Tidying up the closet is actually tidying up your life!

It was so hot yesterday that my whole family wore short sleeves. At noon, I even wore a skirt barefoot. Turn on the phone and see, the real-time temperature is 26 degrees. No wonder it is so hot! I had planned to clean the room and throw away unnecessary clothes, toys and books, but I found it a huge project. I only finished the first item-sorting clothes. To get rid of those unsuitable, old and dirty, we are always reluctant to leave. It really takes a lot of determination and courage. No wonder every major reform in history is always difficult to advance, because people are always attached to the old system and unwilling to make changes.

2. Organize unexpected surprises

Yesterday's main job was to tidy up the wardrobe. When I was sorting out clothes, I found the clothes my sister gave me last autumn. I tried on a few pairs of trousers, all of which were one size bigger, about the length of two fingers together. I couldn't fit in the waist, but my crotch just couldn't fall off. I put it away cruelly. Think of what my mother said, "thousands of miles away!" It's true. People will look more energetic and cleaner when they wear clothes that fit them; The little clothes seem to be bursting; Clothes that are too big feel lazy and slack. Fortunately, I found two clothes that fit me very well, and they happened to be worn this season. One is a long-sleeved chiffon skirt with dark green background and orange vertical stripes, which is very temperament. I plan to wear it to class next week; There is also a navy blue V-neck thick chiffon strap skirt, which just matches the beige bottoming shirt with pearls. I'm going to wear it to a date tomorrow. Because these clothes have been forgotten by me, I chose new clothes on the internet a few days ago, and now I'm glad I didn't buy them on impulse, or I'll be shelved again.

3. It turns out that I am not only a person, but also a girl!

I have to mention my sister here. She is a person of great taste. Clothing is always decent, makeup is always fresh and natural, and watching her every move is a beautiful enjoyment. And the clothes she gave me seem to have changed me, from a person who doesn't know how to wear a plain face to a girl who will carefully match and even wipe her eyebrows before going out. I said "people" before, because I just positioned myself as an ordinary "person", which has nothing to do with men and women; This "girl" was later used because it felt like a "girl" was alive now. Of course, I also like my old self, casual, simple and natural; But obviously, now I look more refined, brighter, more full of vigor and vitality. On the one hand, my change is influenced by books, which opens the "beauty" button mentally; These beautiful clothes of my sister undoubtedly promoted the development and completion of "beauty". Think of a story I read before. After putting on expensive international brand-name clothes, that poor Korean buddy fell in love with himself in the mirror, inspired him to work hard and finally succeeded. I used to think it was exaggerated and unrealistic, but now I feel it is very meaningful to experience it personally. In order to line up beautiful and elegant clothes, I have to match a pair of clean and beautiful shoes and a clean and bright face (I used to be a person who forgot to wash my face), so I should pay attention to brushing my shoes and washing my face regularly every day, and then apply some oil to isolate and brighten my complexion; Turn your eyebrows slightly to make your facial features more harmonious; I also taught myself skin care. If you want good skin, you should go to bed before 1 1. It's best to have a regular routine every day, so I get up early every day. If I want to change my figure, I need to exercise, so I started to exercise. This is a beautiful version of the "butterfly effect"! Although nominally she wore unwanted clothes, I saw that many of them were almost brand-new. I think the purpose of her saying this is to protect my self-esteem and let me put down my guilt. Thank you! Sister.

4, shopping guide "I need, I like, I am suitable", can not forget.

Let's talk about the wardrobe. I found out how I bought so many clothes. Most of them are temporary online shopping, and the price is not expensive; Last summer, in fact, I always wore some comfortable cotton T-shirts and linen skirts. In other words, this year, I will take out my favorite clothes that fit and are comfortable to wear, and put everything else away. Keep in mind the three shopping principles: I need it, I like it, and I am suitable.

I need, how many clothes do I need? In summer, in fact, five T-shirts are enough, because it's hot, and the day after washing is basically enough. There are three or five pairs of trousers, three pairs of wild black and two pairs of jeans are enough. As for skirts, one or three are enough. There seems to be enough clothes in my closet.

I like it. I like T-shirts with high cotton content and a little elasticity. I like slim and loose. I don't like chiffon clothes very much, but now the weather is not too hot, chiffon can still be worn. If you can't wear chiffon skirts in summer, you always feel very tight.

I am suitable. I find it really difficult to choose clothes that suit me. I love wearing a thin bra, but I'm so thin that my breasts are shrinking. So if all I leave behind is self-cultivation, then the side is like my flat chest. Although I know it's flat chest, it's a bit embarrassing to tell the world so clearly; If I wear loose clothes, I'm afraid my coat will run out. I'm more worried about this. So I think the clothes that suit me best should be those with a slightly higher collar and a loose version, which is suitable for the elderly, without worrying about seeing the chest flat or bare. Yesterday, I gave up the slim round neck T-shirt I bought last year. It is very comfortable to wear, but the neckline will get bigger. Hua 10 yuan bought a loose T-shirt with a slightly higher neckline. If I dress well after receiving the goods, I will buy two more identical white T-shirts. Throw away the collar worn last year.

5, streamline the wardrobe, what needs to be streamlined is life!

After writing this, I found that I don't really need too many clothes. Eating is just a healthy diet with poor food, so I have to spend more money on books, and the class fee of 500 yuan a month is enough to read. I am even content to be a substitute teacher with a monthly salary of 2000 yuan. Because I need more time to improve myself, now I read and write; I need more time to accompany my baby with high quality. I will definitely take it to spend more time with her before I am 3 years old. But I also need a job to keep in touch with this society. Teaching with children is my favorite job, and the school where children gather is not a small society. This is a perfect job. All right!

Teacher Li Xiaolai said never to work for money. I understand now. Only by doing what you really want to do, money is not the most important indicator at all. The most important indicator should be whether you are happy, whether you can improve yourself and whether you get what you want. Money, in many cases, is as good as clothes; I said, learn to "use", but unfortunately there are too many people who only know how to make money and don't know how to spend it. I used to be like this myself, and I'm still learning to spend money. My present job is just my immediate choice. When the baby goes to kindergarten, I will still find a job I like and have the money to work hard for a better future.

Streamlining the wardrobe is only the first step in streamlining life. Open my life goal notebook, with three lines written on it: 1, and stay happy and healthy every day for the rest of my life; 2. Become a tender-hearted writer; 3. Love your family and live in harmony with the world. Now I plan and implement my goals around these three goals every day. Streamlining the wardrobe is for a simpler and more comfortable life, and the goal of streamlining life is to make yourself live more meaningfully in your lifetime; Curiosity about the world makes every day unique and full of vitality. I've grown up. What about you? Have you started to act?

(another: simplify the writing goal: think about it, write whatever you want in the future, and don't force yourself to read and like it (hey! I have made it clear here that I really need your support and affirmation, so since you are here, please give me a generous compliment and leave me a message at the bottom of your article. Let's be friends! ), but I find myself like a outspoken person who can't understand other people's ideas at all. So when I especially want to write an article you like, I look at the passing time and get crazy about it, but I can't write it at all. I know that only by writing real things and feelings from my own point of view can I write stories and words that touch me and impress you. Also, the original intention of my writing is to record the growth mentality of this married girl of childbearing age. By the way, I can tell you vividly with my own examples what's wrong with missing the age of best struggle, and what's wrong with getting married and having children? As long as we start working hard, it will never be too late at any age, and we can make the next day unique, wonderful and meaningful! We may not succeed, but we must grow! )