Why are urban people unwilling to find rural wives?

Why are so many urban boys unwilling to marry girls born in rural areas? Even girls with good looks or high education cannot avoid it. So where is the biggest gap? Regarding money, the housing prices in the city are overwhelming, and the property value of households in first- and second-tier cities is over one million, or even over ten million. For an only child, these things, to put it bluntly, will sooner or later belong to the young couple, that is, marrying a future millionaire inheritance.

It’s not that rural women don’t want to marry. In my opinion, many of them can’t afford to marry, which makes many rural women suffer. You ask how much gift money is needed in rural areas now? The minimum price ranges from 100,000 to hundreds of thousands, not counting other hardware, houses and cars. They also say that this is the lowest standard in their place. What other families are like, the small farmer mentality is extremely serious. When encountering this kind of family Well, who can bear it? Things are so much better in the city, and the parents are considered enlightened. There is an equal number of men and women, so no one suffers. In rural areas, except for those that have just been demolished or are about to be demolished, even if the rural family has some money, girls have no inheritance rights.

I am trying to objectively explain this common phenomenon and the biggest reason for its emergence. The answer itself does not have any value judgment in it. The problem is that boys in the city are not willing to marry girls from the countryside, so I assume that there are two girls who have similar personal conditions except birth, such as appearance, personality, education, income, etc. Where is the final contract?

It lies in property. In my life, I know many boys and girls from rural areas who have similar incomes. You don't think there will be any significant difference from men and women in the city in every aspect. In addition to property, there are also many wealthy rural areas. I think these people will not be discriminated against in the marriage market because of their rural status, because there is no property difference between them and urban women. At the same time, many people mentioned cognitive thinking methods, three outlooks, and personalities. These people have not yet been stripped of their innocence by reality. But I still think that cognition, outlook on life, and way of thinking depend on the growth environment, in other words, property factors, while personality has no correlation with rural or urban ones.

Let’s talk about the difference between rural girls and urban girls. I have to admit that in many cases, urban girls behave more appropriately and have healthier temperaments than rural girls. This has a lot to do with family education and economic conditions since childhood. For example, when getting along with leaders and relatives, urban girls know better when to say what to say because their parents have taught them by words and deeds since they were young, while rural girls have never been exposed to it before due to the limitations of their parents’ education, so You can only figure it out on your own, and more often than not you can only remain silent because you don’t know how to deal with it.

In addition, rural girls must be strong if they can work hard. Compared with urban girls who have been lacking in everything since childhood and have a harmonious personality, they do not have an advantage in personality. Everyone is willing to find a girl with a gentle, easy-going and family-oriented personality. If the city-born girls around you are willing, they just need to live their own little lives. The children's parents can still help, but rural girls must continue to be strong in order to give your parents a stable old age. You need to constantly improve your character, qualities, and qualities before you can reach a certain kind of reconciliation with the world.