What are the benefits of lying?

Lies are essentially punishment and teasing for human beings. There are white lies, but there are no valuable lies. Any deception is not permanent, and once exposed, it will inevitably cause harm. Hitler, the master liar, declared: "The masses are easily fooled by big lies, but not easily deceived by small lies." It was his big lie that not only destroyed his country, but also brought serious disasters to half the earth, and finally completely destroyed himself!

A young couple who were in harmony with Mei Mei suddenly quarreled so darkly that the neighbors wanted to play dumb. I knew that the quarrel between husband and wife would intensify with more suggestions from outsiders, so I went over. If someone knocks over the sky, it is unreasonable to sit back and watch.

The child used the money his mother asked him to buy oil for other purposes and told a lie. The woman reported to the man, and the man beat the child severely. Women love their children and protect them. Men are furious and think that children are spoiled by women for telling lies. So a scuffle broke out between the three men.

I'll let the children hide in my house first, and the remaining three adults will be easy to talk to:

"The child lied for the first time, and you launched such a violent storm. The result is not to warn the child not to lie in the future, but to teach him a lesson. Lying will be more clever in the future and will not be noticed by you. I'm sure that children will lie in the future, and so will other children. Because none of us adults dare to say that he has never lied or been cheated! Sartre said:' I didn't create a lie, but a product of class differentiation. So I was born with a lie. Dostoevsky said that only those who lack wit tell the truth. As early as the end of 16, a westerner named bartholomew wrote a liar's handbook, praising a large number of outstanding liars, claiming that' lying is God's ability to distinguish people from other animals'. Some anthropologists actually agree with this view. Lying competitions are held every year in the world. Last year, the150th lying contest was held in Camberley, England, and it was stipulated that' politicians' were not allowed to participate because they were' professional liars'. A survey report on the moral quality of the new world in the 1990s said, "Americans are lying. 9 1% always lies, and men lie better than women. 1990, seven of the British 10 secretaries wanted to brag and please their bosses ... "

The couple were cheated by me, and they stopped quarreling long ago.

"Are you encouraging lying? Are you saying that lying is justified and cannot be banned? "

"I just wrote a short article called" Contemporary Deception ",so I know the deceptive information backwards. The purpose is to calm you down and face up to the fact that there are a lot of lies in your life, and then you will know how difficult it is not to lie. Because it is difficult, honesty is more valuable. The ancients said that people's behavior is honest. It is difficult for a weak-willed person to be honest. In fact, the first element of great wisdom is honesty. Honesty is the most important thing in life. Only honesty can lead to real life and open happiness. In that case, why do people lie? Why not hate lies as much as you hate other evils? Some people lie out of malice, in order to deceive and hurt others. Some lies are not malicious, even out of kindness. For example, in order to maintain a happy life, the husband happily wants to take his wife for a walk after dinner. The wife is too tired to go for a walk. In order not to spoil her husband's fun, she lied about going for a walk. Or you have unpleasant news or unfortunate news, such as being criticized, fighting, losing your wallet, getting sick, telling some protective lies, so as not to worry or get angry. St Augustine thinks there are eight kinds of lies. Sometimes people would rather listen to lies than the truth. Facing truth is ice, facing lies is fire. No species in the world is more creative and hypocritical than people, and people think too badly or too well of people.