What will happen to you when you meet such a mother-in-law and such a family?

Sister, it hurts you to see what happened to you, but then again, your situation is everywhere in the countryside, and your mother-in-law is not the only one. Will the next husband be better for this divorce?

There is an old saying: "raise children to prevent old age." Rural people can finally earn money by raising a son, just to enjoy happiness with them. Moreover, many families give up their eldest son first to help families take on many responsibilities, including helping parents support other children. Therefore, your in-laws depend on their older children for everything, and your husband is like a money-making machine at home. These are normal in rural areas, and there is nothing to complain about. If you must complain, you can only blame why you married your eldest son. Won't it be so tiring to marry a younger son?

Besides, are you familiar with the water poured by their daughters and married women? Their girl is already someone else's family, and the old man won't ask too much for the responsibility of supporting the family. But on the other hand, after all, my daughter went to someone else's house and had to face her in-laws. They are afraid that their daughter will be bullied without the support of her parents, so they must give money as much as possible to let her know that her parents love her more and make her feel less wronged.

Finally, the youngest son, I think the old people tend to be younger, which is nothing to be wronged. Again, who told you to marry the responsible eldest son?

All kinds of situations are actually normal, but some daughters-in-law at home may not be so wronged, because daughters-in-law must be tough! Especially in such a family, you always swallow your words, so they will think you can accept it, so they will intensify it in the future. If you don't talk about big and small issues for a long time, you will talk to the limit of your tolerance, but at this time they can't stand it-why didn't you have a problem before, and this time you have a problem?

Tell me more about your husband. He understands his responsibilities in this family, and he has taken on his own responsibilities, but after all, his ability is limited and the pressure must be great. If you complain about him again, it will undoubtedly add more pressure to him. He and his parents can do nothing but get angry with you. He is really stupid and filial, but his family is like this. He is not a generalist in dealing with family disputes. He can't solve the contradiction you complain to him, so he can only bear it silently.

So, my advice is: first of all, don't expect your husband to listen to your complaints and turn to you for help. Secondly, you have to be tough and force yourself to be provocative. What you should say must be said at the first time, and don't be afraid of causing conflict. If peace can only be achieved by your tolerance, break it. The wicked are also afraid of the wicked. Your mother-in-law is a grumpy old man. You should be as enthusiastic as her. Don't care too much about your image and face. Only when you are tough, they will not bully you all the time.