Do you know what married women should and shouldn't do?

Sisters, do you know what two things married sisters should and should not do? The most important thing is sweetness, and the last thing is complaining. Let me analyze how I operate in this respect.

First, it all comes from this mouth. The same thing, sweet mouth and complaining have completely different final results. For example, my husband washed the dishes tonight, but he didn't clean the stove. If he complains, he doesn't even clean the stove. Is it true that he only washes dishes? What did he say when he heard this? If I had known, I wouldn't have washed it, and I would have caused trouble. He won't want to wash it next time. What about you? You start cleaning with a headache. If you use your head, you can say, "honey, this action is too neat." This thing is fast and clean. " . Forget the stove, clean it yourself. Let's talk about it next time my husband washes the dishes. Don't forget to clean the stove. Last time you forgot to clean it, I cleaned it the next day. Well, he will definitely clean it this time, and he will probably remember it next time, so the same thing, sweet mouth, thinking is completely different from worrying about complaints. This is the practice of the two points mentioned just now in actual operation.

Second, let's give another example of a child. The child brought his classmates to play at home, and then he ran away. If you complain, teach your child a lesson. Don't you know how to clean up? Without me to wipe your ass, this house would be a pigsty. Don't take your classmates home to play next time. Then I got angry and started to clean up. After listening to this, the children were either lost or skinned. Say what you like, but I won't listen anyway. But if you are sweet, my daughter just had a good time. Do you want children to come to our house to play in the future? Of course they can come, of course they can, but one thing is that after they leave, you should clean up the battlefield just now. The work you did for your mother last time can be said to be a little expert in housekeeping. If it's inconvenient to reach it, just ask your mother for help, okay? I don't need to tell you how the children feel after hearing this. Everybody knows.

Therefore, when you are a daughter-in-law and a mother, you really don't have to worry too much and pay too much. As long as you use our mouths well, life will not be so tired.