Why did Aunt Zhao, who was hated by many people in A Dream of Red Mansions, win the favor of Jia Zheng?

Aunt Zhao's knowledge and emotional intelligence are low to the bottom. Without a good family background to weave a strong network of contacts for her, she will naturally be hated by everyone. But if you can become Jia Zheng's aunt, it is estimated that she should still be very beautiful, otherwise Jia Zheng will not wronged herself, and besides being beautiful, Aunt Zhao is different from everyone's family, and there are not so many rules and manners. How can Jia Zheng please him? In other words, Aunt Zhao may have a lot of flattery, but she has nothing to do, or she is ignorant and stupid, and is very popular with men, so she can seize Jia Zheng's heart and get his favor.

Jia Fu in a Dream of Red Mansions is one of the four great families in Jinling, and all the people who associate with Jia Fu are dignitaries. Not all the wives and concubines in Jiafu are prominent in-laws, which shows that the relationship in Jiafu's backyard is also complicated. Without emotional intelligence and skills, it is difficult to gain a foothold in Jiafu. The official second generation, like Lin Daiyu, is also the first lady of the Jia family, but because of his father's early death, he is a master who doesn't understand the world. Even if Jia loves her, she sometimes looks at people's faces in Jia's house. Therefore, if you want to live a happy life in Jiafu, your EQ must not be low and your background must be hard. As far as Xifeng and Xue Baochai are concerned, their advantages are not as good as Lin Daiyu's, but it is because their emotional intelligence is high enough that they get along like a duck to water in Jia's backyard. Only by overthrowing the Jia family can we keep the position of mistress and have the opportunity to be mistress in the future.

Aunt Zhao has no emotional intelligence and background, otherwise she wouldn't have been a little aunt in Jiafu for so many years. Although she also gave birth to a son, she doesn't have a prominent family background or that emotional intelligence. Naturally, she is annoying everywhere in Jiafu, being excluded everywhere, and bringing trouble to the children. Although Aunt Zhao's ignorance and low emotional intelligence are unpopular with everyone, this does not affect Jia Zheng's love for her. You know, Aunt Zhao is a little wife, and she can't be an aunt without a little beauty. Moreover, the little wife doesn't need any housekeeping skills or knowledge. As long as you can serve Jia Zheng comfortably and have more children, Aunt Zhao is a qualified aunt for Jia Zheng. Basically, Aunt Zhao did a good job, giving Jia Zhengsheng a son and a daughter, which just added up to a good word. Moreover, Aunt Zhao is also willing to serve Jia Zheng on weekdays, and will not be as reserved and pretentious as a good family. In order to please Jia Zheng, she dares to do anything charming, and Jia Zheng naturally loves her.

So Zhao Can menstruation can't get on the table anyway, but she can always serve Jia Zheng comfortably behind closed doors, so Jia Zheng doesn't care about her ignorance, and may even think Aunt Zhao's stupidity is cute. This is just a common problem of lecherous men, so Jia Zheng likes Aunt Zhao with low emotional intelligence.