You don’t need time to be together, you just need feeling, and the feeling is in your heart

1. The best commitment is not to love you for ten thousand years, but to require no commitment at all.

2. I hope you won’t be sad for too long, I hope you can eat a lot in the future, I hope you won’t look back at me, I hope you have many sunny days, I hope you can sleep soundly every day, I hope that even if we If you miss each other occasionally, don't say hello again. I hope you will see better scenery as you travel further. Hope, one is different from the other, and everyone is happy.

3. No one knows how happy I am when I miss you; no one knows the sadness and suffering in my happiness. No one knows that you have been engraved in my heart and become an indelible mark in my life. Thinking about you is like drinking a glass of ice-cold water and then turning into hot tears.

4. Don’t always listen to sad songs, don’t always think about the past, don’t let the past hold you back, don’t let the future be let down.

5. Tears, tears are my experience, The taste of growing up; tears, tears flowing through countless nights, the taste of heartache.

6. The biggest pain in life is actually helplessness. There are many things that you watch happen, and you want to undo, but you can't. So you can get everything without working hard. In life, what we need to learn most is to admit defeat. When someone leaves you, you give but get nothing. You just know that if you lose this round, you quit and come back later. Admitting defeat is not the end, but giving yourself another chance.

7. Don’t know how to cherish possessions, lose the most precious familiar life, pretend to smile, and walk among hypocritical people.

9. Don’t worry about it anymore. Once you have figured it out, your heart will become brighter. Tolerance and giving your heart more oxygen will make life more enjoyable. Those who know how to be content will be happy, those who know how to let go will be free, those who know how to cherish will be happy, and those who know how to forget will be relaxed. Excessive greed and desire are the chains of the soul. Only by cutting these chains can we have a free and complete life.

10. Young love often has regrets. If you miss it, you will miss it. I just like you, I didn’t say we had to be together. Thank you for your smile, which once disturbed my years. Smile and let him pass by your world.

11. Something I have always believed in is that you can never keep someone who is leaving. If you leave, I will never look back.

12. Meetings are always unexpected, but partings are often planned for a long time. There are too many stories without endings. You have to get used to meeting and parting. There will always be some people who slowly fade out of your life, and you have to learn to accept them instead of missing them.

13. From the day I met you, I begged you in my heart, if life is a one-way street, please walk in front of me from now on, so that I can see you all the time; If life is a two-way street, please let me hold your hand and walk through the vast sea of ??people and never get lost.

14. Maybe one day in the noisy city, we pass by each other, and I will stop, stare at the retreating figure, and tell myself that I once loved that person.

15. Say sincerely that I miss you, I really miss you, without any concealment or ambiguity, with a sincere and pure heart.

16. There is a Seine in everyone's heart, which divides our heart into two sides: the left bank is soft, and the right bank is cold and hard; the left bank is emotional, and the right bank is rational; the left bank houses our desires and expectations. Hope, struggle and all love, hate and anger, the rules of this world live on the right bank and leave an imprint on our hearts. The left bank is dreamland, and the right bank is life.

17. Forgetting a person does not mean that you no longer think of it, but that you think of it occasionally, but there is no more waves in your heart.

18. I used to think that the person I love is the right person, and even if it is not suitable, running in and running in will be suitable. However, the running in has been scarred, and there are still too many awkward places. Only then did I realize that I can’t love. It must be suitable. The right person will not be covered in scars when they fall in love.

19. In a painful (masochistic or masochistic) intimate relationship, if your focus is entirely on the other person, then you will not be able to grow or get out. The first step to growth and change is to take responsibility for your own pain: no one can make you suffer unless you allow it. With this attitude and a strong determination to grow, you will eventually make it!

20. In fact, sometimes happiness is so simple, we just need a little courage.

21. Always feel that your efforts are valuable, at least in exchange for favors, and the other party will be grateful. In fact, if you don't know how to refuse, you won't get any gratitude at all; it will only make others think that your efforts are cheap. The contribution of a coward is a low-value contribution, because you give people the impression that your contribution is deserved; and the contribution of a principled person is a high-value contribution, because others dare not count on him. Once he takes action, Others have earned it. -- Mi Meng

22. A person can fall in love with many people in his life. After you get the happiness that truly belongs to you, you will understand that the pain together is actually a kind of wealth, which makes you Learn to better grasp and cherish the people you love.

