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Personal speculation: there should be very few women or men who are really indifferent to sex, as this enthusiastic netizen said, "It may be because they are tired of taking care of children."

Personally, I just said-there may be some reasons:

A, the pressure of life leads to "not in the mood to think about that": the fast pace and high pressure of modern life make quite a few people (including us) in an impetuous atmosphere, especially those at the bottom of society, which consumes a lot of physical strength and energy and has limited income. They worry about their parents' health all day, their children's studies and work, their illness and death, their houses and tickets, leaving too little room for the warm world, and naturally they have no mind to think about them. Solution: Think more about your wife. Be considerate of your wife, including filial piety to her parents, and she will reward you more-including rewarding you for it.

B, the creation of the usual atmosphere: some men either go to drink or rub hemp after work, and simply can't remember to spend some time with their wives. After a tiring day, their wives have to rest, they have to get up early to send their children to work, and you have had enough fun and madness. Continue to play "that" when you come back. It's cheaper for your wife not to kick you out of bed. . (Solution: If you have nothing to do, just chat with your wife and go shopping. If your wife is in a good mood, just. . . Hahaha)

C. Skills and considerations: Some men only care about their own pleasure and rarely consider their wives' feelings, which makes them feel great after finishing their work, and their wives feel "bored" and naturally don't want to do these "boring things". Solution: I don't need to say it? )

D, the taste of both sides: this is a bit mysterious-it is difficult to say clearly. Let's put it this way: Usually we call what we like to create a warm atmosphere "petty bourgeoisie sentiment". When the atmosphere is created, it is easy to think of that kind of thing. Creating a warm atmosphere requires a little taste. Men should not only read more useful books and articles, pay more attention to their hobbies, cultivate themselves and improve their appreciation of etiquette, but also guide and help their wives improve their taste. Your taste has improved and the atmosphere has been created. Even if you don't want to, your wife should think about it. (Privately: I used to go on a business trip, and every time I was in a good mood (for example, my room was well decorated, with a window facing the river, the sea and the beautiful mountains and rivers), I always said, "Why not bring her with me?" Regret)

E. Modern urban diseases: Our lawyer has a physical examination every two years. This time, a doctor told me, "Now the city is polluted and there is little physical activity, so Rhapsody in July, a city, is already a teenager. . . "。 I can't say the technical term, that's what it means-urban diseases affect the body, affect hormone secretion-affect sexual desire. (Solution: Find your own way, haha)