The post-90s love period is very short. Why?

Short love period is a common phenomenon. The love period of post-90s generation is very short, which may be due to the following reasons:

First: the influence of social times. Now that the society is open and the population is floating, it is easy for us to meet better people than our boyfriend and girlfriend, and lovers have more choices. Secondly, the pace of life in modern society is getting faster and faster. Falling in love is like eating fast food. If it doesn't fit, replace it and start over.

Second: the change of ideas. In previous times, there were no more choices for arranged marriages. As long as you have been in love once, you will get married regardless of whether the other person is good or not. But today is different from the past. People can have more choices and more opportunities to choose the right person. They will pay more attention to each other's comfort. Therefore, there is a saying that "things were broken before, everyone repaired them, and now they are replaced directly." To some extent, it does make sense.

Third: too many temptations. In the era of transparent information, many apps and social platforms on the Internet, large-scale dating programs, and marriage and love markets all make it easier for everyone to obtain heterosexual resources. Therefore, if they feel inappropriate during their relationship, they will find the next one.

Fourth: Lack of trust and communication in love. Girls will be jealous because boys say hello to a girl, will be suspicious because boys chat with a girl, and will think that boys don't like themselves because of a joke; Boys will think that the jealousy of girls is not cute, not like, but possessiveness, vanity and so on. I don't know why, but after the love period, I always become cold.

Whether it is love or marriage, trust is the bond between them. Without trust, love will naturally not last long.

Fifth: Love is no longer pure. Girls will stay with boys for money; Boys and girls are together because they look good. The premise of love is not just like. Since its premise is so material and fragile, boys don't want to spend money lavishly on girls. Why do girls want to be with him? Once a girl takes off her makeup, how can a boy like a girl without the beauty of makeup?

Sixth: a strong sense of inferiority. When falling in love, a person will feel particularly inferior and humble, and there will be all kinds of ideas, thinking, "Will the other person not like me?" Will you stop loving me? Do you think I'm ugly and a little fat? Do you think I don't deserve it "And so on a series of ideas, these ideas, will accelerate the emotional division, and eventually break up.

Finally, I hope everyone can maintain the feelings of both sides, don't give up easily, no one is perfect, just find the right people for both sides.