23. Forget that beloved person who brings you pain and pleasure. Forgetting her is worse than forgetting yourself. Tell yourself, you are not afraid that she will forget, but that you are afraid that one day she will think of you again.

24. Remember, it is not tears that can restore what is lost. So don't shed your tears easily. Remember, you don’t have to cry if you are sad. So don't be so stingy with your smile. Remember, you don’t give just because you think you can. So don't make promises so easily. Remember, it’s not that you’re not good enough. So don’t be pitiful and think that you have accomplished nothing. Remember, you are not the only one struggling. So don't give up easily.

25. Love is not a flower that blooms in the soil, but a fertilizer in the soil. The last flower that blooms is your life.

26. People with feelings will always encounter a lot of problems. Because feelings can magnify a small thing many, many times. As long as there is emotional involvement, women will think more and men will change. Under love, no one can think rationally. Therefore, there is no need to blame each other. Sometimes, love is like war, there is no winning or losing, only sad feelings. Classic quotations: No need for discussion, only conclusion.

1. Love is like an arrow, and marriage is like an apple being shot. It’s a pity. The thing is, after being shot, the arrow will rust and the apple will rot.

2. When young girls encounter someone’s first proposal (courtship), even if they are willing to agree in their hearts, they always refuse verbally, and sometimes even reject him two or three times.

3. The biggest myth of this century is: should we actively chase others, or passively be chased by others.

4. When a man is depressed, he will find another woman; when a woman is depressed, she will also find another woman.

5. The law of love is: the person you love may not be willing to be with you; the person you don’t love may not be with you; if you want to be with someone else, don’t ask yourself about love Do not love others, or do others love you or not.

6. Young men, especially gentlemen, like the temptation of women, not women who make them irritated by waiting.

7. If you want to be loved by others, you must first make yourself worthy of love, not for a day, a week, but forever.

8. Tears are women’s most primitive weapon, and they are also the only most powerful weapon that men cannot resist.

9. If a person is always secretive in front of the person he loves most and does not let him (her) know that he is interested in her (him), then she (he) may not have a chance to win him over. (Her) favor; then, even if everyone in the world is kept in the dark, it will not help.

10. Every woman is equally beautiful, but every man has different vision.

11. Don’t squander love, love will be exhausted.

12. No two people in the world have the same amount of love. It is always the case that one of them has more love than the other to comply with the law of marriage.

13. The biggest advantage of going on a blind date is that if there are problems in your marriage in the future, you can blame the matchmaker.

14. When a woman understands a man to a certain extent, she will either marry him or dump him.

15. When women are in a bad mood, they rely on eating to solve their problems, while men rely on drinking.

16. The best treatment for someone is to have a good sleep, and when you wake up refreshed, you can then plan how to keep the other person awake.

17. Sometimes being single is not about escaping reality, but about accepting reality.

18. The reality is: when you decide to be single, you can be single; life is: when you decide to get married, you can definitely get married.

19. No discussion is required, only conclusion is required.

20. Memories are always beautiful, especially when the lover you remember is no longer around.

21. Love when you can, but get rid of what you don’t love first.

22. The disadvantage of being single is that no one can quarrel with you; the disadvantage of marriage is that there is one person who can quarrel with you, but only this person will always quarrel with you.

23. It turns out that after the death of your lover, the living continue to love through memories, so don’t think that dying for the one you love is love. If you really love, live for the one you love. Live to be very old.

24. All singles have a good excuse.

25. One person’s boredom is called boredom, but two people’s boredom becomes boredom. Inspirational article on work: Success does not require reasons, only methods

Introduction: Inspirational insights on success. Many people fail because they have too many excuses. It’s not anyone who defeats you, it’s your lazy desire and fear of failure that defeats you; it’s not anything that stumps you, it’s the many reasons you find for yourself that stump you. Stop making excuses for yourself. The first step to success is always to face your own problems

You just find excuses for yourself too much

Inspirational insights about success

A few days ago , the small coffee shop that my friend Qingqing had been planning for a year was officially opened, and he invited a few of our best friends to sit there. During the dinner, my best friend Xiaofan said with an envious expression: It would be great to open my own cafe, that is my childhood dream!

