# # Retired teacher tutoring grandson's homework to knock on the table

In the golden autumn and September, the epidemic situation in the whole country repeated the same mistakes, the extraordinary holidays returned again, and the beast went home and went online for classes. Parents of dual-employees can't accompany them, grandparents go into battle together, and the next generation should be intimate. I didn't expect to be careful one second and vomiting blood the next. When it comes to helping students with their homework, if several parents get together, it is estimated that they can't finish talking for a few days. Parents with bad hearts still don't help with homework. It is a lesson from the past. Students don't have a heart attack when their mothers get angry and never open their eyes again. For students, they will never see their mothers again, which will be a spiritual pain for a generation. Xiaolin's parents are both working families, so it falls entirely to her grandmother who is in her 7s to accompany her students in homework. She has taught primary school students in Grade One and Grade Two all her life, and there are at most 5 children in a class, all of whom can be rated as excellent teachers.

Let's take a look with me after the retired teacher helped his grandson to knock on the table.

The roar of tutoring homework is composed into a song: Behind the true portrayal of thousands of families, these four points are missing.

In recent years, there have been countless news about tutoring children's homework.

there are mothers who are angry with acute cerebral infarction because of tutoring their children's homework; There was a father who was too angry and hammered on the table, resulting in a fracture of the distal end of the fifth metacarpal bone of his right hand; Retired teachers who help their grandchildren with their homework have no choice but to shout "I have peaches and plums all over the world, and I grow bitter melons at home" ... < P > Homework is "practice" for children on their way to study and "torture" for parents on their way to accompany them.

Looking around, in fact, fathers who can really join the ranks of tutoring children are always in the minority, and almost all mothers join the tutoring army. Therefore, many times, as a shopkeeper, the father doesn't understand why the child's mother's tutoring homework is so impetuous.

Today, Xixi's mother brushed such a small video, which is a song called "Your Roar" and tells the true portrayal of thousands of families. The lyrics are like this-

"I heard the voice coming from me, the roar of my wife tutoring the children. I saw her fierce expression and frightened eyes on her face. I didn't understand why you were tutoring the children to do their homework. Looking at the children's tearful eyes, my heart inevitably showed a kind of distressed roar. The whole building heard your roar. Smart children were scared and didn't dare to move. Can you calm down for a minute? Rebellious children are the result of your roar?"

This video quickly became a popular explosion.

Some people can't help but sigh: "If you don't do your homework, your mother will be kind and filial, but if you do it, your chickens will fly and dogs will jump." Some said: "The last sentence is wrong, not because the child rebelled and growled, but because the husband did not act, which caused the roaring. Don't stand and talk like it hurts." Some said, "I want to send it to her. After thinking about it, it is better to have more than one thing."

While lamenting that this netizen is really talented, in fact, we will also find that the content described in the lyrics may also be the "pain" that many fathers want to express. Why did it cause the present situation? Is it really that difficult to tutor children? In fact, in order to solve this puzzle, parents can do this-< P > (1) Parents work together and share counseling matters.

A friend around me told me that her minutes of tutoring children at home would be ignited. First of all, she doesn't like children's bad habit of procrastination; Secondly, she hates the way that her father does nothing but complains that he is too loud.

yes, being a shopkeeper of cutting is by no means one or two fathers. Many dads feel that having a job is their greatest contribution to the whole family. Although the mother of the child is also working to earn money, it seems as if it should fall on the mother of the child to shoulder the burden of tutoring the child and manage the affairs of the family.

I think my daughter, a classmate, has done a great job in tutoring children. My father is responsible for tutoring math and my mother is responsible for tutoring Chinese. In fact, at first, my mother tutored Chinese and math alone, but my father, who was a crazy girl, didn't like my mother's furious rage from time to time, and both husband and wife had quarreled about it many times.

Later, the two discussed "sharing", and one person tutored a course. Sure enough, it wasn't just my mother who collapsed in the tutoring homework, but her father was soon blown up with anger.

One Friday last semester, the couple were worried about their daughter's study for a week, and both of them were in no mood for counseling. So he contacted me and asked me to tell my children about it. They said that it might be because their methods were wrong, so the children never understood it, so they hoped I could help.

