Should I mind my husband eating alone with another woman?

It depends on the relationship, whether it's a friend or a colleague, if you don't mind. He will think you are stingy. After all, men need some space. If you are an intellectual woman, you have to show an atmosphere, calmness and wisdom.

Thank you for inviting me, I mind very much ~

Two married men and women, if it is business, can communicate clearly by phone or chat software, handle the work clearly, and it is completely unnecessary to meet for dinner. In fact, if you are a responsible man, you will know how to avoid suspicion. Whether there is a problem between them or not, if you are unhappy, your husband should put your feelings first. He won't lose anything if he doesn't go out to eat with this woman or chat with her. However, if you are unhappy, you will hurt your feelings and lose your trust. Can't he tell which is more important? If you can't eat out, it's not a problem. This will make you unhappy. This is the problem.

However, when communicating, I don't suggest that you directly blame your husband. When you encounter problems, you should communicate first. You should help your husband analyze that a married woman sends1314,521to another married man. Is there anything wrong with this married woman? If you send such messages and red envelopes to other men, will your husband feel sad? Empathy, this woman not only hurt your feelings with your husband, but also hurt her husband. Will your husband be interested in continuing his affair with such a woman? If your husband still can't understand this truth, then I suggest you consider whether there is something wrong with your relationship or your husband's personality.

I fully understand that two people need each other's space after marriage, but does giving him space mean that he can maintain an intimate and ambiguous relationship with the opposite sex? No, giving him personal space should give him time to do what he likes, such as work, such as sports, and give him time to be alone, rather than giving him a reason to be ambiguous with other women.

Before marriage, we must make clear some bottom lines, such as how to deal with the relationship with the opposite sex, and both sides should reach an understanding on how to make friends. For example, my husband's attitude towards me is that he trusts me and I can have dinner with friends of the opposite sex, but I must report to him in advance. I can't go if he doesn't allow me. So apart from going to work and eating with the opposite sex, other friends of the opposite sex eat, and I either take him or I don't go. I won't die if I don't eat with the opposite sex, but my husband is unhappy and I will be very distressed. My attitude towards my husband is: I don't like him eating with any friends of the opposite sex, and I don't like him coming too close, so I'm not allowed to eat with the opposite sex in principle, unless the reason for eating makes me unable to refute it. My husband is also very conscious and never has too much contact with the opposite sex.

We have reached an agreement, so we trust each other. There has always been misunderstanding between my husband and me, which led to the collapse of trust, so now I especially cherish the hard-won trust foundation and take care of my previous feelings.