A good marriage is always evenly matched.

The best marriage is not that you are responsible for supporting the family, but that I am responsible for being beautiful, but that we are evenly matched. You are good, and I am not bad. With you, I am the icing on the cake, as brilliant as you.

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Recently, a news triggered a hot discussion among netizens. The thing is, Mr. C, a young man from Hangzhou, is going to buy a wedding room. According to the provisions of the new marriage law on property before and after marriage, he thinks it is ideal to share the funds with his girlfriend.

But the girlfriend's attitude is "each buys his own wedding room", and he will get married if he buys it. This seemingly reasonable request made Mr. C feel incredible and even deeply helpless.

The following comments are almost one-sided, and netizens have expressed their support for girls' practices.

In fact, with the development of the times, women's ideology has undergone great changes. More and more women no longer worry about whether the man adds a name to the house, but instead pay attention to themselves. They know that investing in themselves is more important than relying on men, and a good marriage must be evenly matched.

Mr. C's girlfriend is obviously an independent girl. Even if she enters the marriage hall, she will not give up her growth.

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Xiaoxue and Liangzi met at a friend's wedding. The first time they met, there was a feeling that they had met for a long time. Love cannot stop them. In less than a year, they held a romantic wedding. Many people attending the wedding said that they saw "love" in Xiaoxue and Liangzi.

No one thought that in the fifth year, the realistic fairy tale couple, Lao Yan, parted ways.

Xiaoxue is a nurse in a private hospital, and Liangzi is a middle-level manager in an enterprise. Shortly after the marriage, Xiaoxue resigned angrily because of the doctor-patient relationship. After resigning, she felt that Liangzi's income was enough to ensure their quality of life, and she simply became a full-time wife.

On the other hand, Liangzi, who is a manager in a suit and tie in the workplace during the day, goes home at night. He is a struggler studying at his desk. In the third year of marriage, Liangzi was already an executive of a foreign company.

But Xiaoxue is still the full-time wife who knows shopping and running beauty salons all day. She becomes sensitive and suspicious. When Liangzi comes back late for dinner, she calls every ten minutes. Liangzi didn't answer, and when he came back, he quarreled with others, thinking that Liangzi had a problem outside.

Xiaoxue is very much like Luo Zijun in My First Half Life. Every day, in addition to spending money on maintenance, it is anti-theft, but San Xiao didn't wait, but waited for a divorce document.

When Xiaoxue accused Liangzi of his career achievements and disliked his wife, Liangzi said, "What were you doing when I was working hard in the workplace, when I stayed up late to study for an MBA, and when I came back late at night to talk to someone?" Xiaoxue cried like a pear with rain but was speechless.

Liangzi went on to say, "You're shopping or getting a facial, or watching a bubble idol drama and talking to your best friend on the phone. I have told you more than once that even if you are learning painting or English, you will only stare at my mobile phone and check this and that. I'm tired from work. When I get home, I have to face your unreasonable behavior. We are no longer from the same world. Let's stop here! "

In the end, Xiaoxue's tears failed to bring this marriage back to life.

Marriage begins with love, but even the best love has a shelf life. Finally, it depends on whether the marriage can last.

With the passage of time, people's experience, vision, life circle and social status will change. If you can't keep the same rhythm and frequency, the final result can only be drifting away.

As Tang Jing said in My First Half Life, people who make rapid progress in marriage will always get rid of those who are stagnant, because people's instinct is more to explore the extension and connotation of life.

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Some people say that marriage is a cooperative relationship. Whether you can walk for a long time depends on whether two people are equally capable. Most marriages will be happy if they always keep in sync.

A few days ago, I went to a friend's party and was fed dog food by Yang Yang and her husband. The whole meal time, Yang Yang is only responsible for eating, and her husband is responsible for picking vegetables. They are as sweet as young lovers in love, but in fact, they have been married for eight years.

Yang Yang and her husband walked from school uniform to wedding dress. Throughout the university, the library became a place where they dated. When other couples neglect their studies for love, they all get the highest scholarship.

It is not easy to live from scratch after marriage, but the poor life has not worn away their spirit. During the day, both of them are running around in the workplace, and at night, under a desk lamp, they are immersed in their studies.

After several years of hard work, Yang Yang became a well-known event planner in the industry, and her husband started a law firm in partnership with others.

The most surprising thing is that the "old couple" always have endless topics. When the other person speaks, they look at each other with appreciation and approval. Whenever they encounter difficulties in their work, they will consult each other for the first time. They are good couples in marriage and good partners in life.

