When arguing, the most difficult thing to refute is silence.

First, you are a rain in my dry years. You are raining heartily, I can't get wet.

Second, the real charm of people: it is not that you left a good first impression on each other; It is that the other person still likes to be with you after knowing you for many years. It's not that you instantly attract each other's attention; It's that the other person still appreciates you after getting familiar with you. I didn't even meet for the first time, and there was a feeling of meeting each other late; But after many vicissitudes, I can sincerely say that it's good to know you.

Third, if you treat the people around you as demons, you will live in hell; You regard the people around you as angels, and you live in heaven.

There is always something missing in life. What you get, you lose. The important thing is that you know what you want. He who chases two rabbits is bound to get nothing.

5. When missing flies through the night sky and stays in your fingers, it is as beautiful as a dream. When you turn your back, you will swallow the indelible loneliness, so hurt, so resentful and so painful in the sea of people.

6. I don't want to make much progress in my career, I just want to live a sweet and warm life; I don't want to live a rich life, I just want my family to be healthy and happy.

Seven, lack of talent and seek more. Lack of knowledge leads to anxiety. Lack of power leads to more anger. If you don't believe enough, just say more. If you are not brave enough, you will work hard. If you don't know enough, you will see more. If there is not enough reason, argue more. If you don't have enough feelings, you will have more musical instruments. Li Shutong

Eight, you should tolerate those who have different views from you, so that life is easier. It will be painful for you if you keep trying to change him. Learn how to put up with him. You must learn how to tolerate him.

Nine, opportunities are like clear water, everywhere; Opportunity is like moonlight, there is a gap.

Ten, many times, people will not change their ideas according to the facts. On the contrary, people like to guess the facts according to their own ideas.

XI。 What makes you cry is not love, but hurt. It's not your emotions that make you miserable, but your sadness. People who love you can't bear to make you cry, and people who don't love you won't care if you cry.

Twelve, the tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop. Farewell to the starry night, trembling leaves are flying all over the sky like flying catkins, and pieces of flying flowers falling on the ground are like countless bitterness, scattered on the cool steps of the street, which is so messy.

Thirteen, have the opportunity to travel alone, remember to turn off the phone.

Fourteen, when arguing, the most difficult thing to refute is silence.

Fifteen, I want to continue to be a madman and live according to my dreams rather than the way others want.

Sixteen, money gives you material things, time gives you companionship, and sentiment gives you romance. Those are not love. The complete appearance of love should be: playboy is single-minded to you, playful is steady to you, impatient is waiting for you, arrogant is humble to you. Because you try something you are not good at, because you want to be a better person, this is the stupidest and truest appearance of love.

Seventeen, love at first sight, love of the whole city, a love song, a farewell; One thought becomes a delusion, one becomes a madness, one becomes a wound, and one becomes a pain; A blooming season, a beautiful season, a blooming season and a lonely season; Flowers bloom for a season, thinking about life, flowers bloom for a season, warm to tears.

18. I heard a very pretentious sentence: you are your destiny. It makes sense to think about it. Lazy and poor, greedy and fat, busy wholeheartedly every day. Cheerful people are depressed and easy to get rid of. Tangled and can't see the world clearly, free and easy. What makeup photos you set for yourself, fate will give you the end. Rhyme. It was a bang.

Nineteen, if sincerity is a kind of injury, I choose silence. If silence is a kind of injury, I choose to leave!

Twenty, probably many people are single because they think anyone can, but it seems that no one can.

Twenty-one, when I am in pain and sadness, I will cry, I will write a diary of thousands of words, and I will send a short message to someone saying: It's all your fault that I have become like this! Now I will only squeeze out a perfunctory smile and say insincerely: I am fine!

22. The greatest blessing in life is not to encounter disasters, but to ask for blessings.

You have never mentioned that I love you, but everything I say is that I will.

24. People suffer because they pursue the wrong things.

Twenty-five, missing, is a kind of expectation, is a kind of happiness!

