How to treat Li Yilu angrily beating his father to adulthood?

Hello, everyone, I am a creator in the entertainment field. Let me tell you my opinion:

In "All the way to adulthood", Li was urged by his father because he went to the toilet to play with his mobile phone. Finally, his anger broke out, he quarreled with his father and broke his mobile phone while recording. When he saw this scene, he was also very angry and asked Li if he still wanted to hit himself. Before, when Li went fishing in the sea, he didn't catch any fish. When he found that the shrimps used for fishing were all sunburned, he laughed at himself that they were all red! It is precisely because of this sentence that when Li and his father quarreled, netizens began to ridicule Li Buhong for a reason, and even directly criticized that "you deserve it." These comments have also come true. Li called it "moral kidnapping" in the program. When Li quarreled with his father, he said that his father was a moral kidnapper. As a result, the audience watching the barrage really kept commenting on "uneducated, ignorant, and incredibly doing this to your dad" and so on.

Since 15 years old, Li has been studying abroad alone. He learned to stand on his own feet very early when he debuted, so he spent little time with his family, and there were only a handful of opportunities for communication between Li and his father. This program is also the first time for Li and his father to travel alone. There is too little communication between them.

In short, I think every young man has a rebellious period. When a person is mature or married, he can naturally understand his parents and think more comprehensively about some things. As long as you don't deliberately put on a show and criticize others from the commanding heights of morality. After all, everyone is growing up, be more tolerant, and I hope everyone can get along well with family photos.

I think we can improve the communication between parents and children from the following points. When talking to children, it is very important to accurately convey the inner thoughts and wishes to children, so that children can feel the care and goodwill contained in parents' criticism and education, which can reduce the resistance of children due to improper words of parents. Children are naturally playful, so we should understand their behavior. Because no matter who started it when we were young, we had a wonderful childhood, and we know how much harm our parents will do to us if they don't teach us properly.

Listening is more important than speaking. Parents should control their emotions. In effective communication, the most important thing is listening rather than speaking. Speak slowly about urgent matters, humorously about trivial matters, don't talk nonsense about things that haven't happened, be cautious about things that are not sure, and don't talk about things that can't be done. Learning to listen is the basis of effective communication. Only by listening carefully can we know what the child really wants, what he really thinks, and the predicament he is in now.

Parents should observe and study their children carefully. Children have different psychological development characteristics at different ages, so family education must be carried out according to their physical and mental development characteristics. Change "I say" to "I listen" and listen carefully to the children's voices. When listening, keep a high degree of concentration and let your children feel your concern and respect; What is meaningful to children should be affirmed by language, eyes or posture.

Effective communication can not only solve family conflicts, but also promote children's physical and mental health development. Children learn to communicate with their parents and get along better. Communication is extremely important. Communication can enhance mutual affection; Communication can eliminate misunderstandings and enhance mutual understanding. Teaching children that love is not enough. Only by understanding the growth law of children can we have a good future. But all of us can do it, and nothing is more important and brings greater returns.

After watching the program, this question has an answer.

I really feel sorry for Li.

I left home at the age of fifteen and seldom communicated with my father, so I might get along a little awkwardly, because it was called indifference and disrespect for my father.

Because of work, makeup can be scolded.

Because I respect my predecessors, I am said to want to be red.

I have watched many videos of Li. He is actually a person with good emotional management. He cried several times and basically mentioned his parents.

I called my father in a big factory, and when I heard his voice, my eyes suddenly turned red and I cried badly, fearing that my father would be worried.

All the way to the adult broadcast, I also mentioned that my father was crying.

He really loves his family, but maybe he is indifferent because he spends too little time with his family.

I don't think it's really necessary to take the relationship between father and son as an example. He is not good at maliciously speculating on the feelings between his family. How unhappy are you?

I want to ask which idol doesn't want to be popular? He likes the stage too much. He has been out alone for so many years, but there is no stage in the end, so he wants to go on stage this year. He wants to be on the stage, and he has already embarked on this road. He can only go far if he is red or not.

Because makeup says that mom's makeup is a professional need, his true character is completely unmanly. Does a boy who is called sand sculpture by fans every day have idol baggage?

He has hardly participated in variety shows. This program is not very satisfactory, but it doesn't look too bad.

Finally, I want to say that all idols are popular with fans. If you don't like you, don't scold others, idol. After all, you're not happy that I scold someone you care about, are you?

All you have to do is analyze the problem carefully. Li is not so good or so miserable.

