My family is poor and my mother-in-law dislikes me. Is it really important to be suitable?

Now many young people are definitely dismissive of this matter. They think this is an ancient custom, even a bad habit. They always preach their freedom to fall in love, choose their lover and get married. In fact, in my opinion, these people really don't know anything about love, marriage and the road they will choose in their later lives. It should be said that this sentence has been circulated in China for nearly a thousand years. A proverb from thousands of years ago has been passed down to this day. Nature has its reasons and people's wisdom. Let's analyze how important it is to be suitable, and how much trouble we will encounter in marriage if it is not suitable.

One; cultural difference

Many people may wonder why there are cultural differences when they are married. Just like the above question, it fully illustrates one thing: the family is not good and is rejected by her mother-in-law. This is the cultural difference! If the mother-in-law's family culture and family education are not the kind of thoughts that love the poor and the rich, how can they be rejected by others? Two people have received different cultural education and humanistic edification since childhood, so they have different views on everything and different means to solve all problems in life. If two people have similar cultural and family attributes, then this problem will not arise.

Second; Poverty gap

Among suitable couples, the gap between the rich and the poor can be said to be a major reason. If the gap between the rich and the poor of two lovers is too big, then they are doomed not to have a perfect marriage. This is proved by many ruthless facts. Not all rich people will look down on the poor, but most rich people are biased against the poor. This prejudice will really put our marriage into a painful cycle.

Third; Disagreement among three views

Another explanation is that if there is a big gap between the two sides in economic conditions, cultural differences or other places, then their world outlook, outlook on life and values will be very different. At first, we may be blinded by love and ignore it, but once we enter the marriage life, we will know how terrible it is to have different views, so Bian Xiao thinks that the right collocation is one of the most important factors for two people to combine.