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After the child keeps a diary, can parents read it?

Better not. If you really want to know about children, you should have more interaction and communication at ordinary times. Children's diaries also have their own little secrets. Don't think that you are a parent, you should have the full right to know about your children, because children have their own sense of independence from the beginning of keeping a diary. When a person's diary is peeked, it is really difficult to express his inner helplessness. It is better to communicate face to face than to read a diary. If the interaction is good enough and the relationship is harmonious enough, I don't think parents will have the idea of reading their children's diaries

Privacy refers to a kind of personality right enjoyed by natural persons. In this right, private life is peaceful, and the privacy of private information is protected according to law, and it will not be illegally invaded, known, collected, used and disclosed by others. Moreover, the subject of rights has the right to decide to what extent others can interfere in their private lives, whether their privacy is open to others, and the scope and extent of disclosure.

There are many things written in the diary, many of which are negative. I don't want to tell anyone what I want to express. My thoughts on interpersonal relationships, my little girl's thoughts, my happiness and unhappiness, my worries, my despair. I shudder to think about it. I will never forgive my mother. My adolescent personality changed a lot, from extroversion to introversion, which is a big reason. I don't talk to others because I'm afraid my inner secrets will be revealed, so I keep a diary. Besides, parents nowadays are actually quite ridiculous. Some questions about children don't try to get to know them first, but ask strangers online, so they are more willing to listen to outsiders than their own children.

If parents really want to know their children's thoughts and recorded things, they can have face-to-face heart-to-heart communication with their children and think of things on the bright side, so that children will not have resistance and are more willing to share their recorded things, thus cultivating their good character. These qualities are much more important than the so-called study, and there is no comparability at all. It is important to realize this. From the perspective of human nature, it has been emphasized in this official WeChat account that it can make people great.