What do you think of "Mom, move back to the countryside, we can't afford to support you"?

"Mom, move back to the countryside. We can't afford you."

What do you think of this sentence?

Look at this sentence, there may be many filial sons and daughters come out to call names. Of course, filial piety is the first of all virtues. As a child, it is natural to support your parents. This is also our obligation as children.

However, in this sentence of the subject, it is not just as simple as not taking care of the elderly.

Forget the swearing. The child said, "We can't afford you." There is too much helplessness in this. This is a question of "support", so it should have little to do with the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Therefore, I made a bold assumption here.

This mother, since she moved from her hometown to the city to live with her children, means that before she came, the children thought she could support the elderly, otherwise she wouldn't take them over. However, why can't you afford it? Presumably, the mother's expenses in the city have exceeded the upper limit that her son could bear in his original plan.

If a child with an average income meets his mother in the following situations, he may not be able to afford it!

1. When you meet an expensive mother:

For example, some old people come to the city, broaden their horizons and make new social relations, so they will buy a lot of things or health care products, or often travel with old people's groups, and some old people like to play cards and gamble some small money. Of course, if the son has money, then this is not a problem. If the child's income is only enough for basic living, and other expenses have to be paid to the elderly, it may not last.

2, lazy mother:

No one will ask the elderly for help if conditions permit, but if the children can go out to make money, they can take care of the children or do some housework as much as possible. But if the old people come, they can't help, and even have to let the younger generation eat and drink, and tell them what to do, which undoubtedly brings a greater burden to the children. Of course, such old people are still relatively few, and more parents are doing their best to help their children.

Therefore, if you meet these two types of old people, you have to stand in the position of young people to understand. You can't kill a large piece with a slap, and you feel that such a child is not filial.

The child has no choice but to send his mother back to the countryside. However, this does not mean that we will not support the elderly. Therefore, we also hope that the elders will understand that it is not easy for some young people to pay off all kinds of loans. what do you reckon ?