A friend said, you can also drive. If you have a dream, you should work hard to realize it. Then Xiaofan said, my family doesn’t have that much money to open a coffee shop for me. When Qingqing heard this, she was not very happy. I didn't use my family's money. I used the money I had saved from working in the past few years.

Xiaofan added that to open a coffee shop, you need to know marketing and management, as well as Western food and coffee bars. I am not a major in related fields, and I don’t have that much time to study now. I usually I'm quite busy at work, so I can't delay my work. Another friend said: I remember that Qingqing did not study these majors. Qingqing seemed to use his spare time to take classes here and there.

Then Xiaofan said: I am not in good health. If I take up all my spare time and cannot have a good rest, and I spend money on medical treatment when I am sick, it will not be worth the loss.

You don’t have to fill up your spare time. If you have time, learn it and prepare for opening a coffee shop in the future!

You need to have connections to open a coffee shop. Qingqing is so pretty, so it should be easy for her to have many friends. But I can’t. Being ugly is unlucky. After Xiaofan finished saying this, the room finally became quiet. Because we know that no matter what she says, she will always have a reason to refute it.

It’s not that she really can’t open this cafe, but that she doesn’t want to make any effort at all for her dream. Therefore, she has to find many seemingly reasonable reasons for her lack of effort so that she can happily accept her lack of effort.

In fact, most people accomplish nothing because they find excuses for themselves.

You envy your colleagues who are promoted step by step and whose salary has doubled, but you say: People still have to have their own lives. If you devote your life to work, there is no meaning in living. So when your colleagues are working overtime, you can choose to continue working and watch videos without any pressure.

You envy your best friend who knows five musical instruments and six languages, but you say: These things are not serious things. You should work hard first, not to mention that they all learned it when they were young, and I am old now. , you can’t learn it, so why waste your time. In fact, if you want to learn something, it's never too late. You just want to give yourself a good excuse to go shopping instead of studying.

You envy your friends who have left small cities and opened up a new world in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, but you say: There are many opportunities in big cities. I can go there, but if my parents are here and I don’t want to travel far, I still want to go there. Taking care of parents at home. You don't see that others also need to work hard in big cities, so you live an ordinary life in a small city with peace of mind.

Even if you envy others' success in losing weight, you say that you should eat this meal first before continuing to lose weight. Only when you are full can you have the strength to lose weight. So you eat meal after meal just to give yourself the so-called strength.

Then you say, isn’t what I said right? There are many opportunities in big cities, and good health is more important than work.

Yes, you are right. Find reasons for things you don’t want to do. If you look for them, you can always find them. Just like a smoker, if he doesn't want to quit smoking, he can find 100 benefits of smoking, but he will turn a blind eye to the reason why smoking is harmful to health. According to the theory of cognitive dissonance in psychology, if a person's behavior is contrary to his attitude, he will feel very uncomfortable. In order to make yourself feel comfortable, you can only find reasons to balance your attitude and behavior.

You don’t want to work hard, don’t want to pay, and everything you do is too troublesome, so you give yourself many reasons not to do it, so that you can stay in your comfort zone with peace of mind. You are afraid of seeing your own incompetence and incompetence, so you attribute your failures and the success of others to external uncontrollable factors such as social environment, luck, appearance, and even weather, so that you can pretend to be innocent. Posture, Tan Tanshou said, what can I do? It's not my problem.

You are really good at finding reasons for yourself, and you can always find the one that is most beneficial to you among many reasons. You are eloquent and eloquent, and your every sentence is reasonable and impeccable. But you win with words, but ultimately lose yourself.

Every reason you find for yourself for not being able to do something is like a boulder that denies all opportunities and possibilities before you even take the first step, blocking all your possibilities. The road ahead will ultimately leave you with no way to go, and you will be trapped in a cocoon, tying yourself in the so-called comfort zone, and achieving nothing; every reason you find for yourself to fail is like a piece of black cloth, blinding your eyes. It makes you unable to see the truth of the matter. When you think that nothing is your problem, how can you make any changes? How could it be possible to change the fate of failure?

