I really hate my husband drinking.

It's 5: 29 in the morning. He came back from work at eleven o'clock last night, and it was very late. As a result, he was asked by one of his male classmates (unmarried) to go out for a barbecue and drink, just downstairs!

I called to ask how long I wanted to drink, and he said it was only twelve o'clock at the most. I said which ghost uncle believed what you said, and I said you knew my bottom line. /kloc-Don't go home after 0/2 o'clock. After all, the child was asleep at that time, and I didn't want to get up and open the door with you, which would wake the child up!

I didn't come back until three o'clock in the morning after drinking. When the dog heard a knock at the door outside, it kept barking. I still didn't open the door, because it wasn't once or twice. When I didn't open the door, once he went to bed with his colleagues, once in the car and once at their home! The house I rented is just across the street from my mother-in-law's house.

After waking up the child, the child got up and opened the door. I was in my room in my pajamas and didn't go to the lobby. I heard something outside, and his classmates sent him up. I'm afraid that two drunks will accidentally break into my room. I locked the door when the child went back to the room!

His classmate knocked on my door and said that he had been sent back. I said angrily that I knew, and I didn't say thank you to him!

Because I really hate him, I often have the cheek to ask my husband out for a drink, and I don't blame him at all. After all, my husband can't stand the temptation and is addicted to alcohol!

My husband's classmates are the same age as him and are not married at the age of 28. Men are really sensible late, and friends never ask me to go out for a barbecue or drink in the middle of the night, because they know that I am married and have children!

Besides, my husband is not human when he drinks too much!

Last year, no, the year before last, I went out for a drink during the Spring Festival, but I couldn't find anyone in the middle of the night and didn't answer my phone. Finally, at dawn, he came back by himself!

As a result, I drank too much, fell asleep in a chair on the street, and my cell phone was still missing. Most of them were picked up by cleaning aunts who swept the floor. Basic cleaning aunts like to pick things up and not return them!

Angry thing, that year, when he was drinking, he lost his mobile phone and couldn't find anyone in the middle of the night. Parents on both sides blame me, saying that I don't value him and that I won't follow him!

I was so angry that I cried. I feel very wronged. I loudly accused my mother and his mother, crying and saying, you people are wondering which one has considered me, how old he is, and want me to watch it anytime and anywhere, and be better to yourself. I don't have much energy to take care of him. I mean, I have to get up the next day to send my children to kindergarten!

I yelled at my emotions, but they didn't speak. That minute, I was confused and collapsed, which can't be described in words. My mother-in-law blames me for not understanding me. My own mother turned to her mother-in-law for help!

My own mother never considered my feelings. From small to large, she just imposed her ideas on her children, regardless of whether the children were willing to accept them or not!

My mother-in-law also knows that her son has drunk too much, but she has never comforted me. On the contrary, she blamed me for her son's love of drinking. She also said that if I give my son to you, you have to take care of him, not your own man!

That's because my mother-in-law said this sentence and completely cut off my relationship with her. I didn't move out before, and I endured all kinds of trivial things. Who told me she didn't have a house? Her house is really her house. Her house is just her old lady's name. She always said that she would pay the mortgage with us. Before that, she even called me to pay the mortgage. I said I could. Please add your son's name to the real estate license, she doesn't want to. It has nothing to do with me and his son!

And my husband also has a sister, because she gets along better than us, buys a small high-rise house and drives a BMW, so my husband's mother is always afraid of offending her son-in-law, and is also very polite to her son-in-law, but always gives you face when she wants to give you face. If she wants to say you're not, I have to say it!

I also asked my husband's mother, and I said that you often talk to me directly, which hurts people. Do you know that?/You know what? She didn't speak, I said, son-in-law and daughter-in-law are strangers, so you are so polite to son-in-law, why not be polite to daughter-in-law!

My mother-in-law said I was rude to my son-in-law because I was afraid that he would take it out on my daughter. I sneered, so if you are rude to your daughter-in-law, you are not afraid that I will take it out on your son. She said that she had never thought about it!

