What if my mother-in-law doesn't agree to let me wash my hair during the month?

This requires good communication with your mother-in-law. You need to know why your mother-in-law won't let you wash your hair. In my opinion, if your mother-in-law won't let you wash your hair, it should be for your health. In the eyes of the older generation, it is a big deal for women to be confined to the moon. If she doesn't take good care of her health, I'm afraid she will leave some sequelae.

First, communicate well:

We need to know what her mother-in-law thinks and that she is taking care of herself. Some old people think that washing your hair will make your hair cool, which will lead to body cold and even cause diseases.

At this time, I can explain to my mother-in-law that the modern confinement mode no longer emphasizes the concept of "no shampoo", and at the same time, modern sanitary conditions have been greatly improved, and shampooing will not cause harm to the body. In addition, you can tell your mother-in-law that modern women need to wash their hair to keep it clean and promote physical recovery.

Second, convince her mother-in-law with the help of doctor's advice

You can also find a suitable time to wash your hair and appease your mother-in-law's concerns. In the traditional culture of confinement, shampooing is forbidden, but now medical experts believe that shampooing at appropriate time and conditions will not only harm the body, but also be beneficial to self-recovery and mental health. You can discuss with your mother-in-law and choose the right time and weather conditions, such as washing your hair with warm water in a sunny afternoon to avoid catching a cold and reassure her mother-in-law as much as possible.

Finally, if it is not necessary, you can persuade your mother-in-law with the help of the doctor's advice. Modern medical experts generally believe that proper shampooing during the second month will not only harm the body, but also benefit the health of the parturient and promote blood circulation and metabolism. You can invite doctors to communicate at home and listen to their professional opinions, so that your mother-in-law can rest assured.

Third, personal experience.

I was forced when I was imprisoned on the moon. I don't want to be confined to the moon. No way, in the eyes of the older generation, not confinement is very harmful to women's health. Finally, I can only listen to my mother-in-law's confinement. I have also encountered things that I can't wash my hair after confinement. I also communicated with my mother-in-law and told her that her medicine is very developed now, and the doctor said that she can wash her hair.

I also told my mother-in-law about the benefits of shampoo. Although my mother-in-law didn't accept it at first, she finally agreed under the persuasion of doctors and family members. And I will often share some topics about women's maintenance with my mother-in-law, so that her mother-in-law can know the difference between confinement and the older generation.

As a daughter-in-law, communication with her mother-in-law requires skills. Her mother-in-law is good for our health. Maybe her thoughts are different from those of us young people, but it is true that she cares about us. As long as you know more and share more nursing knowledge with your mother-in-law, I believe her mother-in-law can understand, avoid conflicts and ensure family harmony.