It is not anyone who defeats you, it is your lazy desire and fear of failure that defeats you; it is not anything that stumps you, it is the many reasons you find for yourself that stump you. .

So, stop making excuses for yourself. The first step to success is always to face your own problems head-on, rather than blindly evading or deceiving yourself. When you know that your inaction is not because of anything else, but because of laziness, you will become diligent; when you know that your failure is not because of bad luck, but because of your poor ability or not working hard enough, Only then will you improve yourself. Although the process of self-denial is always painful, growth is ultimately a struggle and confrontation with oneself. It is better than trying to accommodate your own desires in every possible way and finally being buried in your own gentle land.

Talk about what is not needed I don’t need your words 2020

1. We don’t need to force ourselves to change, as long as we learn to discover our highlights from different angles; try our best to do what we can do, Things will change when you don't expect it; what kind of goal you choose will determine what kind of life you will have. Everyone's path is a process of self-selection; work hard to make yourself truly stronger, come on!

2. It doesn’t matter to me whatever you think! Whatever you say, I don't care! I don't care what you do! I don't care at all! -Loving you is my freedom, no reason is needed.

3. Every girl is amazing in her own way. You don’t need anyone to prove your excellence. Because the greatest beauty of a woman is independence.

4. There will always be a moment when you will think that you are so powerful that you don’t need anything.

5. I know you don’t love me. Even so, you don’t need to remind me repeatedly.

6. I just like tfboys. I don’t need anyone to criticize them. They are there too. They work hard to win our smiles while taking into account their studies and careers. Why should you say them?

7. I don’t need a beautiful ending, I just want you to give me a wedding.

8. Put away your good night that I don’t need. You even said you love me but pretended to make me so sad

9. You don’t need to say sweet words to me. I believe in myself. Be able to judge...

10. Only after you have been in pain can you know how to protect yourself; only after you have cried can you know what heartache feels like; only after you have been stupid can you know how to persist and give up at the right time; only after you have loved can you know that you are actually It's fragile. In fact, life does not require such meaningless persistence. If you don’t have something, you really can’t let it go.

11. May you no longer be fragile and never need to pretend to be strong again.

12. YT: True feelings do not need false words to set off its nobility

13. Many times explanations are unnecessary - the enemy does not need your explanations. your explanation.

14. I am not your so-and-so, and you don’t need to pretend to be ambiguous with me.

15. I don’t need anyone’s love and affection. Love will always come.

16. I am becoming less and less emotional because I have underestimated the sense of security. I give myself money and I want to earn what I like. I buy my own clothes. You have to eat by yourself when you are sick, take medicine by yourself, and deal with things by yourself if you don’t understand. I really envy the heroine who heard the true incident, so I don’t need love to have some feelings

17. If you don’t love someone, you won’t be able to do it. It takes a lot of courage.

18. What is a friend? A friend chooses to be unknown when you are brilliant, and when you don't need him, he will choose to withdraw from your world. And when you are down, he will help you without reservation. When you need him, he will step forward and appear by your side!

19. In fact, in this complicated and tempting society, there is no need for vigorous love. Love at first sight is just a rare accident. Romantic encounters may not have a beautiful ending. Ordinary love can also lead to a happy ending. Shocking, ordinary is the true meaning of life, and it is also the perfect portrayal of love in the real world.

20. If you want to cry, cry it out. Sometimes crying does not mean weakness, it just means you have been strong for too long. If you are unhappy, just find a corner or cry under the quilt. You don’t need sympathy from others. Poor, you can still live happily after crying. Of course, you have to remember to save your tears for the person who loves you the most.

21. In my world, I don’t need anyone to pity me. It’s slippery when it rains, so I fall down and crawl by myself.

22. I don’t need to think about whether he loves me or not, because reality has already told me

23. Lost and found relationships are always second-hand goods, and strong women don’t need to .

24. Don’t be depressed because you don’t know what they did when you went out to play together. That means they don’t need you anymore.

25. Reminisce about old times with your best friends in France. Talk on the phone for an hour with your family, go shopping and eat with friends you haven’t seen for a long time, tirelessly watch Running Man on a rainy night, chat and complain with your teammates in the group, meet up with roommates for supper, you don’t need to work hard to be busy and Excellence is the best life for me.

