How to deal with the cooking requirements of a powerful father-in-law after marriage?

After marriage, if the family's economic conditions are good, whether to cook at home is actually not a big problem. The real question is why a strong father-in-law wants his daughter-in-law to cook. If it's because the family conditions are relatively average, but the daughter-in-law is troublesome, has princess disease and doesn't like cooking, I think the best way to deal with it is to actively change the mentality, face the reality and actively learn to cook. After all, the so-called "strong father-in-law" is reasonable, and it is also in line with the traditional understanding of most China people, so it is most desirable to actively change yourself to deal with problems.

If the daughter-in-law doesn't want to change herself, and her family conditions are average and her future expenses are high, I think the daughter-in-law can choose to divorce because a strong father-in-law won't change her mind easily. After all, thrift is the virtue of the Chinese nation. If she is so extravagant just got married, the family will inevitably make ends meet and become poorer, and the daughter-in-law doesn't want to change herself, so in this case, it is better to choose a divorce. At least the two still have a certain friendship, and she will not choose violence. On the contrary, the daughter-in-law does not change; Strong father-in-law does not compromise, and the family's economic situation is getting worse and worse. Then the result is definitely that the two sides will cause violent conflicts and lead to vicious cases, so leave clean as soon as possible.

If the family conditions are good and the daughter-in-law doesn't cook, it won't affect the family's economic conditions, just because the strong father-in-law has developed the habit of thrift for many years, then you can try to persuade the father-in-law to talk about the current lifestyle, and it is best not to say this by the daughter-in-law or son, but by the respected relatives at home or relatives who have good relations with the strong father-in-law. Doing so can avoid embarrassment. After all, it is unacceptable for the younger generation to "educate" the elders.

In short, talk as much as possible. If it is not suitable, you need to "compromise". If you don't want to "compromise" and the other party doesn't give in, try to divorce before the relationship breaks down further. This not only protects ourselves, but also protects each other.