I don’t know why I hate my mother-in-law very much.

Now I can only sum up my dislike for my mother-in-law in two words. Dislike her very much. Before getting married, I thought she was a good mother-in-law. After getting married, I felt that she was overbearing and I had to listen to her in everything at home. After I got pregnant, I thought she was okay and always bought me this and that food. But she always urged me to do a B-ultrasound. When I was more than 6 months pregnant, she asked an acquaintance to help me do a B-ultrasound. When she knew I was pregnant with a girl, her face changed drastically. I pulled it off, and after I got home, an idea came to my mind: I was asked to abort the baby. Oh my god, I was stunned. Is she still the child's grandmother? Still human? The baby is already so old and already alive, how can we abort it? Is it just because she is a girl? Are girls not human beings? I cried so much at that time, and she called my husband afterwards and said that she wanted to abort the child, but my husband did not agree. She also proposed to have a second child if this one was a girl, but her husband couldn't resist her and had to agree to it. Later, the baby was finally saved. A few months later, the baby was born. It was a girl. When I was pushed out of the delivery room, she still looked unhappy. Later, during the confinement period, she took care of me and the baby with a straight face. People say that children cannot grow old during the confinement period. She didn't listen to me, not only did I hold the baby to sleep, but she also liked to bump the baby. Others said that it would be difficult for her to take care of her in the future. She said it was okay and I would hold her in the future. I can’t say anything more, but after the confinement period, she went to work when the baby was only one month old, while the baby and I were still at home as a new mother. I didn’t know anything at the time, and I was still tender just after the confinement period. , there was no one at home to help me. When she got home, she went to work without asking anything. I always said in the past that she would come back to take care of the baby when she gave birth. Is it because I gave birth to a girl? If she doesn't help me carry it, forget about it, but she always threatens to have a second child and talks about having another baby when meeting people. She doesn't consider my feelings at all. The baby is only 1 month old. Not only does she not help me carry it, she also spends the whole day When I said this, I really hated her. There is no way I was the one who gave birth to the baby. If she didn’t take care of her, I would have to take care of her. My mother is not around. I married so far away. Who should blame her? Now that the baby is over 1 year old, I thought it would be easier to take care of the baby. Let her come back to take care of the baby next year. I went to work, and after I mentioned it to her, she replied that I disagreed. I asked her how much salary do you get now? As long as you help me take care of the baby, I have been delayed for more than two years at work. If this continues, all the knowledge I have learned will be wasted. She also shook her head. Later I asked her, do you want so much money to do this? What, she actually said: Save it for having a second child later? That day? If you have a second child, you won’t help me take care of this one. If you have a second child, will you kill me? I'm speechless. . Hey, this kind of mother-in-law really makes me hate me more and more. I don’t even want to hate it. Why do I have such a shabby mother-in-law who favors boys over girls?