On "Don't disturb others"

One's best education is not to give others trouble.

What I'm talking about here is not simply that a person is in trouble, but that he insists on not talking to his family and friends for help because he is afraid of causing trouble to others. What it really wants to convey is more profound: self-improvement, spontaneity, self-discipline, self-consciousness and self-love. ......

For example, nowadays, the elderly pay great attention to their health, and exercise in time is to get sick or not to get sick as little as possible, not to cause trouble to their children, and to give them more time to work hard and realize their dreams.

For another example, when husband and wife live together, the responsibility for housework is generally borne by the woman. As a husband, don't be lazy all day and make a mess of your home and yourself, that is, don't bother your lover. The nuances of life are not as romantic as sending flowers, but they are the embodiment of true feelings.

For another example, the previous "high-speed rail occupying a seat" incident was frequently exposed to the public, which can be regarded as an auxiliary cognition of "why not do it". It always bothers others at will without loving itself, and will eventually be exposed and spurned.

I remember there was a program in "Seven Ba Shuo" entitled "Is it a virtue not to disturb others?" Zhang Quanling's story about his classmates is very small, but it is a vivid portrayal of why he doesn't bother others. Many times, it is harmless to be a little tired, troublesome, selfish and altruistic.

Not causing trouble to others is the most basic accomplishment that everyone should have, and it is also a lifestyle that should be advocated. Appreciate this attitude towards life, be independent, manage your life well, understand the sufferings of others in real time, and lend a helping hand to others in time. A harmonious society needs both virtue and evil, and needs the concerted efforts of Qi Xin, doesn't it?

Author/Sanri, a person who loves life, is here to make a sound of peace of mind. Please pay attention to my program life and contact you and me with "heart" after dinner!