In my mother-in-law's idea, raising a son in poverty and raising a daughter in wealth means leaving all the good things at home to her daughter first, and her son has nothing, because his son is poor!

What good things have you sent your daughter? It doesn't mean that your daughter and son-in-law come back for dinner during the New Year, bring you some supplements or give you a red envelope, and go back to your parents' house empty-handed every year when they come back for the New Year!

My mother-in-law is still very happy. She went downstairs to buy food and meat. If her daughter didn't come back for the Spring Festival, to be honest, her son and I still couldn't have a good meal. What does his son want to eat? If he has no money, you can buy it yourself!

My mother-in-law doesn't know whether she can't handle things or her emotional intelligence is low. I can see these things. Anyway, from beginning to end, my son wants nothing, and my daughter will try her best!

When her daughter bought a car, she told her to pull a red cloth. She said she didn't want to, but she acted anyway!

My son later borrowed a down payment from the boss to buy a car (my husband's parents didn't borrow it, and the boss was honest and frank, saying that he wanted to buy a car, but he didn't say that he borrowed a down payment of 40,000 yuan. We are Buick scooters, with a total price of 65,438+10,000 yuan), but my husband and mother didn't want to pull the red cloth!

Because we buy a new car here, there is a saying of pulling red cloth!

Of course, my husband won't say anything, and I didn't pull the red cloth. My mother called to ask if you wore a red cloth when you bought a new car. I said no, my mother said yes, and I said yes!

Don't pull the red cloth, my mother-in-law won't say a word, and I don't know! I'm too lazy to talk about it, so I threw the 168 red envelope full of cash in the car!

Actually, I really don't want to talk about the past. I am very angry when I mention it. My husband always likes to take something to remind me from time to time!

I came back after 3 o'clock last night to wake up the children, and I woke up the children after 5 o'clock. He drank a lot of wine and even came to my second bedroom to take a shit. I was so angry that I really wanted to kick him, but he drank too much, so whatever you want, he won't feel pain!

Because he was drunk before, it's not that I didn't hit him hard and didn't feel pain! Later, I simply went to the toilet, picked up two pots of cold water and poured it on him. I asked him if he was awake. No, I picked up a pot of cold water and threw it at you!

He said, I'm sorry, I know I was wrong, and I'm tired of listening. You've said that a million times!

He got up, shook himself and went to the toilet to pull the mop, cleaned up the shit and went to the toilet!

Then I dare not sleep, and I overslept if I slept again, because I have to send my children to kindergarten in the future!

It's totally inhuman for him to shit and pee when he's drunk. This has happened more than once!

Once at my parents' house, I got up in the middle of the night and went to my parents' bedroom (the door was not closed completely and there was a gap). At that time, my mother was startled and said, what are you doing? He may wake up, apologize to my mother immediately and go to the bathroom!

Another time was at home, getting up in the middle of the night to go to the toilet. He also went to the room where his parents slept, and the room door was not completely closed! Then his mother yelled at him!

I'm really hurt that he drinks like this without restraint. It makes me cry at first, but then I can't cry. I just ignored it. Anyway, I have no ability to cure him of this problem!

Man, be nice to yourself. Really, if I had known that he was drinking downstairs before, 12 would not come back, I would have gone down to find someone right away. I'll let him go now!

I also told him directly, you continue to drink like this until I am widowed, and I can change to another man!

I really hate him drinking like this, because he drinks like this and quarrels countless times!

I said, don't you know that you are married? I will drink with your unmarried colleagues and friends from time to time until midnight. If you don't have enough fun, you will get a divorce. Nobody cares how long you drink!

He wants nothing. He has borrowed money since he got married and still pays it back. Sometimes I think I really don't know what marriage is all about. My husband's family is not so good, otherwise I wouldn't have moved out!

Because something happened, my mother-in-law often blamed me. For example, the year before last, he lost his mobile phone after drinking!

I take care of the children, pick them up every day, and sell things live every day. It's not bad that the store can sell some vegetables!

But even so, my mother-in-law still blames you, because her husband didn't manage it well, so you brought a child and the house hasn't been cleaned up yet!

When I was with my children, because of my mother-in-law's house, she didn't pay or contribute, and talked a lot!

