How to avoid the embarrassment of blind date depends on what these four people say.

Nowadays, boys and girls, if they graduate from college for two years, or don't have boyfriends or girlfriends after the age of 25, their parents will start to worry, and they will arrange seven aunts and eight aunts to help you introduce blind date.

For men and women who meet for the first time, they are inexperienced, and sometimes they are more or less embarrassed because they don't know each other, which leads to the failure of blind date, or makes jokes and loses face, which is also a kind of harm to the introducer. Then I want to avoid the embarrassment of blind date and improve the success rate. After chatting with friends, there are mainly the following points for discussion:

0 1 Keep a relaxed attitude.

Most boys and girls will accept blind dates arranged by relatives and friends at school age when they have no boyfriend or girlfriend, but they will be very nervous and will not truly express themselves at the first blind date.

Fish has been married for a year. She smiled and said, I am very nervous to know that my parents are going to arrange my first blind date. I will be very nervous two days before a blind date. My experienced sister told me to dress up well and put on beautiful clothes to make myself feel beautiful before dating. The best place to discuss dating with each other is a park or a bright place with a wide field of vision. Sure enough, the blind date was easy, and it was pleasant to communicate with him, and it was not awkward at all.

02 Reject high cold

Some excellent men and women with capital will hold a cold attitude and think that they are in good condition, and they will look superior and will not feel that they are not wanted. In this state of mind, the atmosphere will become awkward and the other party will not be able to get close to you.

Ouyang's blind date is very embarrassing. On the first blind date, her parents introduced a white man. Ouyang's family conditions are not bad, and he looks good. But at the appointed date and place, Ouyang waited for an hour and a half, but she didn't come and didn't return a message. Two hours later, she left slowly without apologizing. Ask her what she wants to eat, she casually says, and talk to her about any other topic. Her answer was no more than five words, expressionless, as if she owed her money, and the atmosphere froze awkwardly.

Be humorous.

Seeing your humor is the best way to open your heart. After all, it is the first blind date. We are strangers to each other and know humor. The other person will gradually become interested in you, make the other person smile, the indifferent attitude will disappear, and the topic box will open.

Zhiqiang is an ordinary person with ordinary conditions, and everyone envies him for marrying a good wife on a blind date. Zhiqiang is usually cheerful and optimistic about life, which is the pistachio of his friends. On blind date, Zhiqiang will share some interesting things with each other, or tell a joke, or play a small game, and give each other a silence from time to time, which makes the girls laugh. There is no embarrassing atmosphere, and it will also enhance the other party's goodwill towards themselves, which is a very good plus item.

Looking for each other * * has a hobby.

The first blind date, if you meet someone who makes you feel excited, it is an excellent starting point for you to let the other person know about yourself and your hobbies, and the other person will get to know you soon; Hobbies are also the best way to gradually consider each other's hearts. Hobbies make the topics you talk about colorful. Therefore, if you can find the same interests and hobbies, it will also help your blind date to resolve the embarrassment.

Xiaohua said that I met a man I like on a blind date and wanted to know everything about him, so I tried to say that I recently joined a photography circle, which was full of photographers, and everyone would take pictures of migratory birds together on weekends. I didn't say anything, which immediately aroused his interest. It turns out that he also likes photography and has a lot of research on photography technology. That day, the chat was very pleasant and the atmosphere was very friendly. Now that man is my boyfriend.

In a word, I personally think that blind date is an art, with many doorways, such as keeping warm, having a good attitude, being polite, respecting each other, smiling, and making the other person feel that you are a positive person. At the same time, it is also a fate to refuse indifference and arrogance and meet each other on a blind date. If you can't be lovers, you can be friends. As long as we communicate with them sincerely, the awkward atmosphere will not appear.

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Author: Night Prince (Image from the Internet, invasion and deletion)

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