Recently, a new variety show "All the way to adulthood" was released. As soon as the pilot film came out, many people felt that this variety show was like an adult version of "Where is Dad?". It's all about fathers traveling with their children, bringing the distance closer during the trip. When the first issue of this variety show finally aired, with the appearance of "village head" Li Rui, "All the way to adulthood" was the adult version of "Where is Dad going?" Except for "dad" and older "children", all the processes are exactly the same as "where is dad going?" .

However, the highlight of Where's Dad Going is the childish speech and behavior patterns of children that are not influenced by all kinds of worldly things. Nowadays, "children" are all adults. Without this view, what else can "have you all the way" see? As far as the first issue is concerned, it is really interesting. For example, I get along with Li in the opposite way, but they are all very funny. Speaking of their shots, they all seem to have their own jokes.

Xu Jinjiang is an actor, who has appeared in Ao Bai in Bao Xiao and Kangxi Coming, as well as Xie Xun in The Dragon Slayer. Many of his characters are villains, imposing and frightening. However, in "All the way to adulthood", the audience found that Xu Jinjiang was too gentle and socially fearful, which was quite different from the role he had played. In addition, he still lacks the ability to take care of himself. He can't make a fire, he can't cook, and he may not be able to live independently.

Xu Jinjiang's son Xu Fei suffered too much in his childhood. He generally doesn't dare to go against his father's words. When he is with his father, he takes care of people alone. So I see that as a son, Xu Fei is more patient and active, while Xu Jinjiang is more dependent on his son. In getting along, their identities seem to be completely reversed. Xu Jinjiang and his role are completely opposite, just like a tall baby, waiting for his son to take care of him.

Xu Fei was very mature and steady since he was a child. He felt sorry for his father because he could do nothing. He thinks he wants his father to know his son better by participating in the program, but there is no need to use such a tired way. The mode of getting along with father and son is completely opposite to that of father and son Li. Li is an idol star who debuted in Youth with You this year. He is the captain of UNINE, and his father is an amateur.

Others are stars with children. It is strange that he brought his father Li here. However, his father Li Jian is not a star. Although he said from time to time in the pilot film that he was nervous, wanted to back down and didn't want to record the program, in the feature film, he couldn't see his stage fright at all, and he got along naturally with the famous star dads. And he gets along with his son Li, who is both a father and son and a brother.

They started talking to each other as soon as they met. At the beginning of the feature film, Li Jian also accidentally sold his son. He said that Tony Leung Ka Fai's daughter was afraid of bugs. After all, it is a daughter. His son is also afraid of bugs, so there is a problem. He may need to see a psychiatrist. This is really a speech by dear dad, which makes people laugh. However, in the program, it is obvious that Li Jian is playing the role of nurse. Playing games will also make his son feel distressed, deliberately give points, see his son sad, and secretly wipe his tears.

The role change of Xu Jinjiang and his son is the same as getting along, which makes people feel too funny because of the contrast; The mutual revelation and remorse between Li and his son also makes people laugh. However, no matter which pair of father and son, the father-son affection shown in the details is touching. "Have You All the Way" may not have the highlight of "Where is Dad Going". But I believe many viewers will be attracted by the unique personality of the guests. Dear friends, will you also look forward to the follow-up program of "Have You Along the Way"?

This father and son really can't. Because the father's quality is low, he can't teach, and he always puts his father on the shelf, which leads to the child's low quality, bad manners, no tutor, no big or small. So father and son are unreasonable people.

I think we are both at fault in this matter. From an objective point of view, I think Li made a bigger mistake. After all, it's a little bad that my father is an elder. But also understand.

Let's find out how this happened. Everyone's task in this issue is to go to sea. Every family has different tasks. As a bean lover, Li works very hard. Sleep very little every day. When we went out to sea that day, everyone got up early. I get up at about 4: 30 in the morning. They arrived at the hotel very late. Everyone only slept for 2.3 hours. Very tired.

After returning from the sea, Li and Lao Li both returned to their hotel rooms. Then Lao Li said he was going to take a bath, and Li said he was going to take a bath, too. So Lao Li told him to wash first. He went to take a bath. Lao Li felt very tired at first. I just want to take a bath quickly and have a good rest.

But as soon as Li entered the bathroom, he was always in it. I heard the sound of a mobile phone playing something inside. Anyway, I should be playing with my mobile phone. As for playing, I don't know. I haven't been out for a long time. His father waited in the back a little impatiently. Let him go upstairs and see what he's doing in there. Too slow. Li responded to his father first. At this time, both of them have a good attitude.

