Women should remember the ten disadvantages of being a stay-at-home wife

How about being a full-time housewife after marriage? As we all know, there are ten major disadvantages to being a full-time housewife after marriage, so women should think carefully before deciding to be a full-time housewife after marriage. At the same time, being a full-time housewife is not something you can just talk about. There are certain standards. Please read below for details:

Disadvantages of being a full-time housewife

1. Lost the opportunity to contact the outside world

Many people do not feel that they are outside every day What is gained from hard work? In fact, human beings accumulate knowledge in a subtle way. For full-time wives who stay at home all year round, they basically lose the opportunity to contact the outside world. As a frog in a well, even if I want to return to work one day, I still find myself out of touch with society.

2. No economic autonomy.

Once a woman becomes a full-time housewife, it means that all family expenses must be relied on by men. Let’s not talk about whether men are generous or not. At least women will feel useless if they ask for money too often. Secondly, economy determines social status and also determines family status. Everyone knows that soft-spoken people are short-tempered, because stay-at-home wives are too financially dependent on men, which can easily breed machismo.

3. It is easy to turn yourself into a yellow-faced woman.

Full-time housewives worry about their husband and children’s meals every day, as well as their children’s academic problems. For this reason, they basically live in the vegetable market, children's school, home and 3:1 every day. For women who have just become a full-time housewife, they may even dress up carefully when going out. After a long time, they didn't even dare to wash their faces before going out. If you don't prune yourself for a long time, you will naturally become a yellow-faced woman.

4. Bury your own residual value.

Although housework is tedious, it has little to do with the knowledge learned in school. In other words, when a woman studies for nothing in school and her self-worth is not reflected, she will feel inexplicable sadness. In addition, if you work as a full-time housewife for a long time, you will lose many friends. Even if her former friends call to get together, she will feel that she does not speak the same language as those friends, and she will be infected with autism invisibly.

5. Confidence is torn apart bit by bit.

When in love, men basically regard women as gods. No matter how pretentious a woman is, men will tolerate it. When a woman is hesitating between being a full-time housewife or sticking to the workplace, a man can pretend to be a grandson and beg the woman to return to the family; when a woman has been a full-time housewife for more than ten years, the man will forget his original commitment and vows. The cruel reality is that in love, the new couple always laughs, while the old man cries and no one cares.

6. Over-reliance on a man will make you dissatisfied.

The stay-at-home wife is not only financially dependent on her husband, she even devotes all her love to her husband. Because of this, stay-at-home wives also hope that their husbands can devote all their free time to themselves. However, as a natural person, she will inevitably have some social interactions. At this time, the full-time wife will be unhappy because of her husband's entertainment and often quarrel with her husband. Over time, she will become a resentful wife in her husband's heart, and sometimes she will even look down on herself.

7. Heavy housework will not be good in the end.

In the era of material economy, everyone is a snob. As a husband, he will only give the full-time wife monthly household income, and will not give the full-time wife extra wages. Therefore, even if the housework is heavy, you cannot exchange tickets directly. Therefore, the value of his stay-at-home wife can easily be buried, which is what is called ungratefulness. The sadness of stay-at-home wives stems from their foolish love and from too many white-eyed men.

8. Children will feel inexplicably empty after they go to college.

If the greatest pleasure of a stay-at-home wife is to watch her husband’s career flourish and chat with her son after school, then when the child goes to college away from home, the stay-at-home wife will suddenly feel bored at home. If you are idle for a long time, you will not only have random thoughts, but also aggravate your own aging. In this state, playing mahjong has become the first choice for entertainment and relaxation for stay-at-home wives. However, playing mahjong is actually playing with money. You can't afford to hurt a general who often loses in mahjong.

9. After her husband cheated on her, she became a different person inside and out.

As a full-time wife, the ideal situation is to find a woman who will never dislike you throughout your life. Life is like gambling. Some stay-at-home wives win, but not all stay-at-home wives win. Once a stay-at-home wife encounters a cheating husband, she will be quite passive. Faced with her husband's cheating, she not only had no way to correct him, but she also made herself no longer human inside and out. Therefore, even if the husband cheats, the right to divorce should still be in the hands of the man.

10. If you can’t keep up with your husband, you will be easily rejected.

What couples fear most is the generation gap. The distance between a successful career and a full-time wife will become wider and wider. When there is no common language between husband and wife, only years of conjugal affection are left to maintain the marriage, making both parties unhappy. Once her husband doesn't like her, she will get a divorce. Ungrateful men will never remember the contributions that full-time wives have made to their families over the years, because in their eyes, a young and beautiful mistress is enough to make them want to stop.

Standards for being a full-time housewife

1. Be able to endure loneliness. As a full-time one-man show, you can only persevere if you are prepared to endure loneliness.

2. The husband should have certain financial strength. Over time, don’t let daily necessities become a factor that affects family stability. My husband's monthly income is 5,000 to 15,000, so he can consider working full-time. This depends on their living standards.

3. Be sure to maintain good communication with your husband. After working full-time, your focus is on your family, but you must communicate more with your husband. The distance between husband and wife will become farther and farther, just like they miss each other.

4. Keep pace with the times. Pay more attention to hot events and news, and don’t keep up with the times.

5. Cultivate your own interests and hobbies and have your own methods to relieve loneliness.