The money view of your family of origin determines your wealth and destiny. Can you talk about it?

If today you can’t make any money no matter how hard you try, or you can make money but can’t hold it, or you have saved some money but don’t know how to make money, then with a high probability , your wealth and destiny have been decided very early, and the people who determine your wealth and destiny are your parents. It is very likely that you are unconscious of the influence of your family of origin's view of money on a person's wealth and destiny. If you want to change your wealth and destiny, the following content will be of great value to you. Let me share three points.

First, the concept of money that your parents instilled in you often has side effects. Most parents want their children to be well, but that doesn't mean they know how to love, educate, and influence their children in the right way. Some parents will say that as long as you are willing to study, they will sell everything at home to support your study. Your mother and I are working hard outside to make money for you to study. Why are you so unsatisfactory? Your parents have no ability and they are counting on you. Study hard and get ahead, etc. Do these feel familiar to you? Many of the parents of mothers in such families are materially and spiritually deficient. Growing up in this environment is beyond the challenges a child can bear. The heart will be hit hard, and the side effect will be a sense of lack.

Second, the fear of scarcity can turn people into slaves to money. Because the sense of poverty that has been instilled in people since childhood will make people feel that they are a burden to the family for a long time when they are not financially independent. When you grow up and enter the society, on the one hand you will have a paranoid worship of money, on the other hand you are afraid and not good at spending money. You always feel that you don't have enough money, and the more you lack, the more you care about it. People with a sense of scarcity will also be relatively pessimistic about the future. When making choices, they will pay more attention to immediate interests instead of long-term goals. They lack career and foresight, but truly powerful people are masters of long-termism. In addition, some people will fall into retaliatory consumption, saving a few months' salary to buy a luxury bag or something, which is actually making up for the inner feeling of lack.

Third, subconsciously, you don’t believe that you can make money. People who grew up in poverty do not lack talented and capable people, but many of them cannot make money. They have a very bad relationship with money. Subconsciously, they feel that they are not qualified and do not believe that they can make money. On the surface, it may seem like you are not confident, but in essence, you feel that you are not worthy of wealth. Even if they encounter a good opportunity, they will worry about what if they fail, what if they lose money, etc., and then they will compromise on safety and stability.