Later, Lao Li waited downstairs for a long time and urged again, and Li also responded. But I just didn't say it. Lao Li is a little angry. He began to urge Li to hurry up frequently. Both of them are angry. Lao Li's tone is also very bad. Li didn't answer at all. The scene was once awkward.

Later, Lao Li said that the delivery man had arrived and could eat after washing. But it's fake. I just want Li to come out quickly. It was about two hours before Li finally came out. As soon as they met, they quarreled immediately. Both of them are very tough. When Lao Li saw that Li was angry with him, he was in a bad mood. I feel that my son doesn't respect him at all and doesn't understand him at all. You shouldn't talk to him in this tone. Li feels that Lao Li is not considerate of him at all. He hasn't been in for so long, so he has gone to play games. You shouldn't rush him like this. He is very tired, don't let him relax. Anyway, the quarrel between the two became louder and louder, and Lao Li slammed the door and went out. None of them would give in.

In fact, this is a very small thing. It is really easy to have a bad temper in a state of physical and mental exhaustion. Very understandable. But I also think it is true. Families often quarrel over trifles. People often leave their worst temper to their families and vent it on them. Because no matter how noisy it is. Your family will never leave you. After reconciliation, everyone will only get closer and closer. Moreover, Aidou is a human being and has a temper. In fact, this also let everyone know the real Li. I don't think there's anything wrong with it. No one is really perfect, but everyone has shortcomings. As long as you are sincere, you can correct it.

Lee also regretted it afterwards. Finally, under the persuasion of Li's mother, she took the initiative to apologize to Lao Li. Take the initiative to make up. Just admit your mistakes and correct them. This is what families should do.

The original intention of the program "All the way to adulthood" is to leave memories for children's adulthood and witness the dribs and drabs of their father and son's trip. But the audience who watched the program had the feeling that children are very sensible, but several dads really need to grow up because many of their behaviors are immature and naive.

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Xu Jinjiang is probably the person who needs to be an adult most. He has the innocence and pride of a child. He cries when he doesn't agree with a word. When he is in a bad mood, he will lose his temper with his son Xu Fei. In life, Xu Fei is more like his father, caring for him in every way. The child is really sensible and distressing.

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Followed by Tony Leung Ka Fai, although Tony Leung Ka Fai loves his twin daughters very much, the best actors sometimes have a temper and usually forget to nag. He was angry with his daughter for a little thing, but her daughter did a good job and he was not very encouraging, which made both daughters afraid of him. Although this is his real place, small quarrels at home from time to time have also affected his feelings.

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It is probably Li and his son who make the audience sweat the most. Last week, the contradiction between father and son broke out for the first time because of the problem of taking a bath. At that time, Lao Zi and Xiao Li were anxious to take a bath. Finally, Lao Li asked Li Xian to take a bath, but Li didn't come out of the bathroom for a long time. Lao Zi urged him several times, and Li was impatient. He shouted at his father, "What are you urging me for?" How many times have you urged me? Are you going to make me angry? "

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Lao Li felt humiliated and asked his son why he talked to him like this. Not only did Li not apologize, but he also scolded Lao Li for urging him to die. Finally, Lao Li slammed the door angrily and left.

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Lao Li, who was extremely depressed, lamented how he had such a son. He said that the three sons and two other sons in the program group were so kind to their father that the sons were always angry with themselves.

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Later, through the adjustment of mother Li, the relationship between father and son was finally restored. Unexpectedly, when the next episode was released, the contradiction between father and son broke out again. At that time, the program group had a task, which was to let the children wash their father's feet.

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Other children are happy to serve their father, and his father also enjoys this link, especially Tony Leung Ka Fai, who enjoys the services of his two daughters alone and is happy to keep his mouth shut.

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Li seems unwilling to wash his father's feet. He said he couldn't rub his father's feet, but told him to rub his feet. This made Lao Li lose face again and felt that he could not lift his head in front of everyone. He also lamented that he didn't know this son. It seems that the father and son are really not worrying. When two people with independent thoughts and strong personalities collide, they will frequently have conflicts.

It's normal. The emotional outburst between father and son doesn't make much sense. As for the difference between strength and weakness, in the tempering of life, you will involuntarily enter your own state ... harmony, whether friends or relatives, may become the norm, if there is no conflict, it will be full of crisis. ...

There may be a variety script.

I haven't seen it. It's hard to evaluate.