A child went to the orchard and saw his grandfather clipping some branches from the fruit trees on the ladder. He picked up a branch and said, "Grandpa,

A child went to the orchard and saw his grandfather clipping some branches from the fruit trees on the ladder. The child picked up a branch and said, "Grandpa, they are growing well. You can cut them off." It’s a pity to cut them off!” Grandpa said, “Silly boy, only by cutting them off can the fruit trees grow better!”

In real life, we often encounter this situation:

If you want to take something, you must give it first;

Only when you lose something can you gain something;

Only when you do nothing can you do something. ...

The dialectics of life are like this. Giving up and gaining go hand in hand and complement each other.

In fact, life is a cyclical process of constantly giving up and gaining again. We give up reunion, and we have a journey of thousands of miles; we give up luck, and we have success; we give up comfort, and we have a wonderful life... Here, giving up has transcended the meaning of throwing away, and has been sublimated into An art of survival.

Giving up is a kind of rationality. In life, it is difficult to come across the good thing of having both your cake and eat it too, but choosing between the two often requires us to make a decision. At this time, it is a kind of reason to know that it is impossible to have both, and not to make unnecessary efforts; it is also a kind of reason to distinguish between the two and make the right choice; in the choice of the two, it is also a kind of reason; After making a choice, you no longer look forward and backward, but go all out to do the chosen thing well, making it a wonderful event in your life, and it is also a kind of wisdom.

Giving up is a kind of courage. Most people have a kind of inertia. Once they are familiar with an environment and enter a state, even if they have a suitable orbit, they will hesitate again and again and find it difficult to make decisions. There are many similar situations where people give up on reality and go. Striving for the future; giving up the familiar to explore the unfamiliar; giving up the safe to take risks... And this kind of giving up in the face of the team does require a kind of courage, a courage, and a vision.

Giving up is a state. According to the nurse who delivered the baby, when a child is born, his two little hands are clenched tightly, as if he wants to hold everything he gets, which may not be really necessary or valuable. However, it is difficult for people to give up. It is not easy. You should know that life is like climbing a mountain. Only by climbing a high mountain can you appreciate the beauty and infiniteness of the scenery and feel the beauty and magnificence of life. However, it is difficult to climb high with a heavy load. Only by throwing away all kinds of burdens and fetters can you free your spirit and hit the road with ease. At this time, the more you give up, the further you go and the more brilliant your life will be.

Giving up is like scissors. The tree of life becomes more vibrant after the branches and leaves are cut off. Refusing to give up will only trap ourselves in the web of life until death. For a high-quality life, we need to choose to give up!