A person with high emotional intelligence is the winner in life. Using this method to cultivate children's emotional intelligence is often ignored by parents.

I often hear people complain about how difficult it is to get along with people with low emotional intelligence in real life.

Don’t know how to think from other people’s perspective and don’t care about other people’s feelings;

When with friends and family, they only care about Speaks for oneself, does not listen to others at all, does not know how to respect others;

Loses temper and loses face easily, does not know how to be affectionate with others...

People with high emotional intelligence have delicate and rich emotions, know how to control their emotions, and can get along well with family and friends, making people feel like a spring breeze.

People with low emotional intelligence are prone to encounter various problems in interpersonal communication. They are self-centered and careless people at heart. It is really embarrassing to be with them. Headache!

The same goes for children. Some children whose emotional intelligence is not developed enough will be impatient, selfish and overbearing, and have poor resistance to frustration, even if they are with them. People who are very close to you often feel tired.

The development of children's emotional intelligence is mainly affected by acquired education and experience. You can often tell your children some stories about emotions, frustrations, and emotional processing, so that children can understand in the stories. Reason, increase emotional intelligence.

Today, I have summarized 10 "emotional intelligence" stories for babies. These stories are full of warm plots about getting along with good friends, family, and people you like, as well as faces. Sorrow over separation, difficulties, setbacks.

Touch the delicate emotional heartstrings of children, and they will understand the value of these feelings better. When children learn to care about and respect the people around them, they will also learn "How to get along well with more people."

No.1

"Left foot first, then right foot"

Having read nearly 3,000 picture books, it can be said that I am already familiar with the emotional lines in picture books, but when I read this story, I still cried. .

In the story, the grandfather and grandson, who originally lived a happy life, fell into trouble after the grandfather suffered a stroke. Stroke is a very common disease in the elderly, and many children will also face this kind of ancestor, just like Bobby in the book.

However, Bobby mustered up the courage to get close to his grandfather, take care of his grandfather, and teach him to walk. The slightly autobiographical description in the book gives readers a deep understanding of his ancestors and grandchildren. A love story that is touching and unforgettable.

No.2

"The Taste of Nostalgia"

Babies must have heard of "The Secret of Shame" by the Big Bad Wolf Gollum, right? "The Taste of Missing" is its sequel

People often only know how to miss something when they lose it, and in the end, all that is left are memories.

In the process of growing up, if you can exchange roles and understand each other's situation and mood, then many conflicts will be easily solved. If you can take the initiative to show love, I believe the children will There is a greater gain, and the power of love will dissolve all differences.

No.3

"Grandma Upstairs and Grandma Downstairs"

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This story spans four generations. Tommy not only has his grandmother, but also his great-grandmother. Tommy visits them every week. Until one day my great-grandma passed away.

This story uses eloquent words and gentle and soft pictures to help children face the natural law of birth, aging, illness and death in life.

Mom compares the shooting star to her great-grandmother’s kiss, which avoids the problem of deifying the dead, and also concretizes the invisible love, helping Tommy relieve his doubts and try Accept life's changes.

This book is based on the author's real childhood life. The American "Library Journal" believes that "children will tirelessly listen to this story over and over again."

No.4

"Aqiu and Ahu"

This story tells an interesting and touching story between a little toy fox and a little girl.

It has won the Japan Kodansha Publishing Culture Award Picture Book Award and the American Parents’ Book Award. It is loved by many children in Japan.

The resolute and brave Ahu and the kind and lovely Aqiu written by Lin Mingzi are as lovable as the children around us. This little story about friendship and adventure is like A gust of spring breeze blowing by, fresh and warm, makes people unforgettable for a long time.

No.5

"Little Sheep Langlang"

Who would name his little sheep girl "Langlang"? Langlang...Wolanglang! Because of this horrible name, little Yang Langlang has never had a good friend since he was a child.

Langlang was so sad that she decided to leave this troubled place. Unexpectedly, a little wolf named Angel had the same troubles as Lang Lang. Little Wolf Angel and Little Lamb Langlang chatted for a long time...

Learning to respect and love others is not just as simple as talking, but can be seen in many details in life It is a small mistake that many children make without considering the level of a person's emotional intelligence and randomly treating other people's appearance, name, and personality as a joke.

I hope that through this story, children can fall in love with the little sheep and realize that it is really sad when others make fun of them!

No.6

"Xiao Lu's Pond"

This is a sad story and the most tender account of friendship.

The little girl and Xiao Lu are neighbors who live on the same street. They are always inseparable. But Xiaolu's heart disease became increasingly serious, and he eventually passed away. The little girl and other classmates were very sad. Everyone missed Xiaolu very much.

So, everyone tried to find a way to commemorate Xiao Lu and smooth out the inner trauma.

No.7

"Happy Birthday to You"

The name of the picture book "Happy Birthday to You" sounds like a happy party story, but in fact the protagonist here is a sick young lady. The young lady suffering from cancer suffers from frequent injections. After taking medicine, all her hair fell out, so she wore a hat. On this day, she met a new friend...

Life is very fragile, and It's beautiful. When you get to know a friend who is suffering from a disease, you will cherish every minute and every second of your life and learn to be considerate, caring and caring...

No.8

"My Dad"

There are countless books about the relationship between father and son, but few have such an angle and method as "My Dad", which makes people feel the love and admiration of their children for their fathers from the bottom of their hearts.

In the author Anthony Brown's writing, the father in his mind is fearless, not even the big bad wolf! He can sing, dance and make children laugh;

He eats like a horse and is as wise as an owl. Isn’t this dad awesome?

Use the tone and eyes of a child to describe a father who is both strong and gentle. Not only is he good at everything and gives his children a sense of security, but he is also as warm as the sun. Same.

No.9

"My Mom" ??

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"My Mom" ??The mother in every child's heart is the best! I still remember when I was a kid, every time a classmate called me, I would ask my mother to answer the phone first, and then take the phone. I would happily listen to my classmate praise my mother for having such a gentle voice!

In this story, "my mother" is a great cook; she is the strongest woman in the world; she is also a fantastic gardener who can make Any plant grows; she's a fairy and she always has a way of cheering me up when I'm down...

I love my mom, and you Do you know? My mother loves me too and will always love me. Remember to express your love to mothers often!

No.10

"Black Rabbit and White Rabbit"

Every child has a "little god" or "little goddess" in his heart during childhood. This kind of relationship is not like the relationship between adults. Love is a pure "I want to play with you forever" love.

A little black rabbit and a little white rabbit live in the forest. They play together every day, but there are also sorrows in happy days. The little black rabbit is worried , what if they will be separated one day? Two little rabbits made the most important decision in their lives - getting married!

A super cute story that contains the sweetness of love and the innocence of friendship, but more importantly, it helps children understand the value and eternity of love and commitment.