I forbear at first, but after a long time, it will always break out! Last time I quarreled with my husband and mother, I said everything I wanted to say and called him by his fucking name. I can't take it anymore. You have a house. You're great. I'll move it!

Of course, he's also fucking rude and pointing at me. If you point at me, I can't point at you and treat her in the same way. She can't stand a minute!

In the end, she probably thought I broke out and made her lose face. She said you should move out. I said, go, go. I don't want to stay at your house for a long time!

When I quarrel with my mother-in-law, my husband and father-in-law stay out of it. My son didn't interfere when we quarreled. I guess I'm afraid of hurting my mother and my daughter-in-law, but my father-in-law can intervene. Tell me about his wife!

I can't help it, my father-in-law dotes on her! Finally, I moved out. Interestingly, on the day I moved, things were moved several times. The last time I took something, my mother-in-law helped me take it to the place where I rented a house!

Last year, our relatives asked about his mother, but she denied it, saying that she wouldn't help me with my things, and the neighbors downstairs saw it. I should record a video of her helping me with my things!

As long as my husband doesn't drink and make me angry, I think we are in debt, and it's nothing, but when he drinks without personal grievances, it brings back my painful memories!

Sometimes I don't know when this day will end! What do you think is his advantage? At least he doesn't go whoring, gambling and pornography!

It would be nice to be like this. what can I do? Some men who are violent after drinking are not without it!

I used to have a classmate's husband who was full of poison and even beat his wife after he got to the top! Finally, I got divorced several times before I got divorced!

I can only be glad that I didn't meet such a husband!

The child will be 5 years old in the summer vacation. Maybe it's because he drinks too much from time to time and wants a divorce. There's no need to think about it. Forget it, forget it!

After all, he is loyal to his marriage, and I can only bear it. At least he's moved out now, or it's for fucking sake!

At first, I was very affectionate. I will send her a small red envelope or buy a small gift on Mother's Day, Thanksgiving Day and Dragon Boat Festival. Because what happened later made me feel chilling, I stopped being thankless!

Because from the beginning, I felt that my mother-in-law didn't like me and that I had a tattoo, but your son also had a tattoo. Your son is not very good, let alone tall and handsome. Why not give your son a fairy?

My own son, I won't blame my wife in the future, but I will blame myself for not teaching my son well! What happened to the daughter-in-law

I wonder if this sentence was written by Mo Yan, a famous writer: When people feel tired, they should stay away from comfortable people, including friends and relatives. It is far worse to cultivate yourself than to please others. It is better to be arrogant and lonely than to do something against your will.

I really don't have the energy to please my in-laws. I hope they can save more money and go to a nursing home in the future, because my carpenter at the public construction site has money.

I have a child, sitting on the moon. In the year when I needed someone to take care of my children most, there was never anyone. My mother-in-law said there was no obligation. Then, on the day when she needs someone, I have no obligation!

Sometimes I look at my lovely son and think, in this life, I will only care about the person I gave birth to and the person who gave birth to me!

My own mother speaks badly, too, just as strong. If something happens, she probably won't understand the cause and effect, and will only scold me first!

But in my most difficult time, when I needed someone, my own mother helped me with my children for more than a year. That was after the child was half a year old, and I was taking care of it before it was half a year old!

After half a year, the child can't walk, and the mother-in-law doesn't take it, which is too much trouble. My son and daughter-in-law can't give her money yet. That's because your son didn't even have a job when he got married. At that time, I slowly started to open an online shop to bring goods, and my parents didn't support me. I borrowed money to start a business, but my mother-in-law still dislikes me for selling things online cheaply!

Now thousands of dishes can be sold every month, and small shops are like this. After all, they can't compete with big stores!

I am lucky to be able to do what I like now!

Sell things live during the day, and write my favorite words to do housework when you have time!

Therefore, it is my "lover of words" who can finally cure me!

We can have a hobby, loneliness, unhappiness and loss. Just write a photo!

Therefore, writing and reading can not make you achieve much, but can cheer you up when you are at a loss. This is the meaning of writing and reading!