If you are not married in your thirties this year, will your parents feel ashamed? Will you be ashamed of the traditional secular view of friends and relatives?

Parents will feel humiliated if they are not married in their thirties! No way. That was their idea. Getting married in your twenties is also super old in the eyes of your parents. I went to school late and graduated from college at the age of 24. My parents have been nagging me about my marriage since I was twenty-five years old. When I was twenty-six, my mother and I would just say, "Do you know how embarrassed you are now?" You are so old, and if you don't get married, people will say that your parents don't care, are you out of order! "Oh my god, there is something wrong with not getting married. I really don't agree with this view, but there is no way. They are their own parents and can only listen. Not to mention relatives and friends, friends are ok, most of them understand, and relatives say it from time to time around their parents, which increases the pressure on parents to urge marriage. Although they also care about their children's happiness, they are more concerned about having a marriage, regardless of whether they are their ideal partners or not. As long as they get married and start a family, their worries will be gone. If there is any contradiction in the future, they will only consider getting married for me at present. This is the state. My relatives are very enthusiastic. If I say I haven't met anyone yet, well, the next day, it is estimated that several relatives will say that there are people near their home who are easy to introduce and won't tell me, so they will tell my parents that they are super interested ... Only those who have had this experience can understand that feeling. But to be honest, if you are not ready and have not met the person who thinks it is worth getting married, don't get married blindly because of these traditional secular views of your parents, which will only lead to another more troublesome situation.