If marriage is a cooperative relationship, Yang Yang and her husband are tacit partners. They have the same point of view, the same ability, mutual respect and appreciation. Finally, they escaped the curse of the seven-year itch and turned their lives into poetic ones.

The best marriage is not that you are responsible for supporting the family, but that I am responsible for being beautiful, but that we are evenly matched. You are good, and I am not bad. With you, I am the icing on the cake, as brilliant as you.

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Last year, because of the movie "Evil Does Not Suppress Righteousness", Jiang Wen made a hot search list every two days. This talented and humorous director is too dazzling.

As Jiang Wen's wife, Zhou Yun also attracted everyone's attention. Many people who didn't know Zhou Yun before were attracted by her temperament and beauty. In the eyes of outsiders, one is a well-known director and the other is a less "red" actress, so it is easy to think that they are "dependent".

But this is not the case. Although Zhou Yun was behind the scenes after the marriage, her voice was very loud. At the premiere of "Evil Does Not Suppress Right", a reporter asked Jiang Wen why he chose this place. Jiang Wen smiled and said, "Boss Zhou picked it out. Boss Zhou said it was here."

Boss Zhou is zhou yun, so zhou yun's words carry a lot of weight with Jiang Wen.

When a reporter asked how zhou yun tied Jiang Wen in an interview, zhou yun said disapprovingly, "Why did I tie him, and he had to tie me?" But a word reveals the confidence in zhou yun's bones.

Zhou yun described her relationship with Jiang Wen as follows: If I were a vassal of Jiang Wen, it would be very troublesome. Fundamentally, two people must be equal. In life, if they are complementary, it is a question of balance. Jiang Wen is very talented, but I dare say my personality is definitely more complete than my husband's.

A talented person, a complete personality, although not equal in external name, but equal in spirit, is a truly intimate husband and wife.

When it comes to evenly matched couples, we have to mention "Mr. and Mrs. Okai", one is an Olympic champion and the other is a rich boy. When the two announced their love affair, Hong Kong media reported that Guo Jingjing "climbed up" the Huo family all day.

Just like when Guo Jingjing first met her future mother-in-law Zhu Lingling, all the media were blocked at the door, waiting to embarrass her. When they walked out of the restaurant, the media surrounded Zhu Lingling and asked Guo Jingjing what gift she would get.

Zhu Lingling said to give whatever he likes, and Guo Jingjing next to him said modestly, "Nothing, I will buy whatever I like."

Guo Jingjing is so confident and has capital. As an Olympic champion, she has her own position in sports in China. She doesn't need to flatter her family, and she doesn't need to fight for marrying a rich family. She's just having a close relationship.

In 2008, after Guo Jingjing retired, she was not as eager to marry into a rich family as the outside world speculated, but went abroad to study English and management. She knows better than anyone that being strong is king.

Guo Jingjing's efforts are obvious to all, and her achievements in sports are also recognized by the world.

Finally, the Hong Kong media, who have been waiting to see Guo Jingjing's jokes, are also impressed by her strength. When they got married, the headline used by the media was "diving queen" Guo Jingjing "married" Huo Qigang. You should know that the word "marriage" is generally used in relationships between men and women.

After the marriage, Guo Jingjing was not idle. She continued her studies, received advertisements for tens of millions of endorsement fees, and actively participated in various public welfare activities. She and her husband always keep hand in hand.

Both Zhou Yun and Guo Jingjing use their individuality and independence to make men around them appreciate and spoil them all the time. Such a woman deserves a happy marriage at any time.

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There is a saying in "Jane Eyre" that love is a game, and we must always be equal and evenly matched, so that we can depend on each other for a long time.

Because too strong opponents will make people tired, and too weak opponents will be bored.

In fact, marriage is like a balance, and the lag of either party will easily lead to the imbalance of marriage. If it is not corrected in time, it will easily lead to the disintegration of marriage.

A truly long-lasting marriage cannot be separated from the combination of the three views. They can travel around the world with fresh clothes and horses, and they can also eat rice, oil, salt, poetry, wine and tea.

Forever is never a legend, but the ability to stand on your own feet in marriage. Only by experiencing together, growing together, facing together and becoming winners in life can we realize our dream of growing old together.

Therefore, I hope you can meet a lover who appreciates each other for the rest of your life and run an intimate marriage.