Although I told my child twice, she understood, but at least she got it. The child went home and told his parents, "Your tutoring homework is fierce. I will tell it to my mother twice. She didn't get angry at all."

what I want to say is that it is very important to help children with their homework skills, but the division of labor between husband and wife is also very important. If one of them ignores the child's study all the year round, then the one who counsels the child is bound to collapse easily.

(2) according to the workload, adjust the alarm clock or stopwatch.

It is a common way for many parents to keep their children doing their homework. Parents will feel that if they don't watch their children, they will look around and touch them. Therefore, in order for children to finish their homework faster, parents have to keep it all the time.

However, this method seems to be effective in the short term, but in the long run, children will become dependent on their parents, leading to desertion as long as their parents leave.

One minute I kill time by going to the toilet, one minute I bite my pencil, one minute I write with my right hand and play with toys, one minute I stand on tiptoe to look out of the window, and one minute I look at what my parents are doing through the crack of the door ...

The biggest taboo in helping my children do their homework is to watch them all the time. Because many parents can't help themselves, once they find that their children are not serious or do the wrong questions, parents can't help but want to get angry, which leads to the children shivering inside, having no mind to think about problems at all, but indulging in the shadow of fear for a long time.

according to children's homework, it will actually be much better to set an alarm clock or adjust a stopwatch so that children can finish their homework conscientiously under the constraints of time.

(3) Develop the habit of reviewing before homework.

Many parents will find that children actually bury themselves in their homework when they come home, but they have to turn over books or look it up in the dictionary because they don't have a firm grasp of it, which also leads to their slow homework writing. At the same time, it has become an important fuse for parents to fly into a rage when they help their children with their homework.

In this regard, Xixi suggested that parents cultivate the good habit of reviewing their children's homework first. Why do you say that?

First of all, consolidating what the school learned that day will help the children to deepen their memory and help them to think clearly and remember deeply when answering questions. Secondly, the quality of children's homework has improved, in fact, the contradiction between parents and children will be avoided a lot.

Finally, many children in life don't regard reviewing as homework at all. It seems that after the written homework is completed, I am completely liberated, so I close my books and play quickly. Some parents may ask their children to review, but in fact, children at this stage are already thinking about having fun, so there is no need to calm down and review carefully. Therefore, if review is put at the end, the quality is basically zero.

(4) Pay attention to the combination of work and rest.

Many parents have such a misunderstanding, that is, let their children finish all their homework in one breath, and then let them play happily. But in fact, as far as Chinese, mathematics and English in primary schools are concerned, it is quite difficult for children to finish it in one breath.

First of all, children's concentration time is not too long. If they do their homework for one or two hours, they will inevitably feel irritable and tired, which will greatly reduce the quality of their homework later. Secondly, parents are often prone to emotional collapse when tutoring their children's homework. If children are immersed in this environment of doing homework and being scolded for a long time, it is easy to weaken their interest in learning.

So, Xixi's suggestion is to take a moderate rest after finishing each subject's homework. Just like children at school, they will have a ten-minute break after 4 minutes of class.

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The netizen said, "It's not easy to accompany students, but it's ok and cherished." But what I want to tell you is that as long as you master certain methods and skills, you don't have to get a field where chickens fly and dogs jump to help your children with their homework.

The 7-year-old grandmother helped her grandson with his homework, and the retired teachers also bowed down to the wind. Netizen: Whoever helped him went crazy

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In the golden autumn of September, the national epidemic situation repeated the same mistakes again, and the extraordinary holiday returned again, and the beast went home and went online for classes. Parents of dual-employees can't accompany them, grandparents go into battle together, and the next generation should be intimate. I didn't expect to be careful one second and vomiting blood the next.

When it comes to helping students with their homework, if several parents get together, it's estimated that we can't talk for days. Parents with bad hearts still don't help with homework. It is a lesson from the past. Students don't have a heart attack when their mothers get angry and never open their eyes again. For students, they will never see their mothers again, which will be a spiritual pain for a generation.

