After divorce, men don't visit their children at all and don't pay alimony. You can do four things like this.

The original pledge of eternal love did not fade, and the mutual affection between the two people came to an end. The fate of two people has been exhausted, and there is no way. No one can force a person to love someone he doesn't love. But when we fall in love, we swear once and for all. How can you go back on your word if you say it? Does it count if you say it?

The outside world is wonderful, but the common things at home are a little helpless. But people are not just an independent person, but have become a family, promising to take care of a person for a lifetime. They can't do whatever they want without a little responsibility and responsibility. No matter how beautiful and gentle the girls outside are, they are just like the jewels displayed in the jewelry store. No matter how rich and luxurious, it belongs to others. You can't reach for them. However, many married men are desperate to reach out to the castle outside the city.

Beckham's feelings are like the disintegration of most family marriages. It's not once or twice for a man to cheat after marriage. When Beckham couldn't stand it anymore, the two divorced.

When his son was 8 years old, Beckham fought for custody. When a man changed his mind, Beckham said, I can't believe he still cares about his children.

Sure enough, after the divorce, Beckham discovered that the money they had saved was pitiful. Asked her husband, he lost his temper and swore that he didn't steal money behind her back. Beckham knows it's too late to ask. In order to fight for his own rights and interests, Beckham finally divorced. When Beckham filed for divorce before, her ex-husband was very surprised. He said that he had known that he was wrong and had changed. There are so many men cheating outside, how many are divorced? Said Beckham was irresponsible, regardless of the harm to parents and children, selfish. Faced with the accusation of her ex-husband, Beckham finds it hard to understand how this man can do this.

Beckham said that divorce means divorce, that is, he didn't take care of the children at all, didn't come to visit them, and refused to pay alimony. What can I do?

In the face of such a man, it is really difficult to solve. I have to say my opinion:

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Divorce is a matter of two people, not children. You can't take the resentment of adults out on children. Since the child is born, even if the parents are free to divorce, there is still a process of bringing up the child. The party who loses custody of the child should pay the maintenance fee on time and visit the child regularly according to law, so that the child's mind can grow and have a healthy living environment.

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If you meet a selfish father who doesn't care about his children, you can cultivate his positive and optimistic attitude when his children are young. Mothers should pay attention to their manners and try to give their children a warm home. Don't find it difficult to live alone. In fact, leaving love rat is a liberation for many women.

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There is a mother next to me. She divorced when her children were very young. After the divorce, she never speaks ill of her father in front of her children, and always makes them feel that your father has not abandoned you. Even if a person cries, when she sees a child laughing, she immediately smiles, making them feel that she is a cheerful and optimistic person.

She fought for alimony from her ex-husband privately and even went to court. She said that her current financial ability can fully support her children, but her father must fulfill his rights and obligations, which has nothing to do with divorce. I agree with her very much. She asked the child to call his father several times a week. When the ex-husband doesn't want to answer the phone, he also asks the children to be affectionate and compliment his father. She said she didn't want her children to live in jealousy.

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In this case, her children are very lively, without the extreme and anxiety of single-parent families. Unlike many children from single-parent families, she has become taciturn and even paranoid, and she has no children.

Therefore, you can try to get your ex-husband in contact with your children. Even if you don't, you can tell jokes to your children and live your life happily. It is difficult to raise children now. If you train your children well, they will be close to you. Let your ex-husband regret it when he is old.

Try to fight for alimony through legal procedures and legally enforce the man's right to visit his children. Not for men, but for children to have a sound growth environment and personality.