What problems do "halfway couples" easily encounter, and the sooner they avoid them, the better?

What problems do "halfway couples" easily encounter, and the sooner they avoid them, the better? One is the problem of children. If you don't have children before divorce, you don't need to worry about this. When a family has children, it is different. The first is the issue of the child's ownership. Children brought out by mothers are very different from those brought out by fathers. Generally speaking, it should be brought by mom. Mothers generally manage housework, and their thoughts are more detailed. They also need to be good at cooking and embroidery, but there are some exceptions. However, it has become a big problem for mothers to play the economy. Rich people are generally busy with work and have no time to bring them, while those who have no money and no time to bring them are generally difficult to make money.

If you let the nanny take it, one is the safety hazard, and the other is that the child will slowly leave his parents. It goes without saying that food is bought outside, and clothes are mended or thrown away by tailors. In short, children can't choose, only in passive commitment, they will always lose a kind of love in the future, and for children, only losing is not easy to get. Another point is that after a child remarries with his father or mother, whether he can meet the love that his biological parents treat him like and whether he will be unpopular is not his own to outsiders after all.

The second is the influence from the predecessor. After my divorce, will I think of many good and bad things about my predecessor when I am with another person, and will I think of my predecessor when I see my children? Will this idea affect my married life now? No one can stand that his other half is thinking of another person when he is with himself. Doing so is playing with fire and setting yourself on fire, and then dropping it on your own feet. When looking for the other half, whether you will look for it according to many needs of your predecessor needs to be solved by yourself, that is, if you end your marriage, don't give it to others for no reason.

The third is the infatuation with regaining freedom after divorce. After experiencing a lot of married life, people are bound to be physically and mentally exhausted, and deeply realize that married life is a prison. People outside the city expect that people in the city want to escape. A sudden divorce will completely release your body and mind, get rid of the shackles, and once again feel the carefree feeling before marriage. And this feeling has got rid of bigamy. Remarried life and random contradictions will also affect your own remarried life. Even if it is called marriage, it may become boring in the near future.