Are we changing our lives, or are we being "changed by life"?

Life does not matter success or failure. Failure just means the end of one state and the beginning of another. There is no eternal success in life. Success only means the realization of a goal and the realization of an ideal. In the face of success or failure, the role of acceptance and change is to make people learn to be patient and strong.

The young girl was having a long conversation with her father. To be more precise, the daughter was complaining to her father.

The daughter told her father with a heavy heart: "I feel very painful now. Although I want to get out of it, I seem to have lost my way. Problems come one after another, leaving me helpless. I'm tired of struggling and resisting, but I don't know what to do."

The father lowered his head and thought for a moment, then said to the girl: "Follow me to the kitchen and take a look. Maybe you can learn from it. Discover the true meaning of life."

The girl was confused and followed her father to the kitchen. I saw my father turn on the gas and boil three pots of water. After the water boiled, my father put a radish in the first pot, an egg in the second pot, and some coffee in the third pot. After everything was put away, her father motioned for her to silently watch the changes in the pot with him.

After a while, my father took out the radishes and eggs from the pot and placed them in two bowls respectively. Then he poured the coffee into the cup. He asked the girl: "Child, what did you see just now?" The girl replied: "Carrots, eggs and coffee, nothing else."

The father said: "Feel it with your hands Boil the radish in boiling water, break the egg skin, and then taste the coffee I made for you. How does it taste?"

The girl followed her father's instructions one by one. But I still don’t know what my father wants to explain.

The father touched the head of his daughter who had grown up but lost her courage for a moment, and explained: "When they are in adversity, that is, when they encounter scalding boiling water, their reactions are different. The hard, solid radish becomes soft and rotten in boiling water; the egg is originally very fragile, and the egg shell protects the liquid inside, but after boiling, the liquid inside the egg becomes solid; powdered coffee is in boiling water Boiling it changed the taste of the water. What about you? My child, what are you?"

Everyone in life will face various troubles and confusions, but everyone Growth requires paying a price of one kind or another. No one has everything smooth sailing all the time, life always exposes us to various crises.

When we are dissatisfied with the status quo and long for a more positive life, acceptance and change can make our hearts more open-minded and optimistic, and change everything about us. Acceptance and change contain a kind of life wisdom, and it is an effective tool for everyone's self-realization and transcendence.

When our life status undergoes major changes, acceptance and change are the healing of our injured hearts and the tonic for our tension, anxiety, grief, fear and other emotions; when our lives When the situation goes from bad to worse and is very difficult, acceptance and change are the mysterious powers that enable us to achieve self-breakthrough. When we struggle hard, we have firm eyes and confident smiles.

Life is unpredictable and everything is unpredictable. After the Wenchuan earthquake broke out, tens of thousands of people died, hundreds of thousands of flat houses were destroyed, and tens of thousands of people suffered disasters. For those affected by the disaster and those who survived the disaster, smiles cannot bloom again on their faces in a short time. At this time, what they need is to calm down their emotions, downplay their grief, get out of fear, and restore the faith and courage to live.

Any disaster will pass and all sorrow will fade away. For people in disaster areas and those who have suffered serious disasters, positive self-adjustment and firm confidence in life are the guarantees for starting a new life. At this moment, what we should do is try to calm our hearts and usher in a new life with a positive attitude and actions.

The imprisonment of thinking will always make it difficult to break through. You are like a slave imprisoned by thinking, letting it drive and dominate. As a result, a thick pain enveloped him, unable to break free, but full of longing.

Everyone reaches the palace of happiness from pain.

For those who pursue happiness, acceptance and change mean facing the pain and discovering the true meaning of happiness in life - pain and happiness.

Life does not matter success or failure. Failure just means the end of one state and the beginning of another. There is no eternal success in life. Success only means the realization of a goal and the realization of an ideal. In the face of success or failure, the role of acceptance and change is to make people learn to be patient and strong.

Life requires continuous self-improvement, and life also requires the support of faith. No matter whether the flowers bloom or fall, no matter how the clouds roll, people who know how to accept and change will always be unfazed by favors and humiliations, have no intention of leaving or leaving, and maintain a normal life and unchanging beliefs in life.

Whether it is all things in the universe or life in heaven and earth, acceptance and change are everywhere. Life has been full of adversities since ancient times, and in adversity there are even more adversities. No matter why we are in trouble, pain, or confusion, as long as we feel that we are in adversity, acceptance and change will always provide us with a perfect solution.

Changing life does not mean changing oneself. On the contrary, it is to better develop oneself, fulfill oneself and surpass oneself. To transcend yourself, you must first change yourself; to change yourself, you need to start changing your life. Life can change, and many people are changed by life. If you have the ability, change it; if you don’t have the ability to change life, learn to accept life objectively, adapt to life subjectively, hone yourself in the new living environment, and give birth to a different style of life... Do you like this article? ? Share this article with more people~

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