When it is useless to say more, perhaps silence is the best explanation.

1, people say that you can't cherish until you lose it. In fact, the loss after cherishing is more painful than anything else.

2. When it is useless to talk more, perhaps silence is the best explanation.

3. There are always some names that suddenly fade out of your life; There are other names, I can't remember when I became familiar with them.

I am confused, but I never escape from reality. I am timid, but I will show enough courage when necessary.

Your time is limited, don't waste it on repeating other people's lives. Don't let other people's opinions drown out your inner voice.

6, more joy, less sadness; More truth, less hypocrisy; More leisure, less fuss. These four more and four less are very important. With them, you can live a happy life. You can arrange your own life independently and treat yourself well, then your heart will be rich.

7. You have read some books, watched some movies and lived some lives. You know what is right and wrong in your heart, what kind of life is the safest, and who you are with will definitely not get hurt. But one day when a person appears, you know in your heart that it is wrong to fall in love with him, and you can also restrain your feelings and maintain superficial peace. But one day, he beckons to you, and you will still walk past like you are out of your mind, just like fate has arranged.

8. Don't expect him to turn back when you break up, and don't go looking for him. People who break up in a bad mood can't find their original feelings. There is really nothing better than being embarrassed and not adapting to the next round. Besides, how inferior you are, you feel that you will never find a good person again.

9. The clouds in the sky are changing rapidly, and the sea on the ground is becoming a mulberry field. It seems that babbling is only one step away from old age. Beauty can turn, stand out from the crowd in an instant, and the journey of life suddenly floats by. I haven't had time to understand the temperature changes of the sunshine in the four seasons, and I walked into the long night with a faint sunset glow …

10, we must invite the old people out and let the new people live in. Don't stay there any longer, it's meaningless. Those who should go are doomed to go, and those who should stay will not go!

1 1. If a woman spends her time caring for others, living for others, and finding a good man to marry and have children, she will spend her whole life improving herself and trying to be a better self, life will be different. Every woman is a unique flower, and blooming her own brilliance is the greatest glory in life. Don't be inclined to the three views of morality. Being yourself and living your own life is the greatest morality. -

12, "It's easier when you suddenly feel that you have nothing. You can do whatever you want. Life is full of unknown possibilities. You are not responsible to anyone. There is nothing to lose anyway. " -Mr. Decca

13, "So, if you want to keep up your stomach that you love to eat, your heart that you love to play, and your habit of shopping, you must work hard and earn more money. If you go alone and come alone, you can live well. "

14, maybe his academic performance is average, and he was detained. Maybe the love experience is average and I have been cheated. Maybe the job is average and I have been yelled at. Maybe he's average in stature and looks, and he's been ignored. Just because we are still alive, living in our own way, crying, laughing, eating, sleeping and working hard, we are not inferior students, we are first-class soldiers. Zhang Jiajia

15, people are like this. Sometimes I will be unhappy, sometimes I will walk into a dead end and feel miserable. Sometimes I feel that I am in a particularly good mood and can do anything. There will be both moods. The probability of the two is similar. It is in this repetition that time passes. -Yoshimoto Banana's "Manna"

16, don't be afraid, don't be timid, feelings are like this, you won't mature without losing you, life is like this, and you won't grow without encountering sinister things. God may not give you what you want. You must strive for it. Don't let the people who love you and yourself down.