26. In fact, being single is very good, and you don’t need to explain if you are ambiguous with anyone.

27. You don’t need to be good, I just like you.” He once said this too now. We have gone our separate ways.

28. What hurts a man to a woman is not necessarily that he fell in love with someone else, but that he disappointed her when she had expectations and failed to do so when she was vulnerable. Give her the comfort she deserves. Do you think it’s great if you don’t make any mistakes? Don’t you need to do something better for your marriage? Isn’t what men want from themselves these days? Isn’t it so low that we don’t make mistakes?

29. We are losing time, losing life, losing wealth, and losing opportunities. We work hard to have more wonderful things, but it’s a pity that we only have two. Hands, so we must learn to choose and let go. We must know what we don’t need. If the heart’s desires are too big and we want to grasp everything, we may not be able to grasp anything in the end. Only by learning to give up can we hold on better.

30. [A man does not need a lot of wealth, but he must have the ability to support a family.]

31. If this is love, it is unfair. You don’t need to be reasonable. I can leave. I just heard the single loop here and found that Jane Zhang’s songs are very good ~

32. Our love does not need to be broadcast, the whole universe quarters

33. My love never needs As long as you repay me with happiness, this is my last humble prayer

34. Maturity is a bright but not dazzling brilliance, a round but not greasy sound, a never-ending The calmness that needs to be observed by others is an atmosphere that finally stops complaining to the surroundings, a smile that ignores the noise, a kind of indifference that washes away extremes, a kind of solidity that does not need to be announced, a kind that does not Steep height,.

35. Love does not require any money and eternal vows. It only requires two people to live a happy life, right?

36. Forgot to bring an umbrella on a rainy day? ! I had been keeping my umbrella in my bag, but I forgot to put it in when I changed my bag two days ago. I didn’t go back to pick it up because I didn’t have enough time. This is not the worst thing. I fell and grabbed the shit on the gravel slope of the community. It’s terrible! Although a female dick doesn’t need an image, it’s also very miserable. It feels like the skin is stuck to the pants! When I think about the pressure of life, I still have to go to work. How can it be so easy to be a man?

37 , Life is an endless wandering. You don't need to wait for life to be perfect before you can enjoy the best things in life. In the process of life, there are always misfortunes and sadness, just like the sunset and the decline of flowers, there are some things. The more you care, the more severe the pain will be. If you let go and take it lightly, it will gradually fade away.

38. "From now on, I will say good morning, good afternoon and good night to myself. I don’t need you. It’s a fake heart.”

39. The happiness of two people does not need to be known by the third person.

40. I also want to be a little woman with someone I can rely on. I also want someone who makes me act coquettish and unreasonable. I also want someone who will pamper me from the bottom of my heart. , holding me in the palm of your hand, I also want someone to help me carry the shopping when I go shopping. I also want someone to help me fix things at home when they are broken, without me having to do it myself. I also want someone to take care of the trivial matters in life for me. Okay, I just need to stay with him quietly. I also want to have a man who loves me like other women. He doesn’t have to be rich and handsome, as long as he treats me sincerely. I want it too, because I do too. Woman

41. I don’t need a lover who worries about gains and losses...

42. There is no need to explain to the kind of people who are not worthy of love, and there is no need to explain psychologically. You need to struggle, as long as you live a good life, you are envious of him.

43. My man, I don’t need you to point out. ▉My woman, I don’t need you to make irresponsible remarks.

44. Don’t believe in forever, don’t have expectations, and don’t need promises.

45. I smoke, but I don’t take drugs. I can drink but not have sex. I believe in violence, but I rarely fight. I am poor, but I don't need your sympathy.

46. You don’t need to explain to people who don’t understand you, and you don’t need to explain to people who understand you.

47. Missing someone does not require any reason. It is a feeling that can catch you unawares at any time, penetrate your mind, and reach your heart~

48. Girls don't need such a gorgeous appearance. Simple, clean and warm are so good.

49. Ma Liang's magic pen is not needed. I hope there is a correction fluid that can disappear on anyone's face.

50. Loving you does not require a lifelong commitment, because that is unrealistic, but I am happy within five minutes of being with you!