After the divorce, my ex-wife said to me, "Your mother's illness has nothing to do with me. I have to go shopping. " What should I do?

If you want there to be no contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, or if you meet a reasonable mother-in-law, no matter what your daughter-in-law does, she is unwilling to haggle with her daughter-in-law and live a more open life.

Either you have to have a husband with high emotional intelligence, the one caught in the middle, but it can play a big role.

If these two people don't meet, then even if there is a serious contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is a natural phenomenon.

When Zhou Ying was shopping with his best friend, she received a phone call from her ex-husband, Jiang Hao. Jiang Hao was going on a business trip and begged Zhou Ying to help him take care of his mother for a few days.

Zhou Ying refused cruelly, and what her former mother-in-law had done to her came to her mind one by one.

When Zhou Ying married Jiang Hao, Jiang Hao's family gave a bride price of100000, and Zhou Ying's parents withheld this100000 and only gave her a dowry of home appliances worth more than 20000 yuan.

Zhou Ying also knows that it is untenable for her parents to do so, but she also understands her parents. She has a younger brother under her. Her parents don't earn much, and her brother is getting married soon. With this 100 thousand yuan, they can solve many problems.

Besides, the bride price is for the woman's parents, and no one can find fault.

Because of this, Jiang Hao's mother was adamant about Zhou Ying. Since she got married, she has never given Zhou Ying a good look. She thinks Zhou Ying is cheating their family out of money.

Zhou Ying, who just got married, doesn't know much about her mother-in-law and her family background is not strong, so she dare not say much. She feels that as long as she is kind to her mother-in-law, her mother-in-law's resentment against her will definitely disappear.

They live in the city and their mother-in-law lives in her hometown. Zhou Ying often goes back to see her mother-in-law, always carrying big bags and never empty-handed. She also arranges her mother-in-law to go to the hospital for physical examination every year.

Take care of her mother-in-law, is meticulous, many unexpected things in Jiang Hao, Zhou Ying thought of one by one, and did it.

This is not because Zhou Ying has done so much that her mother-in-law has changed her opinion, not at all. Especially when giving birth to a daughter, my mother-in-law heard that it was a granddaughter, so she didn't come to the hospital, and Confucius was attended by Zhou Ying's mother. Her mother-in-law didn't say a word of concern.

Zhou Ying has paid so much, but her mother-in-law hasn't changed her attitude. The main reason is Jiang Hao. In front of his mother, Jiang Hao didn't say a good word for Zhou Ying, and he resented the bride price left by his in-laws.

A few years later, Zhou Ying was unexpectedly pregnant with her second child. She didn't want to have a baby. Later, she thought that maybe she could change her mother-in-law's view of her by having a grandson. When the second-born grandson was born, her mother-in-law remained indifferent.

Later, Zhou Ying clearly knew that her mother-in-law didn't prefer boys to girls, but just didn't like her. No matter what her background is, her mother-in-law will not change her opinion.

Since my mother-in-law doesn't like it and my husband doesn't speak for her, it doesn't make sense to go on like this. So Zhou Ying asked for a divorce, but Jiang Hao wouldn't. Finally, at Zhou Ying's insistence, she divorced.

Zhou Ying took her daughter and left her son to Jiang Hao. After the divorce, Jiang Hao's mother had a hard time. Jiang Hao needs to go to work, no one takes care of the children, and the children are too young to be sent to kindergarten, so she has to be taken care of by Jiang Hao's mother.

Jiang Hao's mother was used to being at leisure. She was very tired with her children and fell ill at once. It happened that Jiang Hao needed a business trip, so Jiang Hao turned to Zhou Ying for help. "My mother is ill, can you take care of me? I need a business trip, just for a few days, please. "

"Mr. Jiang, you must be clear, ok? We are divorced now. Your mother's illness has nothing to do with me. Don't look for me, okay? I'm shopping with my best friend now, and I don't have time to take care of your mother. Sorry. " Zhou Ying hung up the phone without saying anything.

If at the beginning in the marriage, Jiang Hao could speak for Zhou Ying and know how to protect his wife, his marriage would not have come to this point. Now, things can only be borne by himself. In contrast, Zhou Ying is very moist and does not have to live in that depressing environment.

As a man, if you don't want this to happen in your marriage, please learn to be a man with high emotional intelligence after marriage. Don't say you can't. If you don't want to learn, you will never learn.

As a mother-in-law, if you don't want such a tragedy to happen, please be kind to your daughter-in-law. It is not easy for her to get married alone. You should learn to be considerate of your daughter-in-law. It is not easy to know her.