17, beyond a certain age, the so-called life is nothing more than a process of constant loss. The precious things in your life will fall out of your hands one by one like a comb without teeth. Instead, what falls into your hands are worthless fakes. Physical qualities, hopes, ideals, beliefs and meanings, or relatives are disappearing from you one by one, and it is not easy to find a substitute. -Haruki Murakami

18, all should be encouraged to say: "You have to force yourself to become better, because many bitches behind you are waiting to see your jokes. So be hard on yourself and force yourself to work hard. Five years later, you will thank yourself for your efforts today and hate your laziness and inferiority. May you live a deep life in a fickle world. "

19, "I have a strange personality. Sometimes I love to talk, but I don't talk for a day; Speak well when you are happy, and don't say a word when you are unhappy; I don't like to hold grudges, but I still remember clearly who is good to me and who is bad to me. Once you get hurt, you are always deeply hurt. I have no friends to comfort me, but always comfort myself. I am eccentric and withdrawn, I will suddenly be silent and feel sad in laughter; I won't be really angry, even if I am angry, I will soon forget it. "

20. "No one can guarantee that the other half is ideal, and the hidden problems in love will appear with the cooling of enthusiasm. Good partners should not only complement each other, but also educate each other. Not ideal, it doesn't matter! Can make him ideal. Not sensible, it doesn't matter! You can teach him how to be a man. Successful couples rise because of mutual support, and failed couples fall because of mutual drag. So there is no hopeless half, only half who can't lead! "

2 1, life is not for comparison, but for completion. So in fact, what we need more is to constantly sow and harvest ourselves in this process. Although sometimes this process will be a little long, don't panic, life is not that time-consuming. When you feel confused, stop and tidy yourself up. Then I set off. Just hold your horses and be loyal to your heart, and life will be enriched. -Chai Jing

22. "In life, there are too many things that can't be helped, and there is too much helplessness. An impenetrable disguise is like an impenetrable heart. An unclear feeling is like an incomprehensible mind. Less muscle is not as good as more heart; Forgiveness with a smile is better than red eyes. In life, being confused is rare, and being confused is also rare. Live too clearly, is the biggest don't understand. People will be happy when they are satisfied, and they will be happy when they are simple. "

When language is pale, silence is talking.

1, love, money can't buy it, but it will pay.

Those who are hesitant to make plans are usually not sure of their own abilities.

3. friends don't say it, but they have it in their hearts; Feelings are not cherished by one person, but guarded by two people.

As a "sunflower" family, I am good at finding tiny happiness, and I don't have much ambition. I can easily find the good side of things, I am resistant to pressure and blow, I have a grateful heart, and the nature of sunshine is full of enthusiasm for life. My mouth is habitually raised 15 degrees, always as bright as the sun.

Sometimes I want to go far away, but I don't want to be baptized by my heart. Qian Shan went to all kinds of waters just to meet that different self.

6. The person who is best to you, in other words, is a bully. The woman in the world always bullies the man who is best for her.

7. Don't be easily influenced, and don't be too rational. People can't live too clearly, just know it in their hearts.

8. When you have lost, give up bravely.

9. There are really too many irreversible sufferings and too many things in life. This is not something you will understand if you keep thinking about it. It is good to know that people are alive.

10, don't step on other people's footprints and find your own way.

1 1. The worst feeling in the world is having to doubt what you used to believe.

12, a pair of shoes. When you just buy them, you should bend down and wipe a little dust. Wearing it for a long time, even if it is trampled, it rarely lowers its head. People are generally like this, whether for things or feelings. At first, you were distressed when she frowned. Then she cried, and you were less nervous.

13, when the language is pale, silence is talking.

14, learn to live alone, whether someone around you loves you or not. Do what you should do, and treat it safely with or without love.

15, it's not that I don't want to say it, but that I have a lot to say, and it will be safer to keep it in my heart.

Love is a cycle. Love, giving to others, is not a direct return immediately after seeing it; But it will eventually circulate to yourself.

17, the road is still on the road. Take off all disguise. Most endings of life stories come from your choices. There is nothing to complain about.

18, life is hard to be perfect. No matter how thoughtful and earnest we think, there are regrets and shortcomings. In the process of life, perfection is just an ideal, just a vision, just our inner vision.

19, the love between fish and water is the highest pursuit of both husband and wife, but we always think that we are water and the other is fish.

