitely marry her.

Feifei will also go back to discuss it with her parents. The two families got together to discuss their marriage. When she met her mother-in-law, Xiaofeng's mother realized that Feifei's family was very wealthy. Finally, the two families agreed to get married on the 15th of next month. , a gift of 100,000 yuan. The reason why Xiaofeng's mother agreed to give 100,000 yuan as a dowry was that she felt it was not a loss.

Next month will come soon. The two held a wedding at Feifei’s house. A few days later, they went back to Xiaofeng’s hometown to hold a wedding. The day after the wedding, the new daughter-in-law It was time to serve tea to her mother-in-law. Feifei got up early that day. When serving tea to her mother-in-law, her mother-in-law actually asked Feifei to kneel down and serve tea to her. Seeing that Feifei was indifferent, she said: "Daughter-in-law, I spent 100,000 to marry you, so you can be my pawn." Is that too much, a maid?"

When Feifei heard what her mother-in-law said, she became very angry. She got up and offered tea to her after all the hard work, but she gave her a slap on the wrist. Where has she been since she was a child? Suffered this kind of grievance. Feifei said: "It's not too much." This is when Feifei took out a bank card from her bag and said to her mother-in-law: "There are 200,000 in this card. Since you love money so much, how about giving you 200,000 to be my slave?" ?" My mother-in-law blushed after hearing this.

In my opinion, marriage is a commitment between two people to each other. Promise to stay with each other and take care of each other throughout your life, live an ordinary life, take care of each other when you are sick, comfort each other when you are in pain, and always be sincere to each other. If a happy marriage is hindered by a mother-in-law, it would really make me hateful and irritating. There are many ignorant mothers-in-law like Feifei in life.

My feeling is that if you encounter a mother-in-law who deliberately troubles you in your marriage, you cannot give her a good look or reason with her for such shameless behavior. The more you talk, the more you talk to her. Outsiders will only say that you are ignorant and unfilial. The only way to deal with such a mother-in-law is to be more unruly than her. Just use reasonable methods and don't allow yourself to be wronged.

I don’t think I should be too polite to such a bullying mother-in-law. Respect and filial piety should be respected, but this must be based on mutual respect and impartiality. It will not be good for you if you just tolerate it. The good thing is, over time, she will think you are easy to bully, which will be even more troublesome.