How to judge whether your husband loves you or not?

whether a man loves himself or not can be seen in many ways. It is simple to know a man's heart. The person who really loves you will respect you very much, and he can see his heart for you from some of his performances.

How do you think your husband loves you?

1. After marriage, men are indifferent to you.

The most straightforward performance of a man who doesn't love you is that he doesn't want to talk to you, and he won't take the initiative to care about you, because he has cheated on you, and he is disgusted with everything you do and say.

2. Never take the initiative

Rationally speaking, the enthusiasm of boys in pursuing girls may be out of love, novelty or even just a desire to conquer. When the passion of a love fades, the freshness gradually disappears, and it slowly enters a dull period, and the details in life are the true state of a person. When you find that a man is beginning to fade away from you, no longer taking the initiative to ask you out, no longer taking the initiative to invite you to dinner and watch movies, having fun together on weekends, and even relying on you to initiate most conversations and communication in daily life, you need to seriously consider whether this man really loves you.

3, often use a few words to perfunctory you

If two people are in love, if a man really loves you, then he can always give you a positive response. If he is busy now, he will also tell you that he is really busy now. I will reply to you later and he will reply to you as soon as he is free. But if this man doesn't love you, he will often use some perfunctory words, such as uh-huh, oh, yes, right ..... and often reply very slowly.

4. After marriage, men always cheat frequently.

Cheating best shows whether a man loves you. If this man cheats after marriage, it must be that your life lacks interest and romance. You have lost the freshness of him. If you can't grasp his heart, he will flirt with others.

5, rarely show

When you love someone, your eyes will shine when you look at her. Most men seldom say "I love you" in life, which is related to the calm nature of men. But if you don't express it, it doesn't mean you don't have to express it. Women will be more emotional. Remember the day when she came to her period, a well-prepared small gift, an exclusive confession of an anniversary, and even a simple but devoted kiss, all of which can make a woman receive a signal of love. And these little things are really hard for a man who really loves you?

6. I'm very impatient to talk to you

Everything in the world changes, so does love and not love, but if you don't manage your feelings well, you may change from love to not love. If one day a man doesn't love you, he who used to be very patient with you now becomes very impatient. You want to talk to him well, but his tone directly shows that he doesn't want to talk to you more, and he looks completely impatient.

7. Arguing with you for no reason

This kind of man's psychological activity track is actually making excuses for his cheating, and finding comfort for his cheating heart on the grounds that you don't work, earn money and clean up the housework at home.

How to judge whether a husband loves himself or not

First, he cares and loves you when you are sick. Even if I'm busy, I won't forget to call you and care about you. I'll buy you medicine and take care of you when I'm not busy. I can understand and take care of you in your special period, such as physiological period and pregnancy.

second, your mother-in-law will not be allowed to talk about you casually, and their families respect you more. Even if his family occasionally talks about you, he will stand up for you, or vice versa.

Third, you can spend the money you earn and let you take charge of it. I would rather spend less myself and let my wife spend more.

Fourth, you feel better and better after marriage, and he respects your choice. Instead of interfering with you and not letting you do this or that.

fifth, when strangers meet you after marriage, they will say that you are becoming more and more beautiful. That's because of the moisture of love, good mood and good skin.

Sixth, I will take the initiative to help you with housework, and even let my children help you with housework. Even say, wife, you and I have suffered, but in fact, you have a good life.

seven, be patient with your wife and don't yell at her.

judging whether a man loves you or not depends on these three points.

1. Is he willing to spend money for you?

Xiaoyou and her boyfriend have been together for more than half a year, and they often meet and date. Although her boyfriend basically pays for meals, most of them eat fast food and so on. The combined consumption of them will not exceed 1 yuan, and her boyfriend has never given Xiaoyou a gift. On the contrary, Xiaoyou. It is clear to all the female friends around Xiaoyou that this man refuses to spend money on Xiaoyou, which shows that men are not sincere about Xiaoyou, just for fun, and they all advise Xiaoyou to break up early, so don't waste time. However, Xiaoyou didn't listen to his friends' advice at first, and stood on her boyfriend's side wholeheartedly, saying that her boyfriend just wanted to save some money and plan for their future. But later, it turned out that her boyfriend really didn't love Xiaoyou. He bought a suit for himself and spent 1 yuan, but refused to spend 6 yuan to buy a bunch of flowers for Xiaoyou during the festival. After that, her boyfriend secretly cheated on her, found a richer woman and abandoned Xiaoyou. I once saw a sentence: "Where is a man's heart, there is money." It's really reasonable. With a good relationship, a woman must talk to a man about money. A man willing to spend money for you may not be much, but doing his best to give you the best and meet your needs is the real love for you.

2. Will you spend time with you?

When filar silk and her boyfriend started dating, her boyfriend was very interested in her. Whether she wanted to eat, go shopping or go to the movies, her boyfriend would take time to spend with filar silk, which made her friends around her particularly envious. But the good times didn't last long. After three months of dating, filar silk called her boyfriend every time and wanted him to come out to accompany her. Her boyfriend said that she had no time and was too busy to leave. Later, filar silk was used to eating, watching movies and shopping by herself, and sometimes even forgot that she had a boyfriend. It is useless to judge whether a man really loves you. If a man is busy, he is still willing to spend time with you. This is what really cares about your feelings and doesn't want you to be too lonely. If the other person can't even spare time to accompany you, can you expect him to love you?

3. Will you pay attention to you?

My best friend broke up with her boyfriend last month, just because he gave her roses and chocolates that she didn't like the most on Valentine's Day. My best friend told her boyfriend more than once that she didn't like roses and chocolates the most, but her boyfriend still didn't take it to heart, so she broke up. When this happens, many silly women will defend their boyfriends, thinking that they are careless and forget, but the truth is that men don't love women enough. There is a popular saying on the Internet: "There are no men in this world who don't care, only men who don't care." In feelings, even if a man is dull again, he will express his love with his heart when facing the woman he loves, so judging whether a man loves you or not depends on whether he is willing to pay attention to you. In love, if you meet a man who really loves you, he will definitely try his best to maintain this relationship, so that you will not be wronged, and you will be considerate and tolerant. Women don't even have to guess whether a man has himself in his heart, because as long as he is around, women will be full of security.

Does your husband love you or not? Look at the performance after giving birth to a baby.

1. Understand tolerance

After having a baby, most mothers will take care of their children at home, but it is easy to accumulate negative emotions, because children often do some annoying things, but they can't get angry with them, and they don't understand anything. Therefore, it is easy for a mother with children to be "lighted" by the little things in her life. At this time, her husband should not be too serious. She should be patient, enlighten her and not lose her temper with her. This is the performance of a good husband.

2. I still love you very much

Women can't use cosmetics frequently when they are pregnant, and, er, the prestigious children won't have time to dress themselves up in the future. In addition, many men won't say it clearly, but their performance proves that they are actually disgusted. Then I will become indifferent, I won't chat with you if I have nothing to do, and I don't know how much I care about my wife. Every day I become very cold. Women have not become like this to give birth to your children. At this time, it is a good man who knows how to take care of his wife and really take care of his wife.

3. Being able to help with the children

Taking care of the children is very tiring. Often, anyone who is restless will get up to take care of the children in the middle of the night. Although men are usually very busy with housework, good men will take time to help their wives take care of the children no matter how busy they are.

4. When the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is tense, it will not be partial to his mother.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are the most prone to friction, and the atmosphere at home often becomes extremely subtle. At this time, a husband who is not partial to his mother and can speak for you is a good husband. After all, when a woman marries, she is the only one. If she is still bullied, she will feel very sad.