In the matter of accompanying students to do homework, retired teachers are also candidly admit defeat, and they don't kiss each other for generations.

Xiaolin's parents are both working families, and the matter of accompanying students to do homework falls entirely to her grandmother who is over 7 years old. She has taught primary school students in Grade 1 and Grade 2 all her life, and each class can be rated as an excellent teacher with up to 5 children.

It's a very happy thing that Grandma can still play the afterheat at home after retirement. So many students can handle it with ease, and one in this family can still be arrogant.

Try to look at the photos and show grandma's face. It is true that this student is more tired than more than 5 students in the class. One second, he is careful, and the next second, he flies into a rage and almost vomits blood.

The initiator is the student's mother, which seems to be funny and distressing. At her age, if her personality is extreme and she gets angry again, what to do? She not only gnashes her teeth, but also slaps her left shoulder at every turn.

it's almost the same to look at the students who are not in the first grade. I still remember that when my students were this old, my father helped me with my homework. It's not an exaggeration to talk about a topic for an hour, but after handing it over to the teacher of the trusteeship institution, the students came back and said only one sentence, "Mom, I didn't understand my father in the next hour. I will understand if the teacher says a word."

The sentence "You can't cut your own handle with your own knife" is too apt, which is suitable for grandma and dad.

There are countless students with the same class, and the comment area is exploding. Netizen: Who counsels who is crazy

Just now, the author was consulting the parents of the students to decide whether to choose the school's delayed service or to go to the custody after school in the third grade. The parents answered simply: the custody fee has been paid, and I don't want to tutor my homework. I am hosting my homework and going home to eat and sleep.

There are countless parents of the same age. If they don't want to help their students with their homework, they can live for many more years. Otherwise, they may be angry that day, and they don't want to go through the history of blood and tears in tutoring homework again. Not only do they don't want to be in charge, but they can't afford to be hurt by a beast at home.

Take the case of grandma, a retired teacher, as an example. In fact, the luckiest thing is the student's mother. Grandma has a high cultural quality and can help students with their homework. Otherwise, there are countless elders who embellish it.

Come on, a god beast who can't do homework normally can't afford to be hurt. Some parents said that when she was helping her daughter with homework, there were many people with mammary gland hyperplasia or breast nodules, and her heart ached with anger, so she didn't dare to help her students with homework at all. She really answered the sentence, "If you don't do homework, the family will be happy, and when you do homework, the chickens fly and dogs jump at home."

Some people even feel sorry for their grandmother. Our parents are young and energetic, and they are all afraid of the situation in their homework. This grandmother is too old, so it is one of the things that makes her angry with her grandchildren. If she is angry with her grandparents, it will not be worth the loss.

Tutoring homework has become a "difficult problem", so teachers can't be given full responsibility, and the planning time of cultivating habits is the premise.

There are more than 5 students in each class, and at least 4 students, and the teachers' energy is limited. Even the best teachers can't take care of each other. It is very important for parents to cooperate in tutoring students' homework.

The picture below shows a schedule that Peking University's mother gives her students such management after school. I heard that it is not a problem to get into the top three of the class easily. As can be seen from the picture, it is very important to combine work and rest and preview in advance.

Take a rest, relieve the study pressure, create good study habits, and do things without procrastination. The combination of preview and review can not only digest the learning content completed by the teacher on the same day during the school period, but also preview and plan the learning content on the next day.

All parents should understand the principle of "bitter before sweet". Learning time is learning time, and free allocation of time means free allocation of time. You can watch TV, play games and do whatever you want. Everyone needs his own time and space.

Reading before going to bed is essential. Good reading habits can not only increase students' reading and writing speed, but also broaden their knowledge to prepare for future study. Talk with students to learn about the little things in school, find some shortcomings, check the gaps, make plans, and fall asleep at a specified time.

I have something to say: study habits and time management are not formed overnight, and they need the supervision and implementation of students and parents. After the habit is formed over time, parents will not be particularly tired, and the number of chickens flying and dogs jumping will be reduced.

Today's topic: What good study habits and methods do your students have that are worth learning from? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area for discussion.