Will you still be kind after your good intentions are treated like a donkey’s liver and lungs?

I should not be kind. I have done things that I have done to treat my kindness as a donkey's liver and lungs. I was obviously enthusiastic about helping others, but I would be scolded by others. I will not do such things in the future. . Because I think that since I have been scolded by you, I will never help you again, because I think it is human nature to be kind, but since I am kind to you and you are malicious to me, I will definitely not be kind to you again. , I am not a soft persimmon, you can use it to pinch me.

The situation I am talking about is relative to one person. If you have been kind to others, but were treated like a donkey, and then you find another person and want to help him enthusiastically, I think it is still okay. of. Because everyone is different, sometimes the person you helped once was not grateful to you, but it is possible that the person you helped later will definitely be grateful to you. So I think this matter should be discussed on a case-by-case basis. It doesn’t necessarily mean that your good intentions will be regarded as a donkey’s liver and lungs. It mainly depends on the person you meet.

In fact, there are always some inexplicable people in this world. You have obviously helped them, but they are still scolded by others. I think the most common thing is that the husband beats his wife. If you are a passerby, you I went to help my wife, and then said some very serious words to my husband. It is possible that my wife will scold you in turn. I have seen such a thing. I actually think this passerby is very innocent. He is obviously helping you out of a sense of justice. And that wife feels like she has no IQ and doesn't need your help. I think it's weird. Therefore, it may cause some well-intentioned people to treat it as a donkey liver and lung, and then they will no longer be enthusiastic about helping these things.