Phoenix male husband asked my family to buy a 60-square-meter old-age home for his parents. Should I get a divorce?

There is a saying circulating on the Internet: "Good women don't marry Phoenix men!" As a symbol, Phoenix Man refers to a man who gathered the strength of the whole family and studied hard for more than ten years, and finally became "golden phoenix flying out of the mountain", bringing hope to a family transformation.

In fact, it is not a bad thing for a man to be responsible for himself and his family. Some people will say that Phoenix Man is stupid and filial, Phoenix Man is selfish, and Phoenix Man doesn't know how to be grateful ... all these are because of Phoenix Man's own experience, which makes them more real.

Mingyu is a veritable Phoenix man. He was born in poverty, but he was ambitious. He helped his parents sell vegetables in his spare time since he was a child. He watched his parents get up early and get greedy every day. He also understands the difficulties of his parents from the bottom of his heart and is more considerate of his parents. As the only child in the family, he was placed high hopes on by his parents and was admitted to Chongben University.

At that time, Mingyu's parents were so happy that they always thought that their son could get ahead, so they held a big banquet and invited the villagers and neighbors over for dinner. Mingyu, in everyone's expectation, carried her bags and went to study in the distance.

Mingyu worked hard and was smart during her college years. He can really have a good future, but maybe his poor apprentice is a common problem. He has no detailed plans for the future, and always looks ahead and looks back. When choosing a job, the tutor told him many times that he should continue to take the postgraduate entrance examination and strive for it. After all, there are many college students now, and then he will consider working, but Mingyu doesn't want to, and he doesn't dare to do those insecure things. Just then, one of his teachers passed the interview. He said that he didn't want to miss this opportunity, so he gave up everything and chose to be a teacher.

In fact, this job is a relatively stable job in today's concept. Mingyu's parents feel that their son has a bright future after learning that he is going to teach. For them, this job is an iron rice bowl, and it is the most enviable and proud thing for everyone.

It was also there that Mingyu met his wife Yi Ting. Yiting and Mingyu are colleagues. Yiting's family is different from Mingyu's. She comes from a good family. Her father is a local real estate agent. He asked his daughter to work, but he just wanted her to have a decent job. As for salary, people don't care at all. And her father also bought a single apartment near the school to give his daughter wind and rain.

In fact, Yi Ting seldom lives there, so she occasionally takes a nap there. She has a 300,000 scooter, and the postage for commuting is worth a month's salary. Mingyu is different from her. Mingyu lives in the dormitory of the school, and the room still leaks when it rains heavily. In the face of such conditions as Yi Ting, Mingyu dare not even think about it. He not only spends his salary, but also saves money. Some of them still have to buy houses, while others want to save money for their parents.

In fact, Yu is very handsome and works very seriously. Except for his poor family, everyone thinks he is a very good young man. That year, when Yi Ting was the head teacher, Mingyu was her head teacher. They often exchanged experiences, so they gradually got to know each other and their feelings changed. Yi Ting likes this quiet but unambiguous boy, and Mingyu also likes this cheerful girl, and they soon get together, even to the point of talking about marriage.

At first, Yiting's parents were very opposed to such a marriage. Yiting's father thinks Mingyu is not good enough for her daughter. This is not just material. The first time he saw Mingyu, he thought he was very utilitarian. Yiting's father has always been very accurate in judging people, so it is not easy to identify this person. According to Ting, she was so involved that she couldn't listen to anything her parents said. She wants to marry Mingyu anyway. Parents always love their children. How can they make their precious daughter unhappy? Finally, she compromised her marriage.

When they got married, Yi Ting didn't ask for a bride price. Almost all the wedding rooms and weddings are paid by the Yi Ting family. Mingyu can't afford a house. After they got married, they lived in Yi Ting's single apartment. Yi Ting didn't feel unhappy. She thinks that as long as two people are together, even eating chaff and pharynx is happy.

After they got married for a long time, Yiting and Mingyu had a happy time together, but it didn't last long. Mingyu made a request to Yiting, which caused a contradiction between them.

Mingyu always looks sad for a while. Every time Yiting asked him, he kept silent. Until that day, Mingyu had been brewing for a long time and told Yiting what she was thinking.

"Wife, in fact, I have been unhappy these days, because the house I live in is so good, and my parents live in a broken tile house in their hometown. I really feel sorry for that. I feel guilty at the thought that my parents have worked hard for me all their lives and still live in the country. I know that I don't have the ability to let my parents live in such a good house, so I feel particularly unfilial. "

Mingyu said, while leaving tears. Yi Ting looked at her husband sad and sad, and she was also sad. She gave her husband an idea and said, "Why don't I give some money from my salary to my parents?" In this way, Mingyu achieved her goal.

Later, Mingyu made various demands, and Yiting agreed. But Mingyu said at the end: "If you don't ask your parents to pay for my parents to buy a house, it won't cost much, just give them a pension."

Yi Ting listened inexplicably: "Why should my family pay?"

Mingyu rightfully replied, "You are my wife, and you should also help my parents buy a house. I don't have this ability. Besides, your family doesn't lack this. Helping is not a problem. You can talk to your parents, maybe you will agree. "

Yi Ting felt speechless and she refused. I didn't expect Mingyu to come to her parents' home with a gift and beg her parents to go home for retirement. According to Yu Ting's parents, they still have quality, and they didn't embarrass Mingyu face to face. They told their daughter about it, which made Mingyu completely angry. She immediately asked Mingyu for a divorce. Mingyu didn't agree, but she was finally forced to divorce.

At the time of divorce, Mingyu didn't get a penny of property, and greed finally left him with nothing.

In fact, Mingyu thinks about herself from beginning to end. He takes it for granted that everything about his wife belongs to him, and that his wife and her family help him, but he never wants to give them anything in return. Maybe he felt that the other party didn't need his help, and he almost took their kindness for granted.

Just like that sentence, the husband's family's duty is to help you, not to help you. To tell the truth, they have no obligation to help the Mingyu family. On the contrary, Mingyu has no right to ask a family to help her parents buy an old-age house.