Why are you always unhappy?

China people lack the enthusiasm and entertainment of life, and life is usually step by step. The student's life is three point one line. They live for junior high school, junior high school and college entrance examination. Only study and books, life seems monotonous. The life of people in the workplace is also to go to work, eat and sleep. Precious weekend time is not enough to rest, so it is rare to go out for an outing or entertainment. Maybe when you are old, you will have plenty of time to play, but your health is disappointing and you can't stand traveling and eating and drinking.

Why did Foxconn have many "jumping off a building" incidents in a short time? Because people are not gray ants, the excessive monotony and regularity of life will make people lose their happiness.

China culture has always emphasized "self-cultivation, keeping the family in order, governing the country and leveling the world", and these responsibilities will always give China people more or less pressure. China people are facing many pressures, such as the pressure of work, the pressure of starting a family, the pressure of raising children, the pressure of interpersonal communication and so on. Under these pressures, they are too busy to have time to relieve them. Over time, these pressures not only brought unhappiness to China people, but even hurt their health.

Nowadays, people have abandoned their beliefs and failed to establish a new philosophy of life. Life has lost its direction and the means to control happiness, which leads many people to choose unhappiness in happiness. The happiness, troubles and pains of each of us are not because of the thing itself, but because of our ideas and attitudes towards the problem. As Milton said, "consciousness itself can turn hell into heaven and heaven into hell."

Without faith, it is easy to build values on some external things, and even compare with each other, expecting others' success and feeling humble; Look up at the happiness of others and lament your own misfortune; Compare the success of others and resent your own frustration; Compare the happiness of others and amplify your own pain.