20. It is not terrible to encounter a failure in life. The terrible thing is that I have failed countless times in the same kind of failure and still haven't come out.

2 1, if you don't broaden your thinking, it will be difficult to open your horizons, and your horizons will not be broadened, and the road under your feet will become narrower and narrower.

22. The three strongest heartbeats in my first half of life occurred when I was called by the teacher in class and walked down the stairs, and you smiled at me. ......

23. The previous goal is the foundation of your next goal, and the next goal is the continuation of the previous goal.

24, put me in your memory, don't worry about anything else.

25. The latest or last impression has a strong influence on people's cognition, and the result is often regarded as a summary of the process.

Speak classics when you are in a bad mood, and comfort others when you are most sad.

1. Sometimes the space in the heart is big enough to hold the whole world, but sometimes it is small enough to hold only one person.

2. The loneliness before seeing is dull, and the loneliness after falling in love is painful. Recalling the past can only increase loneliness and sadness.

3。 Fading away from prosperity, a person's fireworks are a little cold, a little lonely, and more moving.

4. The sad swing is always accompanied by the breeze. There are always stars in the lonely night. When I suddenly look back, you are no longer with me.

There are endless scenery in the world, and I am not old.

Do you know there is a kind of fool in the world? When they are most sad, they are comforting others.

7. Can tiptoe be closer to happiness?

8.┌_ I can't control my temper. My heart is not that big. I can't take care of everyone's feelings.

9. The breeze is blowing, the rain is falling, the wind in my hometown is singing, and there are several storms. A song flies over the floating world, missing a thin face.

10. Silence is an undeniable loss.

1 1. I want to forget, but I often miss crying. ┈┾

12. Don't cry, don't laugh, don't make trouble, no one needs to know.

13. The most painful performance is no emotion.

14. Happiness is not easy for a soft-hearted person. If someone hurts her or her, she will feel bad.

15. Happiness is a state of mind, not a state.

16. I'm not afraid of loneliness, I'm afraid of unhappiness.

17. It can be said that it doesn't matter when it hurts, and it can also be said that it doesn't matter when it is sad.

18. A person should never be a slave to his emotions.

19. Traveling alone, ignoring complicated trivial matters, freely experiencing a city and a story, leaving a laugh.

20. The deepest loneliness is that you know your desire, but you have to play dumb about it.

2 1. He made your eyes red, but you smiled and forgave him.

22. On the overpass that parted ways with you, I watched you go away and get seriously ill again.

Although I didn't say goodbye, the ending was more painful than parting. ˇ

24. The alienation I see continues, and I can't tell you the sadness that I can't ignore.

25. The pain in your mouth is still flashing. Your eyes deceived me. ヽ

26. It's better to take a few bottles of beer to the ceiling, hold down the moths circling around the lamp, and don't mention anything until the other person cries.

27. It's time for you to go like this, so I'm so tired and scarred now.

28. Vaguely at that time, your tears were not high, and he would say goodbye best.

29.★ He left, except for a bloody couple costume and the unfinished sentence I love you.

30. I feel depressed and uncomfortable. I want to cry, jump and sleep on the road.

3 1. I'm afraid to see bright yellow and burn my tearful eyes.

32. I would rather be silent than hide my face and cry in every heavy rain and lonely journey and tell you this feeling.

33. Do you know the feeling of crying when you want to throw up? It's like a flash flood, but it still rains cats and dogs.

34. Who says there is no eternity? We can't be together forever.

If you don't understand my sadness, what right do you have to ask me to share your happiness?

36. You may have left my sight, but you never left my mind.

37. You don't need to be brave or lie. People who know you will naturally know who you are.

38. At this age, we are always inexplicably moved and inexplicably sad.

39. Perhaps the so-called true love is that two people overcome selfishness at the same time at a certain time, and later accept each other as they are. Equatorial girl

40. The bitterness spoken is weakness, and the bitterness buried in the heart is called strength.