Cherish the little luck you have.

On the subway to work a few days ago, I accidentally saw a video. At that time, my tears couldn't stop flowing downwards. Now that I think about it, there is still an unspeakable discomfort and panic.

The general content of the video is like this:

A 36-year-old father lost his 8-year-old daughter in Luoyang, Henan Province. In order to be afraid of her loneliness, he went to work in the cemetery where her dead daughter was, just to see her and talk to her every day.

It turned out that my daughter was diagnosed with rhabdomyosarcoma cancer three years ago, and then my father came to Beijing with his lover and began a long treatment journey. It seems like three years. From the age of five to eight, I spent all my savings at home, but I couldn't take my children away.

Then my father contacted the cemetery and started working here. Every morning at 8 o'clock, I will visit my daughter, talk to her and kiss the tombstone. On her daughter's birthday, she will also prepare carefully prepared gifts, as if her daughter had never left.

To tell the truth, after becoming a mother, I really can't understand this kind of article, and I have an unspeakable distress in my heart. Although it didn't happen to me, I feel scared when I think about it.

Don't talk about cancer, it's just a minor illness. It hurts to see the child miserable, not to mention the father's experience in the video. My husband and I probably don't know how to live.

Think about how strict you are with your children at ordinary times, although remind yourself to be more patient and kind and firm with your children from time to time. But sometimes when she doesn't listen, she still gets angry. She can't help cursing her, even hitting her little hand and little ass.

Although my daughter is not yet three years old, every time she sees me angry, she will carefully run to my side and say, mom, don't be angry, mom, don't be angry, I won't do this again, mom, do you like me? ……

Alas, now think about it, in fact, as long as the children grow up healthily and happily, as long as it is not a matter of principle, there is really no need to be too harsh on the children or too early.

Come to think of it carefully, we adults are actually just afraid of trouble and face the trouble of cleaning up the mess created by our children.

I remember seeing a sentence before, which makes sense. "Children are not parents' accessories, they are all independent individuals. Only through our bodies can we come into this world and experience our own life. "

Now think about it, although my daughter is disobedient from time to time, which makes me very angry, she is naughty, cute, smart, lively and, most importantly, extremely healthy. I am the lucky one who should be cherished most.

With a grateful heart, cherish what you have now and be a happy person. As for the rest, leave it to time for the time being!